Greetings Ladies and Gents...
As an Indy SP in Victoria, I practically never post here on Perb (self-admitted lurker ) but today I feel compelled to write a few words. I'm hoping that someone out there might be able to offer some good advice on something... or I should say, someone... that is causing some frustration for me.
After a one-time appointment with a certain long-winded Victoria poster, Shiva, I was scared off by some obsessive-like behavior and told him to absolutely not contact me again. He's attempted to have me essentially "name my price" but I've stuck to my word and never again responded to any of his correspondence or communications.
Today, a few weeks later, unbeleivably, he approached me in broad daylight, as I was getting off work, waiting for a parkade elevator! OMG! Defintly made a point of approaching and trying to talk to me... no doubt about it. Guys? Ladies? Is this not wrong on so many levels?! This seems to break the golden rules of sp etiquette, no? Put a MAJOR damper on my Valentines Day, to say the least .
Can anyone suggest how I might make this stop, without making it worse? I'm not interested in instigating anything except having this guy understand to stay the hell away from me... forever. Absolutely.
Let's all hope the offender isn't socially-retarded enough to respond to this thread... I would have rather left this alone, but after chatting with some good friends who are in the bizz and receiving encouragement to do so... I feel it was the right thing to do.
So, I open the floor (to all except the above mentioned offender, please and thanks)... please help me out, if you can, fellow perbites. I need some solid advice on this...
Much thanks to all my wonderful clients who have never given me anything remotely like this to deal with. True gentleman....
As an Indy SP in Victoria, I practically never post here on Perb (self-admitted lurker ) but today I feel compelled to write a few words. I'm hoping that someone out there might be able to offer some good advice on something... or I should say, someone... that is causing some frustration for me.
After a one-time appointment with a certain long-winded Victoria poster, Shiva, I was scared off by some obsessive-like behavior and told him to absolutely not contact me again. He's attempted to have me essentially "name my price" but I've stuck to my word and never again responded to any of his correspondence or communications.
Today, a few weeks later, unbeleivably, he approached me in broad daylight, as I was getting off work, waiting for a parkade elevator! OMG! Defintly made a point of approaching and trying to talk to me... no doubt about it. Guys? Ladies? Is this not wrong on so many levels?! This seems to break the golden rules of sp etiquette, no? Put a MAJOR damper on my Valentines Day, to say the least .
Can anyone suggest how I might make this stop, without making it worse? I'm not interested in instigating anything except having this guy understand to stay the hell away from me... forever. Absolutely.
Let's all hope the offender isn't socially-retarded enough to respond to this thread... I would have rather left this alone, but after chatting with some good friends who are in the bizz and receiving encouragement to do so... I feel it was the right thing to do.
So, I open the floor (to all except the above mentioned offender, please and thanks)... please help me out, if you can, fellow perbites. I need some solid advice on this...
Much thanks to all my wonderful clients who have never given me anything remotely like this to deal with. True gentleman....