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sggum

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Hi this is my second post about this topic and thank you to all who have pm'ed me and posted..
I do have some plans when I come in May

This is just a try to see if i can find a female submissive and find more information on what i would be able to find service wise and what i could do as far as being a male dom.

Being this is a fantasy of mine i am not really sure what i am to do lol
but i have seen some videos but i definatly do not want to be that harsh on any person like i see in the movies....I guess a kinder gentler dom over a woman lol

Many thanks in advance
 
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Got the equipment

If you find a sub but don't have a space and the gear you're welcome to rent my space which will give you access to everything you'll need.

The sub would also have a safety net of having me around, but not in the way, in case she's nervous.

I can give you a few pointers/ideas and explain some of the equipment too.
 

sggum

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thank you for the reply

It seems very hard to find the right fit for me well I have a few more weeks to look and will keep your offer in mind.
Thank you Miss T
 

uncleg

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Take a look on Craiglist. Was going through it yesterday and saw a new ad, or at least one I hadn't seen before for a submissive. In Lower Shaughnessy area off Broadway, 21 years old, etc. Would post more but there seems to be a clampdown ( OOOHHH ) on posting contact information for non-advertisers.
 
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Annalise Lane

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I personally dont agree with a New Top using a whip (flogger) or any impliment on a submissive without understanding anatomy. Knowing where to NOT hit, what NOT to do, etc.

MissT - if he actually takes you up on your kind offer I hope he asks for this information prior to actually booking a submissive for his 'first' Dom experience.

Or maybe instead of watching kinky porn, you might consider reading articles on the fundamentals of the mental and physical side of what we do. OR heaven forbid you actually book a session as a submissive to feel what it is like, to know and understand the mental & physical side of play, INSTEAD of the 'my cock is hard' side of this world.

A good start is the libary I send most of my potential submissives to, to give them a better understanding of what they are getting into.

www.iron-rose.com

http://www.iron-rose.com/IR/IR_f.htm <<<<------- actual libary link

This site is mostly Old Guard based, but it covers alot of the important fundamentals of our kinky world.
 
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Solid advice

MissT - if he actually takes you up on your kind offer I hope he asks for this information prior to actually booking a submissive for his 'first' Dom experience.
Excellent point and advice Annalise. I am very protective of people too.

When people use my space not only will they be given the tour & tips but I will also be on the premises the entire time, I can even be in the same room if it's appropriate. There will be no extra charge for any instruction they receive.

This is not a cash grab for me, it's a long-term community place. I will even turn people away if I feel it is not a completely safe, sane and consensual situation.

Having said all that heavy stuff, I still recommend beginners to use my space. There aren't many places where you'll have access to so much equipment in a beautiful clean environment and an on-site Professional to help you with anything you need.
 

smoothallover

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Wow , sounds like You have filled a space full of goodies and community need all in one fell swoop....plus its very true that the role of a Top/Domme/Dom is not always intuitive on what/how/where/when/how long...and is learned..and i always think much more difficult than the submissive side of things....somehow the best tops i have served at some point either were subs or had a proper guidance into the art...but that might just be me....

Wish my bank account was reflecting a more flexible position these days....talk about being bound.....*grin*
 

sggum

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wow

Thanks you for all your thoughful and concern...
Some very nice insight in these post.

I would never ever place a partner of any kind in a pure pain for them pleasure for me situation.I toatlly understand all that is involed should feel pleasure and feel safe and secure.

Pleasure is a two way street no matter what type it is and respect and saftey should be on the mind of all involved i know i have a lot to learn and will take some of the info and advice and know this is only a start to a long term fantasy of mine
 
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