Inspired

vandanz

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I've been inspired by Miss T, Evan and others to share my fantasy. I have explored BDSM for a number of years and the beginnings were not that satisfying because it took me some time to figure out what I was into. I realized, that like Evan, I was not into pain or feminization and the bitchy dominatrix was not the personality I wanted to submit to. The leather, latex, pvc and stiletto heels were definitely part of my fantasy and so was bondage and all that kinky gear designed to leave you completely exposed and at the mercy of woman whose control I was under. And that's another key part, the control was through seduction and the bondage, although physically restraining, also represented the further complete loss of control.

So hopefully that sets the stage for my fantasy. Mistress has restrained me in a sling (my favourite) or in some other fashion which leaves me fully vulnerable and accessible. She slips a blindfold on and then tells me that she needs to train me to control my orgasm. In fact, I am only ever to cum when instructed by her to do so. The door bell goes and I hear the sound of Mistress' stilettos clicking on the floor as she goes to answer the door. Soon I can hear two sets of heels approaching me and can start to make out the conversation. Mistress is explaining to her guest how she is just starting my training and the response from the female guest is that all slaves need to be trained to control themselves and she is happy to help in this training. This to me is part of the humiliation part of the fantasy: I'm bound, naked and blindfolded in front of a total stranger, who I can't even see and she's talking about playing with the most intimate parts of my body.

Next there is some whispering and then the talking stops and I'm in darkness and silence. I can sense someone between my legs and then start to feel an extremely light touch on the inside of my thighs. A feather, maybe a brush. It is very slow, very light and very deliberate. I become rock hard under this touch which gradually works its way from the inside of my thighs, to my ass, my balls and my cock. The touches become increasingly frustrating because I become desperately in need of more contact. When I feel like I can't stand it anymore, the touching stops. And as frustrating as it was, I'm praying that it will start again.

Soon I feel a lubricated finger probing my ass. Mistress' guest comments on how tight I am and that it will take some time to get me to the point where I can be taken up the ass like a real slave. She settles on to my prostate and is slowly massaging it. The blindfold comes off and Mistress says that it's time for the next part of the training.

Mistress pours lube on my cock and starts to slowly and lightly stroke me - with one finger and her thumb. If I was frustrated before, I'm really frustrated now because her touch makes me more desperate for relief but isn't even close to getting me there. Mistress and her guest comment on how much I seem to need to cum and they go on to say that I still have a long way to go, in spite of my pleading. I'm told that apparently, this is for my own good. Over what seems like an eternity, I finally get close to release, in spite of the fact that the stimulation has been frustratingly slow and light. And just when it seem like I'm going to explode, Mistress stops. Oh my god, she can tell exactly when I'm going to cum. She truly is in control. And, up to now, she has avoided what has now become a hyper-sensitive spot: my glans. Mistress starts to slowly and lightly rub the palm of her hand and the head of my cock and seems to take great delight as I buck and writhe under her touch. Who knew that such a light touch could result in such a reaction? Mistress stops when I feel like I'm going to go out of my mind and goes back to her light stroking, alternating between bringing me to the brink and driving me crazy by her palming my glans. I'm brought to the brink several times but eventually the ending is a happy one, although when Mistress does put me over the edge she is saying "you better not be cuming yet" as she continues her slow and light stroking. The sensation are so intense that I can barely hear her mockingly say "oh you bad boy, now we have to start over again."

Comments? And any ladies out there with a really soft touch?
 
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Love it!

Thanks for sharing. That was lovely.

A frustrating part of making your fantasy reality is that 'technically' you would need a Domme who also give hj's, which many don't. I'll admit, reading your story gave me pause.

There is a stigma attached to 'proper' Dommes giving hand jobs. I have done similar scenes either using a vibrator or making the sub bring himself close with his own hand.

To date I have not given a hj to a client (I have done pretty much this exact scene with lovers though). I'm curious to hear feedback from other Dommes and subs as to whether an exception should be made in a scene like this? Does it cross the line between Professional FemDomme and 'escort'?

Thoughts? Opinions?

(Disclaimer: I do not judge anyone who provides sexual services, including JessikaXXX/Nina, etc. I'm speaking from a global perspective on traditionally what Pro Dommes should and shouldn't do. The HJ question is controversial, as is whether a Domme should do a scene in the nude.)
 

Aeiyah

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There is a stigma attached to 'proper' Dommes giving hand jobs. I have done similar scenes either using a vibrator or making the sub bring himself close with his own hand.

To date I have not given a hj to a client (I have done pretty much this exact scene with lovers though). I'm curious to hear feedback from other Dommes and subs as to whether an exception should be made in a scene like this? Does it cross the line between Professional FemDomme and 'escort'?

Thoughts? Opinions?

(Disclaimer: I do not judge anyone who provides sexual services, including JessikaXXX/Nina, etc. I'm speaking from a global perspective on traditionally what Pro Dommes should and shouldn't do. The HJ question is controversial, as is whether a Domme should do a scene in the nude.)
Interesting, a friend and I recently talked about a fantasy of mine that's similar to vandanz, although my fantasy is unlikely to ever be realized as it requires a willing, fluid-bonded, partner, so it means I can never done with an SP or domme.

Regarding Miss T's question, IMO, the separation of sexual services (i.e. HJ, oral sex, fs) and pro-domme has to do with prostitution and morality laws in the U.S. As long as their was no touching of genitals, performing and receiving pro-domme services in exchange for money is perfectly legal in the U.S. and the morality police have no power to stop it. As soon as their is any sexual contact, then it falls under the anti-prostitution laws.

Obviously, it's not the case in Canada, but since traditional pro-domme services don't include sexual contact, many pro-dommes frown upon those that provide them.

Personally, I've always respected service providers limits. I'm non-judgmental on what she chooses to do. Although I do admit I've enjoyed sessions where the domme has chosen to be nude and have often fantasized about receiving a whole lot more than the typical pro-domme experience.
 
Making exceptions

I personally dont think that any domme or escort should make exceptions for or feel pressure to provide certain services unless they actually want to. Clear communication between a client and domme/escort is so important for this very reason.

As far as crossing lines go I dont think it is "improper" for a domme to offer a hj if she so wishes to do so...its her business and why should other dommes be bothered by it? I think the term "sexual contact" is so ambiguous especially in the bdsm world.

I for one wont offer hjs but I'm happy to spank it (literally) or tie it up for you while in the nude lol :D
 

qwerty00

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Mistress T - I have seen you several times and never been able to truely verbalize my fantasy. But something like this would also fall into my ultimate BDSM fantasy. In mine the light touch is also served to control and hypnotize me into a sub space state where I am vulnerable and will do anything you ask of me - suck toes/feet, lick boots etc. I for one would love to see something like this offered as most service providers see this as just a HJ and just do not get anywhere near what this fantasy is really about. I would love to have someone like you provide this experience - my greatest fantasy
 

vandanz

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Maybe a submissive female?

How about a submissive female being ordered by Mistress to inflict the "torture"? Perhaps this could be the second half of the session. The first half would be the female sub bound and mercilessly teased by Mistress and the male sub. For me, there's no bigger turn on than bringing a lady to a (or several) earth shattering orgasms! Maybe this would put the female sub in the right frame of mind to get "revenge" on the male sub.

And thank you Miss T, Miss Jasmine, Aeiyah and Qwerty00 for responding. Posting one's intimate fantasies creates a sense of vulnerablity which disappears with such positive responses and discussion.

Oh, and a little confession to Miss Jasmine. I have had the great pleasure of spending some time with you and remember that experience fondly, although with some additional naughty thoughts! Forgive me! However, most men would fall into the same trap - simply put: your gorgeous and a it's a pleasure to be in your company.
 
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I could see this is part of a tease and denial act. The Mistress could play the scene as it's told in the story above but in the end could let the victim finish himself off as she is performing a Strap on on him. At that point I wouldn't see it as a HJ.

But again, it should be at the comfort level of the Mistress in doing this.

There are other things involved as well in a session not just that.


Just for the record. If I was that guy in the story above, I Would go absolutley insane! I dont know how much of that I could take.
 
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Oh, and a little confession to Miss Jasmine. I have had the great pleasure of spending some time with you and remember that experience fondly, although with some additional naughty thoughts! Forgive me! However, most men would fall into the same trap - simply put: your gorgeous and a it's a pleasure to be in your company.
Thank you for the compliments..I wake up and go to sleep with naughty thoughts they fuel me everyday:)
 
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Thank you for the compliments..I wake up and go to sleep with naughty thoughts they fuel me everyday:)

Awesome to see you on here posting Jas!!:) I'm glad to see another Girl in this Domme world on here. All of the sudden there seems to be more coming out now!

I personally haven't see MistressJasmine but I agree from the pics I can see. MissJasmine is Gorgoeus and I can only imagine her in person.:)

Stay in touch Jas!!:) I'd love to visit you too soon. You my love!!:D :p :) :)
 
Yes I'm still coming out of the closet lol ;-)

Awesome to see you on here posting Jas!!:) I'm glad to see another Girl in this Domme world on here. All of the sudden there seems to be more coming out now!

I personally haven't see MistressJasmine but I agree from the pics I can see. MissJasmine is Gorgoeus and I can only imagine her in person.:)

Stay in touch Jas!!:) I'd love to visit you too soon. You my love!!:D :p :) :)
Thank you! and based on your user name we would probably enjoy each others company:)
 

vandanz

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And it's doesn't matter

If I was that guy in the story above, I Would go absolutley insane! I dont know how much of that I could take.
It's up to the dominant to decide when you've had enough. You have absolutely no say in it whatsoever. Given that you're restrained, there's nothing that you can do about it anyways. The whole idea is that you are being driven insane because someone else is in total control: physical control of your body and now in control of your mind in that she's driving you crazy!
 

vandanz

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Right on

...most service providers see this as just a HJ and just do not get anywhere near what this fantasy is really about.
Qwerty00, I just wanted to comment that you've nailed it. The HJ is just a part of the much bigger picture of control and submission. You can easily find someone to provide a HJ. It's doing it in the context of the fantasy that's the key.
 

vandanz

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Fulfilled

I recently had an excellent session with the gorgeous Miss T and her beautiful girlfriend. If you're interested in a review, see my original post "Inspired". I asked Miss T if she would accommodate my fantasy and she nailed it. We're really fortunate to have some really lovely ladies like Miss T who will listen and be non-judgmental.

I would love to repeat and until I have the opportunity to do so, I can still enjoy the memory of looking down to see two stunning ladies dressed in black teasing me while I'm helplessly bound.

If you're interested in a bdsm session, I would strongly suggest establishing a a dialogue and being very clear on your interests. Communication is the key.
 
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