I'm not sure who your question is directed to but to me, both as a Provider and a Participant, it is extremely important...it also gives me another excuse to go shoppingHow important is the costume to the fantasy or scene you want to play out ?
Depends on the scene and the costume. You can get it all wrong...like the time I dressed up as a clown for a sensual strap-on scene. The guy is still in therapy.How important is the costume to the fantasy or scene you want to play out ?
Actually it was directed at everybody, so it's nice to see a variety of answers.I'm not sure who your question is directed to but to me, both as a Provider and a Participant, it is extremely important...it also gives me another excuse to go shopping
Now that I have pretty much anything a client could request, I'm good. But in the beginning I had a few requests, like thigh-high boots, that were deal-breakers for clients. Sometimes specific attire is the fetish, usually stiletto's, a nurse outfit or stockings.as a Provider, any of you, has a client ever, not booked, or expressed dis-satisfaction with a session if you couldn't provide the requested attire ?
'Submissive' houseboys and errand boys who fuck up on purpose just to get punished are one of my major pet peeves and one of the few things I actually don't have a sense of humor about.Mistress T likes me to dress up as a gopher, go for this get that all the time ................and I love it. I do try to get it wrong just to see her reaction
So I will presume you are "dressed" in the role of "gopher," but would you dress in an actual gopher costume, the mascot type of thing, to go out and run errands ?Mistress T likes me to dress up as a gopher, go for this get that all the time ................and I love it. I do try to get it wrong just to see her reaction
Are you sure you are only going to be here for 2 days?? I've got so many fun boutiques to take you to... the fetish ones especially!
Dressing in and of itself can be a fetish of sorts... somehow while putting on the garment, you put on the persona... the attitude changes, the air is charged with anticipation...
xoxo
Nina
My wife just picked up a corset that she had custom made at Lace Embrace. The shop they just opened on Main and 16th has some great eye candy.wish you could come with me this afternoon! I'm off to shop for a corset.. a really proper one that you can cinch up way too tight and makes it difficult to breathe.... god I love that feeling!
xoxo
Nina
What about the Client?? Poor guy!and the right outfit can not only emphasize the "tease factor", but it can also really help bring out the Domme's character during a roleplay scenario.
This morning I tightly cinched myself in a steel boned pvc corset and trampled my slave until sweat poured down my chest. What a workout and what a way to start the day