Pro Subs??

SweetCee

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Okay, to be clear, yes I escort - no I am not specifically looking for clients with the post! I am sorry if it comes off that way.

I've been a sub since I became sexually active at 14. I have always kept my personal affection for BDSM seperate from my professional escort activities, but lately I have been questioning this desision.

I was wondering if there is a market for paid sub. sessions?

Like I said I AM NOT looking for clients with this post. To me getting paid to sub kind of goes against the whole thing anyway and am not sure how I would feel about doing that sort of work anyway.

Just want to get a feel for what is out there.

(Again... not looking for clients. not just saying that... really really)
 

eric1979

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the market exists always for sub girls cuz there are not so many

I paid for one session with fetish in LA double more for SP plus sub service
 

OilMan

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I believe there would be...

but I also think there would be pitfalls and issues as well. I have met a couple of providers that after quite a few visits and a lot of discussion opened up to me that they were sub, we did play with that and all round it worked out very well, but we had build up a level of trust over a long period of time before that could ever happen
 
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Dragon Fly's

I believe Dragon Fly has a couple of pro female subs. I think they only work out of her dungeon with other staff on the premises and there is an indepth interview and firm boundaries. You could ask her for info on the topic.
 

edmontonsubbie

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I believe Dragon Fly has a couple of pro female subs. I think they only work out of her dungeon with other staff on the premises and there is an indepth interview and firm boundaries. You could ask her for info on the topic.
Miss T is such an amazingly giving person...I love how she gives out accurate info....even when she looked at my bag on the floor in the morning as I was getting ready to leave and said..."get that shit out of my way"....random thought....luv ya Miss T! (was shocked at the time tho)

Hello,

Yes there is a market for you BUT you need to be VERY careful. No bondage. If you do bondage you need to know hidden safety knots for quick release if they go nuts. Someone always needs to do your time calls. Unfortunately both male and female abusers sometimes hide behind BDSM.

Here is an example...
I was a sub for many years. One day I finally felt that I could trust my boyfriend of 2 years to fully tie me in bondage. He stripped me naked and tied me up in a hotel room. He put plastic zip strips on my wrists and ankles. I was so turned on. Turned on until he got up and left.

I rolled off the bed and inched to the window. I saw him walk, without looking back to his car and leave. He eventually came back but the situation taught me a very valuable lesson.

You never know who someone will become when you give them total power and control over you.
o.k....so this is totally interesting. I am of a mind to think that many Tops start as bottoms...at least....the ones that admit it ring pretty true to me anyway. It's not like I'm an expert but I'm surely an observationalist (presuming that's even a word).

I played around with top...enjoyed it, no question. But, not for me. I like the escapism involved in assigning control to competence. It's a rare find...this "competence". I top and control my day to day life as best I can and that's quite sufficient. Isn't it funny how life sometimes won't bend to your will? I hate that....

thank you for your cool and honest commentary here Mistress Onyx. Those that know you are lucky to have made your acquaintance would be my wager.

eddie.
 

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I believe Dragon Fly has a couple of pro female subs. I think they only work out of her dungeon with other staff on the premises and there is an indepth interview and firm boundaries. You could ask her for info on the topic.
Yes.. this is correct. There are currently three pro-subs at dragonfly's. Of which two we know personally. For them, being on premise provides them not only with the toys/equipment.. but also (the more important factor) a safe environment to work out of.

They are both quite experienced.. but even then.. Mistress Onyx is right.. you never know who someone will become!
 

Daddy

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.. Mistress Onyx is right.. you never know who someone will become!
I've played with a lot with prosubs. All of them were v. nice and v. experienced and I got to do all kinds of things to them, much more than I expected in fact. None of them were overly paranoid about playing with me. I dunno, I think caution in BDSM is overemphasized. I mean, sure take precautions but there's no need to think you're going straight to the devil. People still have this Victorian idea that BDSM is 'evil' and that every third player is Satan or something. Even people in the lifestyle. Serious! Maybe they're just flattering themselves. lol.

Actually what scares the bejesus out of me is the potential for being stood up. I've played with most of the prosubs in Van and at the end of the day I prefer those who work out of dungeons and whom I know to be reliable. I was v. curious about Miss T's subbie and tried to become a client but we had some scheduling issues (mutual I'm sure) that kind of derailed things. It's v. hard to come back from that sort of thing, getting bumped around and cancelled and whatnot.
 
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Unsportsman-like

Actually what scares the bejesus out of me is the potential for being stood up. I've played with most of the prosubs in Van and at the end of the day I prefer those who work out of dungeons and whom I know to be reliable. I was v. curious about Miss T's subbie and tried to become a client but we had some scheduling issues (mutual I'm sure) that kind of derailed things. It's v. hard to come back from that sort of thing, getting bumped around and cancelled and whatnot.
Daddy, I have numerous positive reviews and a great deal of support on Perb, for very good reason. Your comment in reference to me could be taken the wrong way. If you have an issue with me it would be more productive to take it up with me directly. Inserting negative comments in random threads is considered "unsportsman-like" to put it kindly.

Other professionals read your comments and may well come to the conclusion that you wouldn't be the type of client they would want to see. A client who may blow things out of proportion and make a scheduling issue sound like a horrible trauma. A potentially high-maintenance client who may be more trouble than he's worth. I'm not saying YOU are like that at all...however making a negative comment about someone with such an excellent reputation could actually put you in a bad light.

Many professionals choose their clients, just as clients choose us. We all have "do-not-see" lists and your above comment has just earned you a place on mine, rather then the opposite which you might have hoped for by posting that comment in the first place.
 

edmontonsubbie

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Damn it eddie!
You are from edmonton and I know as a proud Calgarian I should simply ignore anything you have to say.
Thank you for not following your initial instincts then. I used to live in Calgary anyway...I love Calgary....45 minutes after getting home I was out past Bragg Creek sipping on a beer on a Friday afternoon...now, that was living. I made this cool little tongue gag deal out of that book....would you like it? Go, Oilers, go!....golfing. *I've decided that calling the Oilers a hockey team would be better served by removing the c from the word*

too true, eddie, but you don't know the half of it!


xxxo,
jessiebelle, Mrs. T's subbie
now that, is just cruel jessiebelle. Would you like some salt to rub into that nyah nyah wound you just opened up on me??

Daddy, I have numerous positive reviews and a great deal of support on Perb, for very good reason. Your comment in reference to me could be taken the wrong way. If you have an issue with me it would be more productive to take it up with me directly. Inserting negative comments in random threads is considered "unsportsman-like" to put it kindly.

Other professionals read your comments and may well come to the conclusion that you wouldn't be the type of client they would want to see. A client who may blow things out of proportion and make a scheduling issue sound like a horrible trauma. A potentially high-maintenance client who may be more trouble than he's worth. I'm not saying YOU are like that at all...however making a negative comment about someone with such an excellent reputation could actually put you in a bad light.

Many professionals choose their clients, just as clients choose us. We all have "do-not-see" lists and your above comment has just earned you a place on mine, rather then the opposite which you might have hoped for by posting that comment in the first place.
*quickly moves my shit out of the way as instructed*

have the best day possible each and all....this little section is an absolutely delightful way to kick off the day. Especially as it's minus 20 or so out there....gawd...what on earth would possess one million people to do this? Oh well, I'm glad they do and I hope more keep coming...it's good for business!

eddie.

p.s. SweetCee....good luck with your quest....most of that advice up there looks pretty well thought out....maybe Dragon Fly has room for one more?
 
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Daddy

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Bratty

Other professionals read your comments and may well come to the conclusion that you wouldn't be the type of client they would want to see.
I think the only person making negative insertions is you, Miss T.

I'm sorry to be placed on your negative nelly list. That of course is your right. However, I don't think it's quite the social disaster that you'd like me to believe it is. Yes, my little ship of hope has been dashed to pieces on the reef of rejection (oh woe, woe...), but I will get over it, I will soldier bravely on, and I will have lunch in this town again.

If anyone is to interpret anything from our harmless little scratching match it should merely be this; That I'm pretty serious about scheduling and when I say I'm going to show up, follow through, and not waste anybody's time, you can be darned sure of it.

Anyway, far from insulting you, I'm prepared to comment that you have a rather good organization and seem to be enjoying a little success. I think you can afford to try and cultivate a little humility, so why don't you? It's very becoming in a Domme ... no matter what you may think.
 
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Pissing competition...

With a signature that says "I'm right, you're wrong" I didn't expect an apology for you being out of line. You've already stated where YOU stand on humility *smile*.

For the record, since you've implied I stood you up, I did not. I canceled your appointment with plenty of notice and we had not rescheduled yet. You made that sound like a great crime in the first place in a public thread instead of coming to me directly to sort it. I wasn't about to have my reputation smeared by someone else who was actually being 'bratty'.

What a lovely reminder of why I adore respectful submissive men over abrasive, stubborn dominant men...*grin*.
 

Daddy

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All smiles here.

With a signature that says "I'm right, you're wrong" I didn't expect an apology for you being out of line. You've already stated where YOU stand on humility *smile*.
Whoa, you never stood me up.
You're thinking of somebody else I'm afraid.
Anyway, since you've made up this whole drama, I'll leave you to direct and star in it ...
 
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SweetCee

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Mistress Onyx - I tottally missed the offer for free help! You are awsome and amazing... I'm PMing you in mere min!

I started a new thread to escape the "pissing contest" (good call Mistress T) I have found in other forums when there gets to be high reply numbers with a lot of back and forth a lot of posters don't read the end...

anyhow... I am very excited about the web referances ect. I do know how to work a search engine but prefer to be directed by an actual human who can verify the information is acturate.
 

Daddy

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I do not feel you are who you say you are. I am unsure if you are an escort, a guy sub, a Dom or a client of a Dom. I love the spelling errors touch though.
yeah ... but she got pretty good response though, whatever her reasons or gender.
This section needs - I dunno - something sincere or offbeat or even weird on a regular basis, just to get people contributing comments and opinions and participating. It can get pretty quiet over here.
 

edmontonsubbie

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o.k....

If you want to tell me to F**k off. I welcome you to use a search engine to find my site.
and.....Last edited by Mistress Onyx : Today at 12:48 PM. Reason: too many cuss words

I am so laughing after a hard day's work. Too many cuss words....the classic edit. I really meant to say "gosh".

eddie.
 
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