Spanking Redux

i saw that there were some previous posts on the spanking topic but i wanted to take it another direction. I have seen many Dommes and i have a number of sessions with disciplinarians. I have no trouble traveling and having an extended session if i can find what i am looking for. As simple as it may be, what i am looking for is a spanking. I find that there are about 10 true spankers in North America. Sure anybody can bend one over and begin to whallop; but it seems that a spanker has a different temperment knowing it is as much a head game as it is physical. It is a powerful form of control and submission; humilliation and tease, but it is more of a domestic discipline than it is about being a slave or being dominated.

A good spanking can take quite a while as the disciplinarian tries to build as much heat into the bottom with the least amount of damage so the process can go on. Always at a stte of wanting a bit more or getting a bit too much. i have had back to back multiple hour sessions.

it seems as though a spanker has a different attitude than does a domme in many cases; yet i have found that there are some dommes that understand the mindset, and maybe even prefer it, but haven't found the following to specialize. Given the tight schedules of those ten spankers i am aware of ( i have seen 8 of them), i am suprised that there aren't more. In my research there might be one in toronto; but otherwise i haven't seen any in Canada. There was an Aunt Sandy, or something, that appears to have long ago disappeared.

Mistress T or those out there; maybe you can help me understand why there aren't more. If they are out there, where are they?

I am in Calgary; but can travel for the right situaton. Any thoughts. feel free to contact me here or directly

bill

spanking redux replies

Please give me as much advance notice when you are comming to Calgary. i will email you my direct email if that helps to keep me appraised. I appreciate the discount offer, but i would be interested in spending a few hours, one way or another, to see if the chemistry is really there.

by evidence of your taking an active role here on the topic i presume you have a real passion for it which is usually all it takes. i certainly am interested in some of the other activities you mention on your site.

by the way i love the school girl picture with what looks like an old strap. i have a love hate realationship with those straps. i imagine lying across a pile of pillows feeling that strap. looking over my shoulder and see that sexy angellic yet seductive smile

i find that if i can develop my interest in what is your passion that it really works well. thanks for the reply. lets make it apoint of meeting.

i appreciate the other reccomendation as well though i am not sure i have found a link yet

Nina

Ah yes it sounds as if you have found the essence f spanking as well. It is less about pain, but being taken to a place where the senses sizzle. Truth be known i am a switch as well,but at heart I am a submissive. I have always found the relationship between two switches to be interesting.

Someone asked me how do you know who is in charge with two switches. I tell them its like two cars pulling up to a stop light. if your wondering whose turn it is..it not yours. But actually while i think i can top effectivly, i know i am a submissive. i have a firm hand and can give a very warm spanking as well. but i think my interest in giving a spanking is not derived from an interest to dominate, but from a pure fetish and love of a well rounded derriere.

i find that what intrigues me about your reply and Ms.T's as well is that the pure compliment to a pure spanking is the sensual tease. Again it is as much mental as it is physical. while some can call playing with humilliation and control; i think it is more about being a victim of ones own sensuality. Caught in that void of shamefully accepting a spanking and surrendering authority and control; wanting to resist but finding yourself in a bliss where you can't say stop and really mean it. i think that is the place where time stops as you say. Whereas you find that sensual touch, as the great counterpoint to the physical spanking. i find the balance being taken to a point of sensual submission. maybe that is gs, maybe panty play, maybe body worship or facesitting.

i have scheduled spanking that can be multiple hours only to come back the next day as well. That evening my bottom is tender, very carefully not marked, and i question my sanity of upon the realisation of a hand will be slapping my ass in another 8-10 hours. the butterflies in the stomach as i knock on the door, or i hear the knock at mine

bill

Miss T's strap

It is interesting the feel that different implements give. sometimes i consider myself such a wimp at the thought of getting the spanking, yet with adequate warm up and finding the right implements there appears to be no limits.

Wood implements don't have the caresss to me that a leather implement has. Though i aways seem to get that smile and big eyes look and a comment like," i know bill, but no one goes home without feeling my hairbrush".

On the other hand the whips and floggers remind me of the many Prodomme sessions which really put me in a different place mentally than a spanking session.

For many years i resisted those big straps. Just seemed too brutal. Then after a very long warm up. i was strapped, then a heavier strap, then the prison strap. with each whack i would clench my ass cheeks and take it. then she told me not to clech and realax. iwas going to get it anyway just realax. i did and it felt totally different. six or seven more and i couldn't believe i was takeing it and she gave some more and harder. there is almost a point where the top can read the bottom, and the bottom trusts the top that they know that point of bliss and how to take one their

bill