that's an interesting thought and post CFF. To unpack it a little bit....that's one of the more useful features of a board such as this. The ability to watch, to assess, and the odd time to send off a pm wondering if the pm'ee is amenable to the thought process.
I kind of view "fetish" in the strictest sense of the word....sort of the whole overpowering, controlling, mind numbing need to "have" whatever the object of the fetish is. I suspect I have few "fetishes"...but I sure as hell have my share of fantasies and this place provides me the opportunity to hook up with some pretty amazing people who can knock those off for me before I do the whole "pitch it into the dirt" thing that we inevitably all have coming.
It's wonderful to be completely open and this board provides the opportunity to do so in complete anonymity. No need to worry about running into her at a bar and having her do the double take...and know she is thinking..."oh yeah, I remember that freak". Because, quite frankly, I have some very nasty non mainstream type of thoughts as, I suspect, do we all....this is a chance to lay them out and see if there is any sort of agreement. Trust me, I have been completely rejected on here as I open up about my thought process in private and, to that, I think...thank gawd! I would much prefer to hear "no" rather than..."yes, I will do that"...and then she fails to do so. That would be a complete waste of each of our times....not to mention my frigging small supply of money!....
Since you were open about your foot "preference"...I will go ahead and list mine. I mean...what the heck right?
1. Kissing ass....totally hot....very controlling. Add to that...kissing an armpit...back of knee....any other sort of "taboo" bits that don't normally receive attention and can be wonderfully humiliating and controlling.
2. Feet....I love feet...how much lower can you go? Total control with that one.
3. Pissing....very intimate and I don't have much experience with it. Mistress T did it with me and it was amazing but I was a bit taken aback at the time. I had requested it of her....thought she had forgotten...she hadn't...and it came as a surprise. It was amazing...and she is amazing.
4. Smothering....totally denying breath for a controlled amount of time. That takes competence. All of Bdsm takes competence...it's cool to run into it.
5. The rest...in the perfect world...is up to her mood. It's pretty obvious when someone is "into" something...and just knowing that she is getting what she wants at any given time...totally hot.
I hope this isn't a hijack of your thread. I didn't mean it that way if it seems so. I just liked your thought process of "being open about it"...whatever "it" may happen to be.
eddie.