how far should a sug dad go to support a sug babe?

gigidy gigidy

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Hi, im a sug dad, my sug babe has some major issues at the moment, i am there for her, we are close. The problem is this issue is causing no sex and i am supporting her, we are close, not a couple and the people around her have been pushed away. I don't know if i should be the good guy and take the financial hit and help and hope she gets better or justlook at it as my benefits out of this have stopped and hers have not? advice.
 

Juicer

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Would she still be with you if the money ran out?

If she's not fulfilling her end of the bargain, you have no obligations to fulfill yours.
 

gigidy gigidy

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i know i should run, her problem needs medical attention that can help in the future, but she is in a bad spot, i just hate to think what would happen if i left, she will be homeless, that i know for certain. Sexwas used at the beginning as a bargaining chip, now justboth enjoy until this month.
 

visioneast

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Get a new sug babe. :)
 

perbist

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I think the real question to ask yourself is, do you care about this person over and above the daddy/babe relationship. It sounds like you do. If so, and you can comfortably afford it, maybe you should help her as a friend, and forget the sexual relationship, which has probably died at least for a while.

Having said that, Hubba is probably right, without the money you probably aren't as close as you think.
 

Willingham

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what is miss sugar babe going to do when the beauty fades and nobody will support her? Be homeless?

If she has no skill other than offering her body, then she is literally "screwed" as far as the future goes.

Get out soon dude, or resign yourself to this marriage.
 

Yuppie

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Would she still be with you if the money ran out?
In such relationships - it should be clear what it is based on. Mutual exchange of money for s_x. Don't kid oneself by thinking that you guys are "friends" as it crosses that blurly line.
 

island-guy

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I think what you have to ask yourself is if you are really in a Sug Babe/Sug Dad relationship or if you are in a real relationship with a gold-digger. The two are VERY different.

If it is a real relationship, but she's just with you because you have money, then there's no reason not to stick with it.

If it's a $ for booty kinda thing, well... as has been said before, would she stick around and keep giving you sex if you stopped paying for things for her or giving her cash? Don't be a chump.

One 'test' of the above: Do the two of you live together?
 

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Crack Whore With Expensive Tastes!

i know i should run, her problem needs medical attention that can help in the future, but she is in a bad spot, i just hate to think what would happen if i left, she will be homeless, that i know for certain. Sexwas used at the beginning as a bargaining chip, now justboth enjoy until this month.
She sounds like a crack whore!!!! Did you meet her at Value Village on Hastings?
 

islandguy

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Sounds like a girl I met on holidays.
Called sugar daddy her cash machine.
Hadn't had sex with him in weeks but was sneaking over to my room for it.
Had a couple of beer with sugar daddy he didn't know I was banging sugar baby at his expense. Told me how he wasn't getting any and was having a terrible vacation.
I think she should treat her cash machine better.
 

gigidy gigidy

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oh ive heard it before trust me. Funny she gets upset when i mention the money i put in to her life, rent, food, bills, gifts,etc. She doesn't like knowing what she is i guess. Honestly our time would fluctuate with my money that im sure, just worried about her at the moment.
 

HeMadeMeDoIt

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You're confusing being her daddy with her sugar daddy. One should only stick around while the fucking is good and the other has no choice but to stick around forever. Hope i dont need to clarify which is which:rolleyes:
 

kidstone

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My brother was exploited by a whore who sucked all the money out of him and didn't give sex in return.

But this doesn't sound like that situation.

If you are an exploiter, then you are giving her money just to get what you want with no regard for her. When she stops putting out you stop giving money, and so you have no real feeling for the woman.

On the other hand if you are a sugardaddy, then you understand that there's a valid trade going on. You both are getting something out of the relationship, and you should expect at times to fund her when she needs it. And most likely she will return your generosity with sex at a later date.
 
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Three key points

1. If you are really qualified as being a suga dad, you should have enough money that you dont worry about how much you're givin to your suga babe. You just failed the first test, my friend. :)

2. A suga dad & suga babe relationship should only about sex and money. No more no less. You crossed the line, you failed the second test! :D

3. Hope your suga babe dont go by the name of "Nadia"???? If you fail this test too...... may god help you. ;)
 

kodiak_bear3

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Until it becomes a burden

I think that a SD/sb relationship should last until both people involved feel good about each other.

It is not a good arrangement when SD only wants intimacy and sb only wants money.
SD should enjoy supporting his babe; when supports becomes a burden, it is time to quit.
On the other side, sb should know the rules of the game and she should provide enough devotion and affection as to make her SD feel happy and have a good time.
In the ideal world, those feelings should be there naturally, but we all must be aware that, most of the time, they are all made up.
 

SeaToSky

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OK how about this: continue to support her for now. But once she's back in action, you should pay a reduced support for some period of time, to compensate the time you're supporting her without getting anything back. If she's unwilling to negotiate a reasonable deal, then just drop her and find a new sugar babe.
 
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