Post Session Blues

PuntMeister

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During a week of travel, a few long airplane rides got me thinking:

What do you subs and doms like to do after a session?

It seems appropriate not to just rush back into the daily groove. I try to spend some time solo at a restaurant or pub; a nice walk by the beach or sitting in the park. The transition is serene as my thoughts collect. Images solidify in my mind--the most delicious bits lock in. The contrast with everyday bustle lays sweetly before me. Life's passions and purpose swirl together and I savour the moment. The opportunity for insight also peaks for me, as if I could solve any problem by mind and willpower. When my yin and yang settle into purposeful dischord, I go forth and fight the traffic home, feeling alive and contented.

Do others experience post-session emotions and thoughts?

Please share.
 

edmontonsubbie

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a brilliant question....

....I immediately get drunk, wander down to the zoo with my stilts, and watch the giraffes. It's nice to have rituals.

One thing I most assuredly do, is make sure I have no working obligations for the following day. An intense experience will have left me rambling and thinking about little else to the point where I could do myself grievous harm with a nail....besides, it's wonderful to take the time to remember the moment(s).

eddie.
 

maxx50

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It is more then just the blues!!!

I have to say that for me I have a connection with most of the girls i see. the few that i see regularly . are friends in a sense.. and after a session I realy find it hard to leave . It is like a girlfriend thing. I will e mail about little things , and phone to see how things are.
I deffinetly need to take the next day off of work and just laz around and remember the every sweet moment.:rolleyes:
 

tampdown

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During a week of travel, a few long airplane rides got me thinking:

What do you subs and doms like to do after a session?

It seems appropriate not to just rush back into the daily groove. I try to spend some time solo at a restaurant or pub; a nice walk by the beach or sitting in the park. The transition is serene as my thoughts collect. Images solidify in my mind--the most delicious bits lock in. The contrast with everyday bustle lays sweetly before me. Life's passions and purpose swirl together and I savour the moment. The opportunity for insight also peaks for me, as if I could solve any problem by mind and willpower. When my yin and yang settle into purposeful dischord, I go forth and fight the traffic home, feeling alive and contented.

Do others experience post-session emotions and thoughts?

Please share.
Hey Punt,

My life is so crazy buzy I don't really have an time to take for "downtime" after. Usually it's right back into the normal busyness. Just taking the 2 hours out of normal life for the session itself is a hard thing to juggle.

But... after a really good session I love the feeling of waking up the next morning sore and stiff - as if I have had a good workout. I also love a hot shower the next morning and the absolute joyfull feeling of aching nipples. It's kind of like the "torture after the torture." It'sd a delicious feeling. It's kinda like the session is still continuing.

On occassion I have been able to say to a domme that she can go as hard as she wants and that marks aren't a problem. In these cases I have had some amazing marks that have lasted about 2 weeks, and some really painful buns. Again, it's a delicious feeling sitting at my desk in my office feeling the discomfort of my ass. It really takes my back into the session experience.

I have to sau though... a lot depends on how good the session is. I've had some so-so sessions where I have come away slightly frustrated and diappointed. That is kinda hard to deal with. Part of the problem is that I have had some absolutely amazing sessions and experiences - so the bar is now set fairly high.

tamp
 

PuntMeister

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A New Violent Kewl-Down

Just came up with a new post-session kewl-down scenario. Shocking even for me ...

After my next "treat", I aim to head out to a sports bar like Shark Club or similar and watch UFC 79. I sure hope GSP kicks Matt Hughes butt (again). And although I like Lidell's power, my support has shifted to Silva's camp. There's will be lots of intense and violent action to witness, which seems a very odd selection for some post-session blissful reflection.

With my self-image of a nice gentle man with good spirit toward people of the world, how come I crave to see this most violent of sport? I don't know. Maybe someone can shed some light on it. I tell myself I really appreciate the skill, dedication, and natural ability of a great jiu jitsu match, which I do, but I also know there is some stronger emotion about the competition and physicality of a good all-out fight. In some way perhaps it is like BDSM. Giving in to the dark desires of the flesh and mind. Exploring edgy - uncharted territory. Adventuring into a unique and provocative universe. It seems bizarre though that I would desire this after the explosive mind-and-body expansion of a session. Intellectually I should want to visit the art gallery, or listen to some classical music after a great session. But no, the Puntmeister want to go out and watch a brawl. It is certainly not to take my mind off the session, but rather to somehow heighten the pinnacle of human erotic experience.

OK, now I'm babbling. But dammit, I am going to watch the fight!
 

Poeticus

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Just came up with a new post-session kewl-down scenario. Shocking even for me ...

After my next "treat", I aim to head out to a sports bar like Shark Club or similar and watch UFC 79. I sure hope GSP kicks Matt Hughes butt (again). And although I like Lidell's power, my support has shifted to Silva's camp. There's will be lots of intense and violent action to witness, which seems a very odd selection for some post-session blissful reflection.

With my self-image of a nice gentle man with good spirit toward people of the world, how come I crave to see this most violent of sport? I don't know. Maybe someone can shed some light on it. I tell myself I really appreciate the skill, dedication, and natural ability of a great jiu jitsu match, which I do, but I also know there is some stronger emotion about the competition and physicality of a good all-out fight. In some way perhaps it is like BDSM. Giving in to the dark desires of the flesh and mind. Exploring edgy - uncharted territory. Adventuring into a unique and provocative universe. It seems bizarre though that I would desire this after the explosive mind-and-body expansion of a session. Intellectually I should want to visit the art gallery, or listen to some classical music after a great session. But no, the Puntmeister want to go out and watch a brawl. It is certainly not to take my mind off the session, but rather to somehow heighten the pinnacle of human erotic experience.

OK, now I'm babbling. But dammit, I am going to watch the fight!

"Ah yes", he yells, as steel bell sounds
To witness combatants, hands tightly clenched
"Time for action, release the hounds"
Electricified, alive, a session intense

Oh, yes, we know the feeling well.
To continue the experience, heightening rather than distracted,
With form so different you cannot tell
its aim to keep the feeling protracted.

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