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SecretSub10

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A loooooooong time lurker on the site, a few posts sometime last year after a couple sessions with Miss T (surprise?:rolleyes:). A bit of background.... my interest with the domme scene started a few years ago when a relationship of mine progressed from plain vanilla into a cuckold type relationship. For some reason, I started to enjoy the dirty aspect of her telling me about what she had done more than it pissed me off that she had been cheating on me. I've long since moved on from that relationship, but the fetishes have lingered and have strangely progressed into variations of a MFM 3some fetishes/cuckold scenarios, and more extremely forced bi scenarios with the girl 'instructing' me on how to please her lover. Not sure just how common this is on the domme scene, but was curious to get a domme's perspective on why they might enjoy forced bi or cuckolding activities?
 

Aeiyah

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I think forced bi is a common fantasy amongst guys who identify themselves as straight, but who are really bisexual. Our culture has conditioned us to believe that anything but heterosexual sex is wrong and being attracted to other guys somehow reduces our masculinity. As a result, most guys repress their bisexual tendencies. Giving up control to a domme let's you explore a desires that, without being forced, you would hesitate to explore on your own.
 
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Yes!

Now here's a topic I can REALLY dig my teeth into.

Nice to hear from you secretsub, AKA 'Chicken' *wink*. You and I have unfinished business and I think of you often.

Cuckholding: those who like it, like it A LOT. Some of my best and highest paying clients are cuck's. I have a guy in NY who pays ridiculous amounts for pics and video's I custom make for him of me with my lover. I email, text and talk to him on the phone about how my lover pleases me in ways he never could. How my lovers cock is so much bigger than his and fills up my pussy so nicely...etc. I've met him several times in NY and he likes to take me lingerie shopping for things my lover will see me in, but he won't.

He's in his 30's, very successful and not bad looking. He's very confident and does well with the ladies, smallish cock or not. He gets something from me that is special for him.

He realized he had these tendencies when an ex girlfriend sent him a pic of her face covered in cum after being with another guy. She did it to piss him off, but it turned him on.

He would love to be forced to suck my lovers cum out of my pussy as the ultimate degrading act. (Unfortunately oral is on my no-go list but if we can get all 3 of us together I'll let him lick cum off the inside of my thigh.)

Why does he love this? Why does any cuck like this? Great question...probably an individual one: SecretSub? I know why I love it. Similar to the voyeur shows I used to do. I am a exhibitionist and a control freak. To show a man what he aches for but not allow him to have it: delicious. To further torture him by telling him he'll never know the pleasure my lover has because his pathetic cock could never please me: heaven. And some think I'm not a sadist? :eek:

As for forced bi, I've made a few men suck cocks who I think got nothing from the actual cock sucking and everything from doing it for me. Because I don't believe the thought of sucking cock makes their cock hard but the extreme nature of the activity, to do something so extreme FOR a woman is an intense thing. I don't think forced bi means the guy is bi....sometimes yes, sometimes no.
 

WASP

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Not sure if this qualifies for Cuckold but here goes.
A couple of weeks back I was enjoying a nice meal with a female companion, we had been enjoying the antics of the waitress.
When my companion told me that she had seen an add on CL for a female that would give massages to both men and women. She then told me that she would like me to call her and have her come to the hotel and give my companion a full massage at my expence while I watched.
I thought well that is a bit kinky, but there again here I am a married man having dinner with a woman some 20 odd years younger then me with a hotel room key in my pocket, so what the heck.
The more I thought about it the more I thought I would enjoy seeing them together; I could hardly wait to get to the room.
Once we were in the room we phoned her number, as with most CL ads “the mail box was full” we even tried to e-mail her, nothing.
Needles to say I was gob smacked I was so looking forward to watching this woman massage the body of my companion, the thought of her fingers caressing those breasts and I just forced to sit there and watch . I was so devastated but I could not get this out of my mind and even while I watched my companion bath her self I kept imagining this other female running her fingers between her thighs.

Oh well, I guess I will just have to add this to my bucket list , just next to “shagging to nymphomaniac twin sisters who own a boozer next to a shooting range”
Ok the shooting range can be an optional add on.
I hope that one day the lady reads this and we can get together and fulfill this even if it is not full Cuckold
 
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SecretSub10

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"Why does he love this? Why does any cuck like this? Great question...probably an individual one: SecretSub?"

For myself, it's a mix of things. It's the other guy witnessing my vulnerability and the associated humiliation, then the voyeuristic nature of being in the same room is exciting, and of course it's the ultimate act of submission and acknowledgement that you are OK with what she is doing.

re: forced bi. I'm still yet to go this far myself, but was more just looking to solicit responses from the dommes here as to whether this act does anything for them? Miss T, Miss Jasmine, Nina Leone, Miss Kittie, anybody else?
 
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Thrilling...

"Why does he love this? Why does any cuck like this? Great question...probably an individual one: SecretSub?"

For myself, it's a mix of things. It's the other guy witnessing my vulnerability and the associated humiliation, then the voyeuristic nature of being in the same room is exciting, and of course it's the ultimate act of submission and acknowledgement that you are OK with what she is doing.

re: forced bi. I'm still yet to go this far myself, but was more just looking to solicit responses from the dommes here as to whether this act does anything for them? Miss T, Miss Jasmine, Nina Leone, Miss Kittie, anybody else?
Secretsub: When you were on your knees before my hard cocked lover and I was taking you from behind I wanted so badly to force your mouth down on that huge cock and make you suck. Pushing your head down with every thrust into your tight little ass. To have you filled in both ends being used like the filthy slut you are...yum. I know you ache for this. I know you try to think about other things but you can't. Sitting in your pretty suit in your fancy office, your cock getting hard and your shame at thinking of a big cock fucking your face like it's a pussy, on your knees, my hand on the back of your head forcing you to take it deeper, tears of shame burning down your cheeks as your orgasm explodes out of you...you can run, but you can't hide from your desires.
 

Young Stud

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^ Damn that's hot!

I have never been one for tasting a cock but the way you write and express the situation you make it much more appealing.

Kind of off topic and a generalization but you "Dom’s" seem way more intelligent than most FS SP providers and come across as enjoying your work. I get the feeling FS Sp's seem to be out there for the $$$, and when asked “If they really enjoy fucking strangers” again I believe they lie.

Before you FS Sp’s jump all over me I am saying this isn’t ALL but appears to be the majority.

Thank you Miss T for your constant input and conversations on this board about sexuality and what is perceived as normal and what isn’t.

I find I'm learning a bit more about my own sexuality from you and a few other of the Dom’s contributing on this board.
 

edmontonsubbie

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wow....

...and you got to meet her lover? Obviously some trust built up in all of that...I love how Miss T just nails the thought process...didn't she do just that SS?

Fuck, I'm old and I got a wee woody just reading it...you lived it.

eddie.

p.s....does anyone know why they would put mica into a ceiling in a 1920's vintage house???....when we cut out the warped panel it looked like mouse droppings...HALT!...glove up!...on closer inspection, it looks like mica or fool's gold. What the hell purpose did it serve???
 

edmontonsubbie

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oops....

^ Damn that's hot!

I have never been one for tasting a cock but the way you write and express the situation you make it much more appealing.

Kind of off topic and a generalization but you "Dom’s" seem way more intelligent than most FS SP providers and come across as enjoying your work. I get the feeling FS Sp's seem to be out there for the $$$, and when asked “If they really enjoy fucking strangers” again I believe they lie.

Before you FS Sp’s jump all over me I am saying this isn’t ALL but appears to be the majority.

Thank you Miss T for your constant input and conversations on this board about sexuality and what is perceived as normal and what isn’t.

I find I'm learning a bit more about my own sexuality from you and a few other of the Dom’s contributing on this board.
you beat me to this post YS! And I'm laughing that you did. It's nice to see such honesty. One of the options that I wished I had put into my little "poll" was....11. I've been burned by SP's who promised the world but delivered something less than expected.

The SP's are cool, the Dommes are cool, the people are cool. That's the beauty of a review board like this...the wheat is seperated from the chaff. (I never knew what chaff was until I got stuck in Saskatchewan for a day).

eddie.
 

Aeiyah

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If the guys who have only fantasized about forced bi aren't calling you

:eek:

they will never know what they are missing

:cool:
 

SecretSub10

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Secretsub: When you were on your knees before my hard cocked lover and I was taking you from behind I wanted so badly to force your mouth down on that huge cock and make you suck. Pushing your head down with every thrust into your tight little ass. To have you filled in both ends being used like the filthy slut you are...yum. I know you ache for this. I know you try to think about other things but you can't. Sitting in your pretty suit in your fancy office, your cock getting hard and your shame at thinking of a big cock fucking your face like it's a pussy, on your knees, my hand on the back of your head forcing you to take it deeper, tears of shame burning down your cheeks as your orgasm explodes out of you...you can run, but you can't hide from your desires.
Miss T, I remember the night very clearly and your words ring true to the headspace that I enjoy so much. One day....
 

Miss Kittie

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Cuckholding - I have not had experience in that - although I do identify as a part time voyeur (vanilla is nice, too). Something about people watching really gets me going. To me it is something I've yet to check off my list - something that I have interest in. It's right up there with tease and denial - although I remember a past post from Miss T about how she once didn't know about her tease and denial actually being tease and denial - I am in the same boat now about much of BDSM - many things that I love to do and now have names for it. Just a baby Domme here really.
As for forced bi - I find that I really enjoy porn that is more about men finding pleasure just from the beauty and true dominance (the control women have over men with sex - its like "see what we do" -hehehehe) than the 'traditional' porn -get the girl off - ta -da , wham bamb thank you maam (boring!)...
- and forcing it (bi or just forced anything)- that seems like quite the control perk! I'm sure there would be quite the 'high' from all and the relinquishing of control has always been my 'drug' of choice. For a man to want to do it - only to please the Domme - that's really intense! I have to agree with Miss T on this one whole heartedly - as I have many times on many posts. Keep it real and just BE.
SINcerely;
-Miss Kittie
 

little Cowboy

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I must say, that while this really isn't for me (that i know of) I appreciate Ms t and her stories, and also the other posters who share their stores.

I find it cool that many can explore their sexuality (on both sides) and accept what they discover. :cool:
 

billstar606

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Ms. T and secret sub

that was a really hot story. i am sure it is even hotter than you were able to tell it for all involved.

I think that too often when one tries to get another to experience their submission they think of force. i think that the more one can be taken to that extreme erotic point, where they are lost in there submisssion and are very trusting of the person that took them there. That is a place where the special experiences is the ultimate. i call that point a place where i become a victim of my own sexuality.

comming down off that intense erotic high there is the realisation of "oh what did i do". i love the comment of Ms. T about the event in that you can run but you can't hide. The domme has such great power when they see us trying to hide from the event; knowing how intense it rally was, and that we will at some time be back again. As we hint about what happened on a previous experience and not rally wanting to admit it to ourselves. She knows all the better and tht she will take one a bit deeper the next time.

As she looks into your eyes with a knowing smile you know your going to do exactly as she says. oh how we wish she would force us because it makes it easier; but she knows she wants to lead us to the door and subit as we enter..thoughts?
 

edmontonsubbie

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oK here i go, as a submissive i must do what my Domme tells me to do. i have sucked Her dildo before and after play. i sure many subs have experienced that. i just not sure if i am ready to orally take a man's penis, the fear i have is Mistress has expressed Her desire to make me into Her cuckold and has referred to me as Her cuckold to Female friends. W/we have not talked specifically but me taking a man penis orally or even when this might happen. The waiting is "killing" me.
Although She says i can talk to Her about anything, perhaps i might express my feelings to her.

Well thank Y/you all for listening to me!:eek:

van '92
no "perhaps" about it van....you need to communicate exactly and precisely...as I'm sure you know.

I met a pretty cool Domme off of collarme who was wicked, strict, and demanding...perfection. She also had the notion that I would become her "fuck toy" for use while out partying with her friends...that would have included sucking off or getting fucked by some other dude.

Initially, I was like..."whoa, that's bit too much for me"...and all of the attendant homophobia that, regardless of what we may profess, is most certainly built into the society in which we operate.

Long story short, we had a conversation on this whole deal and I finally indicated that I would not disappoint her and would ensure that she could use me confidently provided and so long as...I was protected completely....i.e. condoms always....

I did not receive that reassurance and was left with "that will depend on the moment at hand".

We no longer talk.

eddie.
 

Miss Kittie

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Trust...

Again - it all boils down to trust. We all have our boundaries and to trust one person with those - and also trusting ourselves is key in 'pushing' those boundaries. Safe, sane and consensual...
... I am sorry to hear that your boundaries were not respected, edmontonsubbie - I think that trust is paramount to any relationship. I am very clean and safe in regards to play - and that is everyones right and responsibility to uphold.
 

Aeiyah

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Again - it all boils down to trust. We all have our boundaries and to trust one person with those - and also trusting ourselves is key in 'pushing' those boundaries. Safe, sane and consensual...
... I am sorry to hear that your boundaries were not respected, edmontonsubbie - I think that trust is paramount to any relationship. I am very clean and safe in regards to play - and that is everyones right and responsibility to uphold.
Being "forced" to perform any sexual act on a stranger falls under edge play. For many, it's outside their comfort zone. For those willing to go there, you need to be able to trust the domme unconditionally to keep everything safe. I was fortunate enough to have domme provide me with an pleasant surprise once. She knew what I was willing to do and made sure everything was kept safe.
 

PuntMeister

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no "perhaps" about it van....you need to communicate exactly and precisely...as I'm sure you know.

I met a pretty cool Domme off of collarme who was wicked, strict, and demanding...perfection. She also had the notion that I would become her "fuck toy" for use while out partying with her friends...that would have included sucking off or getting fucked by some other dude.

Initially, I was like..."whoa, that's bit too much for me"...and all of the attendant homophobia that, regardless of what we may profess, is most certainly built into the society in which we operate.

Long story short, we had a conversation on this whole deal and I finally indicated that I would not disappoint her and would ensure that she could use me confidently provided and so long as...I was protected completely....i.e. condoms always....

I did not receive that reassurance and was left with "that will depend on the moment at hand".

We no longer talk.

eddie.

Eddie,

Totally agree with you man. No trust, no cuckold. Not my cup 'O Tetley anyway, but I feel for you dude. *dabs tissue on eye crease*.
 
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