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stumpy66

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Hi all

Longtime lurker here..just wanted to throw something out there but first a bit about me..fairly new to the scene but I have been a cd for a long time, going out to clubs ect and enjoying it..not even gonna get into why I do the cd thing or what motivates me in that way as that is a whole different kettle of fish with no probable answer :) anyway i had never really known much about bdsm until a couple years ago i came across some pics of a cd in bdsm typre poses and needless to say it peeked my interest... went to a couple of events pretty much as a lurker but very interested ...

finally i decided to take the plunge and went to a pro domme..was not sure how she would take my request to be "dressed up" during the session but needless to say my fears would soon cleared up as when i finished getting ready and she saw me all dolled up, she seemed even more excited than me which was so cool..anyway i have been slowly trying different things and quickly found that one of my favourites is the bondage side of things...not sure why but the feeling of being tied and helpless is quite exhilerating..i have slowly been working on my pain threshhold too though i doubt i will ever be a pain slut....i am definately willing to try many different things though as i have found most open up new avenues of pleasure for you..

which brings me to my question for the domme's out there...its seems quite a few domme's enjoy seeing a guy dressed like a girl (though i understand not all are into it) and i am just wondering what about it do you like, what parts of it excite you and what you like to see them wearing ect... just curious about some of the motivations behind it..

look forward to hearing from you...stumpy (aka laurie)
 

Miss Kittie

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Leather and lace Oh my!

They say that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery - women are beautiful and I beleive that CDs want to feel that bit of glamour. I've had some that say it can be a form of humiliation - and some that use it as a some kind of reward. I feel a great sense of joy when one asks to be done up in this way. I feel like I am giving a makeover - bringing me back to the innocence of childhood and those wonderful feelings of freedom and non-conformity. Society has its way of placing roles on us and this type of play strips that conformity away and allows one to be free. Thats just my 2 cents. Be good!
SINcerely;
-Miss Kittie
 
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Good question...

which brings me to my question for the domme's out there...its seems quite a few domme's enjoy seeing a guy dressed like a girl (though i understand not all are into it) and i am just wondering what about it do you like, what parts of it excite you and what you like to see them wearing ect... just curious about some of the motivations behind it..
I don't masturbate to images or thoughts of men dressed as women.

When I dress a client up in womens clothing I don't get wet.

Some Dommes will say this is their fetish for marketing purposes, some are telling the truth. You may never know for sure.

I have had some very memorable sessions with cross dressers. One in his 40's who had dreamed of this since he was a boy. We did a complete make-over and as I led him to the mirror with his eyes closed and did the big "Ta-Da!" I will never forget his joy.

I had another who quivered with sexual excitement being before me dressed that way and was soon bouncing up and down on a butt plug acting like a dirty slut and cumming while keeping eye contact with me. Intense.

I notice that many cross dressers take on a Marilyn Monroe kind of sexual femininity in their body language. That's interesting.

Like many of the things I do in session, the particular activity may not personally excite me BUT I feed off of the clients energy. I'm often surprised at how excited I get seeing someone else excited, no matter what's 'doing it' for them.

This includes those who want me to do whatever I want to do, as the act of handing over control is the aphrodisiac for them.

If you are already a cross dresser or you're curious about this, I have a large wardrobe, including shoes, wigs and make up. Panty hose and silky lingerie always feels nice against the skin.

Oh, and as for using ladies clothing for humiliation, I think that's a whole different discussion topic.
 
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