Seeking Arrangements/Sugar Daddy - Any Experiences ??

I think pay as you go works better than long term leases.

Yackityyak said:

So, my brother's girlfriend disclosed to him last weekend that she had had a six month 'arrangement' last summer with a sugar daddy that she met off of a website called seeking arrangements (which I have since checked out). My older bro was pretty shocked to hear this and why the hell she told him this tidbit is way beyond me. (Mental note to self for future reference: Don't be an idiot and disclose this type of information to anyone).

My brother is now thinking about breaking it off which is not the issue I'm writing about here. BTW, she's a looker and a really good person so I think he's a nut bar anyways to let her go.

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Side note: remind your brother that she chooses to spend time with him free of charge, so he should be flattered

you see them on cl sometimes.
I always assumed they were a scam.


called a girl up of cl to find out more.

she basically told me she provide service to me every week.
and in return, i would pay upfront $2000 for the month.

I dont think i even said a word after that, before hanging up

So the GF was a whore for a guy last summer. She may very well do it again. If that's okay with your brother, no more about it.

BUT she hid this little business venture from him, knowing full well he would likely not approve. She can do what she wants, but deception does not bode well for the relationship. Odds are high there will be a lot more of hiding of whatever (far exceeding just sexual encounters) in the future with this girl.

She's obviously not trustworthy. Tell your brother to dump her.

Sonny said:

So the GF was a whore for a guy last summer. She may very well do it again. If that's okay with your brother, no more about it.

BUT she hid this little business venture from him, knowing full well he would likely not approve. She can do what she wants, but deception does not bode well for the relationship. Odds are high there will be a lot more of hiding of whatever (far exceeding just sexual encounters) in the future with this girl.

She's obviously not trustworthy. Tell your brother to dump her.

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Yup, what he said

While I have not had experience with "Seeking Arrangements", I've had multiple long term relationships of this type with overall very positive experiences.

BTW - for the person that balked at $2000 a month. $2000 a month for a exclusive relationship of this type is well below the normal financial expectations commonly provided in a true sd-sb arrangement. I have typically paid 3 to 4 times this much and many arrangements of this type involve even much higher monthly payments.

Also, I am not sure why she should be considered untrustworthy. It sounds as if she told him about it. Lol, it is probably not the type of thing you communicate on the first few dates. He did not say that the relationship was during the time his brother was seeing her.

JC

Claptix said:

BTW - for the person that balked at $2000 a month. $2000 a month for a exclusive relationship of this type is well below the normal financial expectations commonly provided in a true sd-sb arrangement.
JC

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actually i was more conerned about paying 2000 upfront, then find out her phone is no longer in service after the first time we met/

prepaying an sp, seems like a really bad idea

I have done it

I have tried it the past with some great success. One girl I meet three times a month for about six months and I really just gave her pocket money - maybe $400 a month.

It was just like have a part-time girlfriend (discreet because she was half my age).

There are girls in the twenties that want to try the older guy thing or like the idea of being a mistress. If you are in ok shape and don't look like a troll than you have a chance.

Hey Yack,

If you're serious about trying it why not just ask your brother's gf. If she was OK doing it once I'm sure she'll do it again. Maybe you'll get a family discount.

I always think it is funny how on this site and others that men who are willing to pay for what they want are deemed "stupid".

What raises my eyebrows are those worrying about if a girl charges $200 instead of $160. If $40 is so important to someone I would wager they should not be spending money on companionship.

I would also wager that there is little truly known about the nature of real SB-SD relationships by those that would refer to me as stupid for the amount of remuneration involved.

I am not saying I am the smartest person around but I am successful enough to be able to afford some of the better things in life and I am glad that I am.

For the most part, I have enjoyed these arrangements. and, with the exception of one, none of them required me to question my intellect. I do admit that one of them did though. But what is life without experimentation.

In the end though, if you wish to go out (whenever you wish) with a beautiful, sensual, and articulate woman who is always dressed to the nines, it will have a certain financial expectation attached to it. Armani dresses and Chanel purses do not grow on trees.

JC

What raises my eyebrows are those worrying about if a girl charges $200 instead of $160. If $40 is so important to someone I would wager they should not be spending money on companionship.

I would wager that you get cleaned out by casinos and women quite frequently. Just because you have money doesn't mean you have to be stupid with it. That $40 you speak of is the difference between paying for a service and getting hosed for it. I doubt you have enough money that money doesn't matter to you. With your type of thinking I will happily direct all of the gold diggers your way. The good ones won't need my direction, as they can smell a sucker like you a mile away.

Claptix said:

I am not saying I am the smartest person around but I am successful enough to be able to afford some of the better things in life and I am glad that I am.

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It's just jealousy and envious whining, Claptix. If you're financially successful and can afford it, I say more power to you and your chosen SB.

I don't think I'm as well-heeled as you but I do all right, and for the right SP and the right services I'll pay up to what most here would consider a big mortgage payment. And why the heck not? It's my money.

trackstar said:

Just because you have money doesn't mean you have to be stupid with it.

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If I were a billionaire, I'd be 'stupid' with money and not give a fuck. Someone who makes over $50 million a year in interest-bearing certificates alone would be about as concerned over $1000 as you or I would be about losing a nickel down a storm drain.

turquine said:

If I were a billionaire, I'd be 'stupid' with money and not give a fuck. Someone who makes over $50 million a year in interest-bearing certificates alone would be about as concerned over $1000 as you or I would be about losing a nickel down a storm drain.

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And this site is full of such people right? Be realistic. That was a stupid point to make

Exotic Non-Pro said:

You would be quite surprised. Maybe not the billionaire, but there has to be a few millionaires using this site. Especially when a million dollars is not considered a lot of money nowadays.

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It's not? It would be alot to me and alot of other people I'm sure. But thanks for reminding me to buy a 6/49 ticket for tonight.

Jason_96 said:

It's not? It would be alot to me and alot of other people I'm sure.

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Not when most of the Vancouver homes are selling for 800+K - I know what someone has to make to qualify for a mortgage of this leverage, do YOU ?? - I'm with Non-Pro none of you have any idea what others make - including us girls - you all speculate but the truth is - jealousy is more the norm.

I'm currently in my second SD-SB relationship - and you'd never know by looking at my SD what he makes a month. Most people make a year what he makes month - ~urrrggggg~ An SD-SB relationship is about more than sex; it's companionship.

If anyone that calls me bickers about 40/50 dollars - my reply is always - ~meh~ if you need to keep the 40/50 dollars you likely need it more than me. Shop in your price range, make arrangements in your target market, but you don't get to come on here a complain about poor service when you paid 120 for fs ~urrrgggg~

Exotic Non-Pro said:

You would be quite surprised. Maybe not the billionaire, but there has to be a few millionaires using this site. Especially when a million dollars is not considered a lot of money nowadays.

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Any one who bought a house in Vancouver, Burnaby or Richmond more than 10 years ago and paid off most of their mortgage is probably a millionaire, but I would hardly call him wealthy.

Awe SHIT! Not THIS discussion AGAIN!

Panther

trackstar said:

And this site is full of such people right? Be realistic. That was a stupid point to make

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Whether or not this site is full of such people is irrelevant. You first argued:

Just because you have money doesn't mean you have to be stupid with it.

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And I just demolished your above argument. Very wealthy people can be and indeed are stupid with money, and it means fuck all to them. Everything is relative, genius.