Luxxxe Affaire

and now for something completely different

Evan

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I've been reading about the bdsm scene for quite some time now, but have never took the plunge because I'm not sure if it is right for me. I know I'm not into the whole pain, humiliation, or feminization thing. I do know that I like the feel and sight of tight leather or latex on a lady. In fact, I think I get more turned on by a woman in hot catsuit than I do seeing her naked. I also love women who are dominant in a sensual way. I think it's the control factor that is key ... a confident woman in control is something I admire. The cruel bitch type woman is of no interest to me.

I suppose this part of me is more of a "release" from everyday life than who I really am. In my real life, you wouldn't want to come up against me in a boardroom or courtroom. I'm not an overly aggressive person, but I do know how to get my way and persuade people into following my way of thinking - I'm not a pushover, and I won't back down from a fight. I guess I'm just trying to say that you wouldn't have a clue that I have submissive tendancies if you met me. I'm curious if other sexually submissive guys are like me, or do they always show submissive tendancies in all aspects of their life?

My ultimate fantasy is a little different, but I think it is somewhat related to bdsm. I guess it started as a fetish, but it has developed into a more X-rated fantasy role play scene. I have always had a fetish for getting my hair cut in an old fashion barber shop, and I will only let a female cut my hair. The fetish connection for me is if the barber has dominant tendancies and she takes control of the haircut. For a normal haircut, the customer is always in control because the barber must do what the customer says, so it is quite rare to find the type of barber I seek. If the barber decides to cut my hair shorter than I asked, or uses her clippers and razors in a sensually erotic manner, then my pants start to get a little tight! The old barber chair, and the nylon cape I believe are also symbols of dominance. When the cape goes on, I feel it is a subtle symbol of bondage. The cape locks me in to the barber's control. A barber who knows she has gained control and uses her feminine qualities to make her client feel uneasy in an exciting erotic manner is definitely the barber for me.

Now I guess this is where my imagination starts to kick in. After a very erotic haircut and face shave, the barber would tie me to her chair using leather restraints. The chair would be tilted back, and the clippers and razor would go to work on other areas of my body. I also have some interest in anal play, and perhaps a strap-on, so that would be a good way for my erotic barber to finish me off. A "release" of any kind would also be a good way to finish.

I think this barber shop scene is similar to a medical or dental fetish. The only thing with medical or dental scenes in real life is that a medical or dental practitioner is always in control and can pretty much poke and prod their client any way they wish. As I have already mentioned, a barber is supposed to do what the customer says.

One last note ... even though I have fantasies about being shaved bald, or getting a military type haircut - the haircut itself is not really part of the fetish. It's the whole act of losing control to a dominant lady barber whose actions lead to my ultimate pleasure. I love the feel of a good set of barber clippers buzzing my nape and vibrating around my ears. I quiver every time the clippers touch one of my erogenous zones. I think the electric clippers are just vibrators for barbers!

I would love to hear comments from others who may have similar thoughts on the topic of haircutting/shaving or perhaps you have other role play fantasies where a female practitioner takes control. And by all means, if anyone knows of a great female barber, please let me know! ;)
 
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edmontonsubbie

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this is such a cool post....

...and it's cool to see it. I think Evan nails it pretty fast when he says it's "think I get more turned on by a woman in hot catsuit than I do seeing her naked. I also love women who are dominant in a sensual way. I think it's the control factor that is key ... a confident woman in control is something I admire. The cruel bitch type woman is of no interest to me"

Lord knows we all know the ones who are bitchy for no reason other than to release their own angst. I admire bitchiness in the ones I love...I cringe at bitchiness in the face of those who I have recently met. Control is key and it's an indefinable quality and rare beyond compare...but, when you find someone who can keep and control it...keep them...it's unlikely you will find better.

The world according to eddie.

yes, I have been drinking. I was drinking on my last post also...and, after reading it again, I would have to say...it made very little sense.

p.s....Evan...your notion of having someone control a haircut is pretty cool...I have no hair and keep it shaved...I suppose if she told me I had to grow it out to the "clown" effect or the overhead "swoop"...that would definitely be an issue of control....still and all, control is control and I liked your post.
 

Evan

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Thanks for the reply edmontonsubbie. I think control is all about getting inside the other person's head. Barking commands, and inflicting pain is only a small part of being in control. Have you ever seen a married couple where the woman only has to raise her eyebrows to send the man to the doghouse with his tail between his legs? Now that is control!
 
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Velvet Steele

Velvet is among other things, a hairdresser.

Some may hesitate as she used to be a 'he' but to me she is only 'she'. With all of the surgical alterations, a pussy, beautiful breasts, smooth, feminine and sensual. A hairdresser who I'm sure knows how to use clippers *wink*, an excellent Domme with a well-equipped play space in the West End.

I'll allow her to answer questions regarding her services.

PM me if you can't find her through google or her ad in the Georgia Straight, adult, fetish.

Veronika Harley may also be able to fulfill your fantasy.

My barber fetishist, you've earned 20 min's with me for your generous and evocative contribution. Take if you will. I work well with Velvet if you'd like to combine the two.
 

Evan

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Thank you for your generous offer, Miss T. Like you, I would like to see more discussion on this board. I love to learn, and explore the inner sanctums of my mind. I am well aware of Ms. Steele and her clipper work through the hair fetish community on the web. I've checked out Ms. Harley's site, but didn't see any info that would indicate she had a haircutting interest. There is a domme in Florida that advertises haircuts, so she is a potential option. For the time being, I will continue my search with the hair community to see who might be out there.
 

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In the spirit of more discussion on this board, I’d like to offer my .02 cents.

First of all, Evan, I want to commend you as well for your brave contribution. Not everyone has the courage to open up about “something completely different”, so Bravo to you. In my case it took me quite a while to open up even slightly to anyone about my hypnosis fetish. I mention it in my recent review of the gorgeous Mistress Dominique on a previous post here.

You might be interested in hearing that, like you, I only go to female barbers (i.e. hairdressers), ever since I discovered my first one way back in my university days. In fact the thought of having my hair cut by a man feels extremely uncomfortable for me now (no offence meant to those who are wired that way, just giving info about me <grin>).

I think the area I feel most in common with you about is what you described about control. I too am more turned on by subtle sensual control as opposed to physical domination, and I relate to your example of the woman “only having to raise an eyebrow”. :) I am always fantasizing a woman staring hypnotically at me, gesturing hypnotically with her hands, or even her feet, casting a spell on me, snapping her fingers and freezing me with an intense stare, or otherwise taking control in similar ways. And in fact on several occasions I have fantasized about my hairdresser slowly lulling me into a hypnotic trance as she does my hair! <grin>

I’m guessing what we have in common is that our respective fetishes appear to be “uncommon”, and so I guess we both share a feeling of being somewhat alone with our fetish. I enjoyed your post, and look forward to reading more about your adventures.
 

Evan

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mind control

Hey Andre, your post immediately reminded me of a story I read a few years back. I did a search and was able to find it. I think you will enjoy this ... http://www.mcstories.com/DSBarbershop/DSBarbershop.html

Like you, I would never let a guy cut my hair now. I had some uncomfortable experiences with male barbers when I was young. I can't remember that far back, but I'm sure some of the touching was inappropriate. I haven't had my hair cut by a man since I was 9. I do remember seeing my first female barber in action when I was 6. I didn't get to sit in her chair, but I do remember how gentle and flirty she was with the men, and how she buzzed this one guy when he didn't really want to get buzzed. I'm pretty sure that was the trigger point of my fetish. It's funny how some memories from childhood are engrained in your mind.
 

andre013

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Hey Evan:

Thanks for the heads up on that story. I really enjoyed reading it again. I say again because it sounded really familiar and I’ve been a fan of the mcstories website for over a decade. It’s little wonder that that story caught your interest. I was reading your original post again and this story appears to be almost right up your alley. I’m guessing, however, that your preference would have been that the “marine” and Trey had not been completely hypnotized to the point that they did not remember what happened. You, like me, probably want to be alert to feel the control the domina is exercising over us when she dominates. When I describe my hypnosis fetish I always point out that I prefer being “tranced” as opposed to being deeply hypnotized, because I want to experience the feeling of being under her spell, obliged to do as I am told. I like the “eye contact” part of the story . . that always turns me on!

Yeah those childhood memories are certainly significant aren’t they. Although I don’t remember the details I do remember my hypnosis fetish as far back as 7 years old. Of course the term “fetish” was not known to me at the time. I just remember feeling weird and embarrassed, like most of us, and keeping it secret for most of my life. I can’t believe I am going to share this, but there was this statue we had at home that I never forgot. I grew up Catholic (now I’m non-religious) and we had this statue of the Virgin Mary holding the baby Jesus in her arms, BUT she was also stepping on a serpent’s head with her bare foot! I could never figure out why that attracted me, until later in life of course.

BTW going back again to mcstories.com I also wrote a story there a couple of years ago, just in case you might be interested . . . http://www.mcstories.com/UnforgettableErica/UnforgettableErica.html

Note to Miss T:
How’s this for contribution from Evan and I! <grin> . . . Not that I’m sucking up for 20 free minutes from you because I don’t think I qualify, but I always find your comments entertaining. :)
 
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Note to Miss T:
How’s this for contribution from Evan and I! <grin> . . . Not that I’m sucking up for 20 free minutes from you because I don’t think I qualify, but I always find your comments entertaining. :)
Now the pressure is on for me to say something witty and clever!

Sure, you both qualify. Dominique and I are missing working together so may do surprise Double Domme sessions when we feel like it (If you are dead-set against this then you'll be given an option to put it on your no-go list.) Contact me to set up something for this week.
 

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Hair fetish?

Mistress T,
Will you give me a hair cut?
 

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Evan

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haircut story - bdsm references

Hello again everyone,

I am reopening this thread because I would like to share a story with you. I wrote this story to try and relate a trip to a barber shop (with a female barber) to a light bdsm session with a mistress. I know it is a different fetish, but some of you might be able to relate. I would appreciate any feedback.

http://www.1hss.com/story.aspx?id=1377

The same sort of idea/scene could probably work for a visit to a doctor, nurse, dentist, therapist, etc. My particular fetish just happens to be haircuts.

Evan
 

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Velvet Steele for haircuts.

She cut and colored my hair last year, and the woman is fantastic. A great eye for what looks good on you.

She has the cape, and other implements necessary, as well as the bdsm equipment.

PS: She's got a great Dominant aura and is beautiful.
 

mistressfreyja

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PS: Evan.

Wishing I quoted your words now that I write, but not all of my sessions require ANY pain, humiliation, or subordination. (Did I get the 3 right?)

Frankly, I hate when people impose their unwarranted and unwanted 'Dominance' on me. So, I respect those that want a session that doesn't incorporate such.

Sensory, teasing, wrestling, haircuts....

The only haircut I am able to give is to shave your head. But, I do have a cape for you, and I promise to rub my pussy all over your bald head, after!
 

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Hello again everyone,

I am reopening this thread because I would like to share a story with you. I wrote this story to try and relate a trip to a barber shop (with a female barber) to a light bdsm session with a mistress. I know it is a different fetish, but some of you might be able to relate. I would appreciate any feedback.

http://www.1hss.com/story.aspx?id=1377

The same sort of idea/scene could probably work for a visit to a doctor, nurse, dentist, therapist, etc. My particular fetish just happens to be haircuts.

Evan

Evan,
I'll second the reference to Velvet Steele made by M. Freyja & M. T; Velvet is a trained stylist who also happens to have 20 years of BDSM experience and a dungeon\playspace. I've been playing with her for 2 years ; she's gorgeous
 
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