A few questions...

Danika

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So I was told that my real name showed up on my work phone...
LOL for a year now. I fixed that....maybe a bit too late;)


Then I was told CraigsList can be a good way to advertise, and to avoid anoying calls...just don't give your # ...ok that helped me in Edmonton I can deal with junk emails!...

Then one of my girlfriends said:

For security purposes give your email/pm then once appointment has been arranged give your phone#....NEVER your room # until they make the call saying they are close by...


I understand the benifits of doing this...Security...convienence in case you are a few minutes behind you can request that your date wait for you...and this also allows you to screen better for guys that waste your time...

I was wondering what the guys think about having to email or pm...and wait for my response...I mean what if they want a last minute appointment? I don't want to sit around my computer all day!

Just wondering how other ladies confirm their dates and the reason why?

And how do the men feel about arranging time via email/pm then recieve the phone# then call to get room#...does this effect your desire to book with that lady who does this method...or do you understand because we should do this for our safety?

xoxo
Curious Danika.
 

Aeiyah

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I've noticed that with other people (friends, SP's, and people who call me in general) who use Fido. Unless you specifically ask them not to, Fido will display your name along with the phone number on outgoing calls.
 
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Danika, This is a tough question to answer and this is why. Girls such as yourself and others on perb who are regularly logged onto, it's easy to arrange a session on here by pm or email.

Then there are girls on here who not always logged on as often and you need to phone them if someone wants a session that same day say and who knows if they check they're emails daily.

On craigslist, they're alot of girls who dont even return email. They want you to call.
So, I honestly don't think theres an answer to this. It should be what works best for you.
If dont want to be around your computer all the time, there's always texting.
This is a tough one but I'm DEFINETLY ON BOARD for your and other girls safety. Safety is #1.:)

I've pm'd the girls on here and thats worked for me so I dont have a problem with email/pm.
For others though who have a major busy lifestyle, that could be a tough.

Sorry Danika, but I'm not sure if my answer helped.

Be safe and happy sugar cube!:)
 

FortunateOne

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side note: I find that some people also have too much info in their email addresses, not just the phone caller ID info. Even for your real job, nobody needs to have your full first and last names. (not the email address, but the name you have registered. This comes up when someone receives an email from you)

A phone call that wastes your time is maybe 30 seconds of your day. No big deal, and the big benefit of doing everything by phone is that you are easily and readily accessible, and available on short notice. If you are busy or can't answer, they will just have to learn to leave a voice message.:rolleyes:

Emails take longer to read, respond to and await replies, so I'd recommend making your primary option via phone calls. Emails and pms will never be as fast as the phone, but if they aren't in a hurry or want to find out in advance about coming to see you, you can always advertise that you can't reply quickly to emails, or put on an auto response with some FAQs or the days schedule, your phone #, and the recommendatiion that they phone you for best results. :)

Then for actual appts, rely on phone confirmations within an hour of the appt time, or consider them a no show. No need to waste more of your time, and you are free to book a short notice appt (And actually this goes both ways. If the sp you have a pre-booked appt with doesn't answer this close to your appt time, then leave a message cancelling.) The only way to do this is to rely on phone calls.

If it has worked for you up until now, keep using what works best for you, makes you feel safer and more at ease. This will reflect in your sessions and whoever comes to see you will benefit. :D
 

kidstone

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I see nothing wrong with setting up dates by email, but then using the phone for the actual room # right before.

I wouldn't want to have to use email right before the date, since I'm not online all the time. I don't like having to find an internet connection right before I'm supposed to be somewhere.

Thing to remember if it's a quick set-up is that a guy might be right in the mood at that moment, but five minutes later he might not. So yes, with a full hard on a guy is likely to call up an SP, fully intending on being there, but five minutes later after he's made the call and he's whacked off at the thought of it, his mood has changed and he doesn't show up. So I think short term set-ups are more likely to turn sour.

Whereas if a guy has made a commitment a day or so in advance, he's not doing it because he wants it right then, it's a more deliberate commitment--so he's more likely not to be a time waster. If you get what I mean.
 

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For security purposes give your email/pm then once appointment has been arranged give your phone#....NEVER your room # until they make the call saying they are close by...


I understand the benifits of doing this...Security...convienence in case you are a few minutes behind you can request that your date wait for you...and this also allows you to screen better for guys that waste your time...

I was wondering what the guys think about having to email or pm...and wait for my response...I mean what if they want a last minute appointment? I don't want to sit around my computer all day!


And how do the men feel about arranging time via email/pm then recieve the phone# then call to get room#...does this effect your desire to book with that lady who does this method...or do you understand because we should do this for our safety?

xoxo
Curious Danika.
Well, I am quite comfortable with the e-mail/PM part in general, but I might also be interested in a last-minute appointment, so that could be a problem.

Most significant is the fact that I don't have a cell phone so it could be considerably inconvenient for me to make that final confirmation. It would really help if you would not only give the location of a nearby payphone which could be used with coins late at night(?) if need be, but also make certain to answer calls from pay phones during the window of time I might be expected to make such a confirmation call.

I respect the safety measures that you have in place and anyone who e-mails you probably knows that his unique e-mail identification gives him away in the event he might do you any harm. With that being the case, hopefully you do what you can to make such an arrangement easy and hassle free.
 

jim

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And how do the men feel about arranging time via email/pm then recieve the phone# then call to get room#...does this effect your desire to book with that lady who does this method...or do you understand because we should do this for our safety?

xoxo
Curious Danika.
Hi there hottie!

You described my first visit with the good Dr 'V' to a tee! Did some emails on a Saturday night, then agreed to a Sunday visit. I called her to get the name of the hotel and once I got there called her again for the room #. No problems (obviously since I was first in line on her return :D ).

I think that first and foremost as a visiting SP you should ensure your safety. The format above is not overly intrusive and frankly if the guy doesn't want to follow it, it's his loss.
 

Danika

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Thanks everyone for the feedback!

Jim you rock.

I do have to say Dr.V is one smart lady and I think I will follow her lead on this one...

I can answer emails anytime, but I can't always answer my phone so it makes complete sense...

I have never had any trouble with giving my room # or address out right away but...

doing it that way I have to wait in my room waiting for the guy to show up...a phone call makes things way easier.

thats not the only good reason to do it her way...but thats enough for me.

You are right J., if the guy wants to see me he will pm or email!

xoxo
D.
 

123barney

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I prefer my first conversation to be by email or pm. I feel a little intimidated, or shy i guess at times, and talking via email or pm "breaks the ice" for me. The only problem, as mentioned, is sometimes you have to wait a long time for a response or don't get one at all. But the girls who are not willing to email back are for the most part, the ones I would prefer to avoid.
 

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I prefer my first conversation to be by email or pm. I feel a little intimidated, or shy i guess at times, and talking via email or pm "breaks the ice" for me. The only problem, as mentioned, is sometimes you have to wait a long time for a response or don't get one at all. But the girls who are not willing to email back are for the most part, the ones I would prefer to avoid.
I agree with this 100%

It sucks when you are horny as hell and an SP doesn't get back to you the second that you email them, but it actually can be a life-saver too. How many of the reviews posted here include a client who sets up a quick visit only to have the sp be something utterly scary, but still go through with the appointment, as they see the hole and their balls are full?

Setting things up as stated by the OP ensures the safety of the SP and most likely the satisfaction of the client!
 
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