I've received 2 bbbj from 2 sp around 3-4 months ago(not at the same time). No DATY and very little intercourse with condom(was inside real quick). I never digit nor let the sp use a hand that touched herself touch mine. This was like i said about 3-4 months ago.
2 months ago, after condomless sex with my wife i noticed a small red mark on the head of my penis approx 1 day later. It was NOT bumpy or filled with any fluids. It was quite a small mark that was more noticable under certain lighting or angles. Although it looked like a small bump or change in the skin pattern, when i run my finger over it i could not really feel a difference. This was present for about 2 weeks. I did not have any pains or fevers but did notice on one of the days(when i was checking it 25 times a day if it got worst)a slight discomfort in my testicles, like a dull annoying feeling when i was sitting down. The other change i've noticed and still do is when i masturbate my penis gets a little red or hot after i finish and where the foreskin meets the tip(i'm circumsized)seems very sensitive or red immediately afterwards(no pain). The tip of my penis gets slightly red in spots sometimes but by the time check again it's gone. I also continously think something is wrong even though nothing else other than what i have written has happenned.
During that time and even now 2 months later, i kept reading about std's on the internet and i am very stressed and worried that i caught some std even though it has not reappeared. I think about it first thing when i wake up each morning and non stop throughout the day.
My question is, do you think my stress is causing many of the problems, other than the red mark appearing originally? I have never checked my penis more than i have in the last 60 days and take note of every little change. My hands are also getting really dry from all the handwashing i have done.
I did get a blood and urine test for std's last week but from what i read if sores are not present nothing can be detected accurately. Is this true?
So stressed.
2 months ago, after condomless sex with my wife i noticed a small red mark on the head of my penis approx 1 day later. It was NOT bumpy or filled with any fluids. It was quite a small mark that was more noticable under certain lighting or angles. Although it looked like a small bump or change in the skin pattern, when i run my finger over it i could not really feel a difference. This was present for about 2 weeks. I did not have any pains or fevers but did notice on one of the days(when i was checking it 25 times a day if it got worst)a slight discomfort in my testicles, like a dull annoying feeling when i was sitting down. The other change i've noticed and still do is when i masturbate my penis gets a little red or hot after i finish and where the foreskin meets the tip(i'm circumsized)seems very sensitive or red immediately afterwards(no pain). The tip of my penis gets slightly red in spots sometimes but by the time check again it's gone. I also continously think something is wrong even though nothing else other than what i have written has happenned.
During that time and even now 2 months later, i kept reading about std's on the internet and i am very stressed and worried that i caught some std even though it has not reappeared. I think about it first thing when i wake up each morning and non stop throughout the day.
My question is, do you think my stress is causing many of the problems, other than the red mark appearing originally? I have never checked my penis more than i have in the last 60 days and take note of every little change. My hands are also getting really dry from all the handwashing i have done.
I did get a blood and urine test for std's last week but from what i read if sores are not present nothing can be detected accurately. Is this true?
So stressed.
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