Hi all,
I am a newbie here and to the whole SP thing. Here is a bit about my first experience a few days ago....
I wanted to try the services of Natalie @ CA and had booked it, got there and was shown to a room but then told "she hasn't shown up would you like to try another?". I had heard of bait n switch, but I guess I could have walked but I stayed and took an hour w/Demi.
Well, she was cute enough, and I was somewhat nervous/shy as a first timer. I don't know if this put her off but she really didn't do anything to relax me much. Right away saying things she wasn't into (so i didn't even bother to ask about the Greek isles where I have never been, but apparently from what I have read later she does), which was not encouraging. Anyhow we start with some massage, and then she gives me head but then she notices some bumps on my balls and won't do anymore than the bj, saying she isn't 'comfortable'. Honestly I have no STD's. Now I know I can't prove it, can she prove she doesn't? I am not the most hideous guy, but being a bit older, life has put it's marks on me and I certainly not a perfect body. I just wish I had left when I had the chance, or only paid for 1/2 hour or 45, I would have felt a bit better as I would have liked have had something more than what I got.
Unlike other businesses, I guess there is no recourse here? I should have asked the receptionist(?) about a discount as the one I came for wasn't there? Should I have complained? Now I am discouraged and not sure to bother ever again. I am a very clean, and considerate person, so I felt kind of bad being treated this way. I think as soon as she saw what bothered her she should have spoke up then, as when she was giving me head I said how about climbing on top, and she said "after' you cum from this but after that nothing! Am I wrong or what.
I need other perbs or SP's to share their thoughts, advice or whatever.
Thanks to any of you for your input.
I am a newbie here and to the whole SP thing. Here is a bit about my first experience a few days ago....
I wanted to try the services of Natalie @ CA and had booked it, got there and was shown to a room but then told "she hasn't shown up would you like to try another?". I had heard of bait n switch, but I guess I could have walked but I stayed and took an hour w/Demi.
Well, she was cute enough, and I was somewhat nervous/shy as a first timer. I don't know if this put her off but she really didn't do anything to relax me much. Right away saying things she wasn't into (so i didn't even bother to ask about the Greek isles where I have never been, but apparently from what I have read later she does), which was not encouraging. Anyhow we start with some massage, and then she gives me head but then she notices some bumps on my balls and won't do anymore than the bj, saying she isn't 'comfortable'. Honestly I have no STD's. Now I know I can't prove it, can she prove she doesn't? I am not the most hideous guy, but being a bit older, life has put it's marks on me and I certainly not a perfect body. I just wish I had left when I had the chance, or only paid for 1/2 hour or 45, I would have felt a bit better as I would have liked have had something more than what I got.
Unlike other businesses, I guess there is no recourse here? I should have asked the receptionist(?) about a discount as the one I came for wasn't there? Should I have complained? Now I am discouraged and not sure to bother ever again. I am a very clean, and considerate person, so I felt kind of bad being treated this way. I think as soon as she saw what bothered her she should have spoke up then, as when she was giving me head I said how about climbing on top, and she said "after' you cum from this but after that nothing! Am I wrong or what.
I need other perbs or SP's to share their thoughts, advice or whatever.
Thanks to any of you for your input.