I feel like I am posting a lot... damn. I need my domm to visit I think. sigh. Sometimes being a sub is tough.
Moving right along.
Those of you reading my posts can probably gather that I am new to this sort of thing as a lifstyle and/or community. I have, in fact, stumbled upon all of my bdsm relationships instead of going out and finding them. I do believe in a domdar - like gaydar but different.
My question is this - I know that there are sub categories in submission and domination and am courious as to what my personal kink would be called.
I don't go as far as rape games, but I am not personally about total and immediate submission. I started thinking about this because of Mistress Onyx's q. about how a sub feels pre session. I always spend about an hour getting really pissed off because I am a fighter.
I like to piss off my dom. I get out my agression and am very disrespectful - more so than I could EVER be in RL. For me sub is about being put in my place - of course over the course of a play date I do in fact submit, well if the dom is good at least.
It is like the urge to switch. In rl I am a agressive strong willed woman. As a sub I am not looking to be obedient because I like it - I am looking for a master or mistress who is so charasmtic and strong willed that they overcome me and I have no choice but to submit.
One master called me "the sassy sub" but surley there is a more "technical" term for this sub category of BDSM.
Moving right along.
Those of you reading my posts can probably gather that I am new to this sort of thing as a lifstyle and/or community. I have, in fact, stumbled upon all of my bdsm relationships instead of going out and finding them. I do believe in a domdar - like gaydar but different.
My question is this - I know that there are sub categories in submission and domination and am courious as to what my personal kink would be called.
I don't go as far as rape games, but I am not personally about total and immediate submission. I started thinking about this because of Mistress Onyx's q. about how a sub feels pre session. I always spend about an hour getting really pissed off because I am a fighter.
I like to piss off my dom. I get out my agression and am very disrespectful - more so than I could EVER be in RL. For me sub is about being put in my place - of course over the course of a play date I do in fact submit, well if the dom is good at least.
It is like the urge to switch. In rl I am a agressive strong willed woman. As a sub I am not looking to be obedient because I like it - I am looking for a master or mistress who is so charasmtic and strong willed that they overcome me and I have no choice but to submit.
One master called me "the sassy sub" but surley there is a more "technical" term for this sub category of BDSM.