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Submit, something.

For all you BDSM lurkers, this is your call to contribute.

I will give a 20 minute free session (or half off my usual hourly rate for a full hour session) to ANYONE* who contributes SOMETHING to the BDSM section in the next week.

CONDITIONS: This offer doesn't apply to those I've seen already, who have already contributed comments about me. Sorry, this is to motivate the lurkers to contribute.

SOMETHING would be considered a question, a conversation topic, a review, a wish/fantasy, a story about how you got into BDSM...really, pretty much anything with a BDSM flavor would be considered a contribution.

Your reward would be either a 20 minute free session with ME or if you must have an hour or longer, you'll get 50% off my regular rate. You will not be required to review our session, there's no 'catch'.

Why am I being so generous? I think the BDSM section of Perb has lots of potential. It just needs more action/activity.

You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.-Mae West
 

rat_fink

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I want more conversation too> Where there's talk about Sin City
I don't get out much and the thread seems to have gone missing :rolleyes:
I think its a good place for shy boys at least for this shy boy to come out & play & likes to hear about changes & happenings...
 

uncleg

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Would love to, but it's a waste of time. The section seems to be primarily male subs worshipping you and other mistress's. Doesn't turn my crank, however if there were some female subs posting, or more male doms then it might pick up a bit. :)
 

Aeiyah

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Would love to, but it's a waste of time. The section seems to be primarily male subs worshiping you and other mistress's. Doesn't turn my crank, however if there were some female subs posting, or more male doms then it might pick up a bit. :)
I'm not really a sub. But since this place is primarily an advertising forum and the service providers are mostly domme's servicing male bottoms, the discussion tends to gravitate towards the male sub worshiping the mistresses. I find myself putting on the sub persona when I post here. I don't think the viewers are interested in seeing my sadistic/dom side.
 
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uncleg

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I'm not sure if the viewers are interesting in seeing my sadistic/dom side.[/QUOTE]


And why not ? It's part of the BDSM culture. If they are not interested they will speak up or just ignore you. However, there are those that are interested and would get into the subject, and maybe that's what is needed to get this particular forum a bit more active.

On another subject, but related. You mention you put on your sub persona when posting, yet you point out your sadistic/dom side. How does that work for you ? You say you are not really a sub, but when you post in your sub persona, was it a sub experience, or are you just catering to the majority ? Have you gone both ways, sub and dom ?
 

Aeiyah

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On another subject, but related. You mention you put on your sub persona when posting, yet you point out your sadistic/dom side. How does that work for you ? You say you are not really a sub, but when you post in your sub persona, was it a sub experience, or are you just catering to the majority ? Have you gone both ways, sub and dom ?
The first post I wrote in this section was a review that I was "permitted" to write. Since the request to write it was phrased in that manner, I adopted the sub persona when I wrote the review. Since then, I've tended to fall into that whenever I've posted here.

Without getting into the debate on the semantics and definition on what each of the terms really means, I switch between a "Top" and a "Bottom" role. As a bottom, I'm very selfish and I tend to focus on how it makes me feel. I don't think about what I can do to service or please the top.

As a top, I'm not quite as selfish. While I'm motivated by what the sadist in me enjoys seeing done to others, I'm very aware of respecting my bottoms limits, pushing them only if they they are l comfortable.
 

uncleg

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Interesting. I can't say that I could see myself in the role of a sub or bottom. Can't say I've haven't considered it, since I do tend to enjoy trying to taste the full spectrum of experiences, but I just can't get the mind set to allow myself into that position. I guess I tend to be selfish that way. I will push the boundaries to the extreme when I can, while respecting whatever boundaries were set. I have found that I inflicted more "pain" as a dom when I didn't use any restraints or any of the other wonderful toys. Just playing mind games was enough to bring the sub to tears. Like everything else, you know what you want out of these kinds of sessions.
 

calvinxxx

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I have always wondered about the idea of strap on play by a sexy lady such as Miss T

However in Calgary she is not very often available

who else might there be?
 
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Saraphina in Calgary

I've heard good things about her.

Not sure who else, but if you're only interested in strap-on, some service providers may be skilled at that. If you go through an agency the person answering the phone would probably know who has the equipment and knows how to use it.

Remember to choose carefully if it's your first time. Make sure they have small warm up toys and lots of lube. Make sure they use condoms on their toys. Don't rush it.
 

bobbibicd

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Well I am new but have been looking here for months and always in this section but seems very little is said, I had been fantasizing for a very long time about a experience with a pro Domme and always looking on craigslist but so hard to make a decision, I took my first step and contacted Mistress Scarlett who advertises regularly and she was absolutely amazing and fulfilled my kinkiest desires, so I went back again and even better and then a third time, can't wait to go again..hopefully soon.., especially since she is advertising a t-girl friend who is available, !!!!!! Bob
 

sinfulsydnee

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Interesting. I can't say that I could see myself in the role of a sub or bottom. Can't say I've haven't considered it, since I do tend to enjoy trying to taste the full spectrum of experiences, but I just can't get the mind set to allow myself into that position. I guess I tend to be selfish that way. I will push the boundaries to the extreme when I can, while respecting whatever boundaries were set. I have found that I inflicted more "pain" as a dom when I didn't use any restraints or any of the other wonderful toys. Just playing mind games was enough to bring the sub to tears. Like everything else, you know what you want out of these kinds of sessions.
It is interesting...when I started out in this lifestyle my confidence was low as was my self esteem...I was submissive to my husband and when we started to include others into the more intimate corners of our lives, I was submissive to them as well...yet somewhere in the back of my head I kept thinking this wasn't what I wanted...something didn't feel right...so I studied...I read voraciously about the lifestyle...checked out websites, went to munches, met leaders of the local BDSM community, went to submissive support groups and then one day I got an email from a woman on alt.com where I had a profile...she said "I know you have your profile listed as a sub but I've seen you at events and have talked with others about you...I would like to meet with you because I think you are actually Dominant...and if this proves to be true I would like you to think about being my Mistress."

I was shocked...the thought that I was Dominant didn't even occur to me...until I started to think about it...and look at my life and lifestyle from the other side of the glass...I read some more, talked to more people, spent hours upon hours talking with my husband about the concept...I started to see the woman who sent me the email on a regular basis...sometimes alone and sometimes with my husband...we went through check lists, websites, scenes, and my confidence grew...along with it my self-esteem...I took on the role of being her Mistress...and then it wasn't a role anymore...it just was...

Now, years later, I am fully confident in my abilities to dominate others...to fulfill their dark fantasies as well as my own...to break down barriers and as uncleg said "I will push the boundaries to the extreme when I can, while respecting whatever boundaries were set."

While I definitely enjoy my sadistic streak, I too prefer to see someone cry without ever laying a latex gloved finger on them...the stimulation I get from playing out the psychodramas I create gives me great pleasure...I found my place...

Miss T...thank You for starting this thread...it has made me think back to a time that I don't think about often enough...I like it!
 

edmontonsubbie

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It is interesting...when I started out in this lifestyle my confidence was low as was my self esteem...I was submissive to my husband and when we started to include others into the more intimate corners of our lives, I was submissive to them as well...yet somewhere in the back of my head I kept thinking this wasn't what I wanted...something didn't feel right...so I studied...I read voraciously about the lifestyle...checked out websites, went to munches, met leaders of the local BDSM community, went to submissive support groups and then one day I got an email from a woman on alt.com where I had a profile...she said "I know you have your profile listed as a sub but I've seen you at events and have talked with others about you...I would like to meet with you because I think you are actually Dominant...and if this proves to be true I would like you to think about being my Mistress."

I was shocked...the thought that I was Dominant didn't even occur to me...until I started to think about it...and look at my life and lifestyle from the other side of the glass...I read some more, talked to more people, spent hours upon hours talking with my husband about the concept...I started to see the woman who sent me the email on a regular basis...sometimes alone and sometimes with my husband...we went through check lists, websites, scenes, and my confidence grew...along with it my self-esteem...I took on the role of being her Mistress...and then it wasn't a role anymore...it just was...

Now, years later, I am fully confident in my abilities to dominate others...to fulfill their dark fantasies as well as my own...to break down barriers and as uncleg said "I will push the boundaries to the extreme when I can, while respecting whatever boundaries were set."

While I definitely enjoy my sadistic streak, I too prefer to see someone cry without ever laying a latex gloved finger on them...the stimulation I get from playing out the psychodramas I create gives me great pleasure...I found my place...

Miss T...thank You for starting this thread...it has made me think back to a time that I don't think about often enough...I like it!
that is such a cool post and absolutely spot on. I seem to recall somewhere on here a post by Miss T...or perhaps not...it matters little...the post will remain the same....it's all for "fun"....I have friends who love to play games within their marriage and I know they are stronger for having admitted as much...so...where you can't admit as much or feel a bit shy to do so...oh shit...now i have to run and resend an email that should have worked...shit/fuck/piss

eddie
 

papillion

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Nice Pix

Mistress T
A response for more traffic on this forum, my $0.02 worth: just visited your webpage and I must say your photos are breathtaking! I'm a somewhat experienced kinkster and I've never seen a more beautifully photographed pro-Domme in Vancouver, hope to see you soon in the flesh
SINcerely, papillion
 

Dawgy

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Great idea promoting BDSM

Being the Dominant Perbert I am I've loved BDSM for years, I like to be in control & love to administer a good hard spanking or application of the belt to a nice bottom.

For the most part I've indulged this in my private life but am wondering if anyone knows of any SPs that provide submissive services to clients?

Lastly, great idea Smallpleasures for promoting the darkside of fun ;)
 
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Pro subs

For the most part I've indulged this in my private life but am wondering if anyone knows of any SPs that provide submissive services to clients?
Dragon Fly's has pro subs. Not sure it they're full service. PM for her link if you wish.

Also, if anyone has an SP who is new to this and might like to try it but has questions they are welcome to contact me. I'll help them, thus help you, anyway I can.
 

Aeiyah

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Mistress Dragonfly doesn't permit any fs or oral-genital contact. I've heard a few good things about her sub Insatiable. Apparently she can cum just from having her ass whipped, so if enjoy orgasm control and making her beg, she would be a lot of fun to play with. And if you're out in the valley and looking for sadistic Domme who enjoys making you squirm until you are about to beg her to stop, I recommend trying a session with Mistress Dragonfly.


What are the limits sexually in a session?
Dragonfly’s Den is a legal business and follows British Columbia and Canadian sexuality laws. All sessions with any professional dominant or submissive are strictly non-sexual. This means no oral, anal or genital flesh to flesh contact and no manual manipulation to orgasm. If you need more detailed information please contact the dungeon directly by phone to discuss this.
I lot of the SP's I've met are submissive. But they normally prefer to save that for their personal life.
 

uncleg

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Being the Dominant Perbert I am I've loved BDSM for years, I like to be in control & love to administer a good hard spanking or application of the belt to a nice bottom.

For the most part I've indulged this in my private life but am wondering if anyone knows of any SPs that provide submissive services to clients?

Lastly, great idea Smallpleasures for promoting the darkside of fun ;)
So, why haven't we heard from you sooner ? Thumbs up to Small Pleasures for making an effort to boost interest in this forum.

Question for you, what do enjoy more, the spanking/application of the belt or having the control or trust that allows you spank that nice bottom ?
 

smoothallover

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My $0.02 , Yay!

Well thanks Miss T and we do need a more interactive forum....!
 

Dawgy

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So, why haven't we heard from you sooner ? Thumbs up to Small Pleasures for making an effort to boost interest in this forum.

Question for you, what do enjoy more, the spanking/application of the belt or having the control or trust that allows you spank that nice bottom ?
Because I haven't posted a lot, but will now

What I like more, hmmm I'm not sure it has anything to do with control, perhaps trust or more that someone will allow me to dominate her. I think a big part of it is that I like being kinky because it takes me away from "normal"
 
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