this is so cool...

edmontonsubbie

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uh...Edmonton.
...to see such activity in the lower part of this board. I was observing how little activity there was with the recent departure of Mistress T...and, now, it is rampant with activity yet again!....draw whatever conclusions you may from that, if any at all.

I kinda whipped through all the posts and had a smile now and again and a frown at other times but mostly a smile...which I don't guess anyone really gives a fuck about but I'm just saying...

I will try to hold my thoughts into some sort of order. The overriding "feeling" from having reviewed these notes is that Miss T and uncleg and aieyah are pretty cool and able to absorb whatever is thrown their way....now that's the mark of a competent top...at least in my book. Having said that, I have to say I agreed totally with Miss T's observation that it takes knowledge of the bottom to know the top and it's no surprise to see that she has journeyed down there.

To come to the point, I think the best I can do here...being as how I just broke up with a "Mistress" and haven't really played around much on the professional side since the amazing Penny from Sapphire...is to just go ahead and observe. And the observation is pretty simple. I have messed around with being "top". I have thoroughly enjoyed it. It's amazing how cool it is to have someone under your complete control and to know implicitly and explicitly that they enjoy being in that position...and that they are expecting you to push their limits...make them wonder what comes next....make them a little fearful but completely trusting in your competence. That's a good connection.

Having said all that....this "board" is designed for Dommes. At least, I think so. I don't see too many male anybody's providing their services here...although I did see the guy? who does the websites for various sp's taking out a "scroll" advert on here...so, I'm wrong. Although, he might be a she....lol. In any event, regardless of all that, it just speaks to the allure of the "Domme"...it's a transference of power.

It's a societal norm that the male species will have the power in day to day activity. Hunting, protecting, doing that whole "guy" thing. Let's face it, you see it all the time. Just go to the local pub and watch.

So....in the spirit of recommending some pretty cool activities to the people who just wander down and read....don't be afraid to try a session with a competent Top. Explain your limits, be very upfront about what you do and don't expect, and leave room to be surprised. If you run anything in your life (and I'm sure you do), it's such a tremendous thrill, relief, and plain fun to assign control for an hour or two or three....to some competence. No decisions to be made, no decisions permitted, just exist and obey. It's a cool trip.

eddie.
 

uncleg

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Glad that we helped make your day a little brighter. Now go out there and get your ass paddled and it'll be a perfect day.:D :D
 
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