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o.k....last post and that's a promise....

edmontonsubbie

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uh...Edmonton.
...this is, after all, a review site and meant to generate interest and business for the hard working Mistresses. I have humblers to paint and urethane anyway....

My question here is....and I do very much enjoy the topics that erupt here from time to time and the responses to them. But....the world of BDSM is slightly "off colour" and a little bit "taboo". I kinda liken it to the world of "porn" before the internet. Everyone is interested, but few would admit it. Now the internet's number one business is, of course, porn. Nothing more comforting than enjoying your private pleasures in...well...private. That's not my thinking, that's just obvious.

So, I am sure there are studies, polls, whatever....about interest in the gentle art of "being tied up"...."denied motion"...."teased"....that will appeal to lovers the world over. Guess what, it has a name. But the name is taboo and conjures images of freaks in black leather. Oh well, no biggie.

To the point. Who do you discuss stuff with? I love this forum for it's openness....but being anonymous kinda sux. Look at the Mistresses here....they are hardly anonymous. They will surely run into people that have "seen" them from here or elsewhere. And, that takes some eggs. Or, does it? I suppose once you decide to live a lifestyle, what difference? Be pleased and proud of what you do...I surely know that the best people I know are exactly of that mindset.

I was invited and gratefully accepted the invitation to join the local BDSM community but I have let that fade away. I met one kinda cool sub during a weekend summrtreat camping thing....but, he's obviously busy with his Mistress....so, what chance to have a beer? Besides, he lives in Calgary.

I think I just need more time...but my question stands....who do you talk to?

eddie.
 

buddha2

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... and that's the way I like it. Part of the fun for me is the taboo. How can "kinky" be normal? That said, I do enjoy dropping hints in everyday conversation, and my antennae are always tuned. A secretary in my office put out an email the other day asking for help locating an "O" pendant she'd lost. O is not one of her initials!
 

PuntMeister

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I talk to you eddie. I also talk to mistresses quite comfortably. I talk to my member of parliament, guys at the bar, ladies that flirt with me, my masseuse, albino chasing knomes with cattle prods, randomly selected librarians, and the hot check-out girl at Safeway with the dark eye liner.

But that's just me I guess.
 

edmontonsubbie

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o.k., I'm a liar, but I'm going on a technicality...this is an "existing" post....

... and that's the way I like it. Part of the fun for me is the taboo. How can "kinky" be normal? That said, I do enjoy dropping hints in everyday conversation, and my antennae are always tuned. A secretary in my office put out an email the other day asking for help locating an "O" pendant she'd lost. O is not one of her initials!
yep....I definitely do the "drop the hint" thing....sometimes not even a hint really....one of the boys out on site says...."hey eddie, we're going for a beer, wanna come?"....I reply..."no, my Mistress frowns on that"....and quizzical looks and minor laughter follows....it's nice to be intensely private...smile.

I talk to you eddie. I also talk to mistresses quite comfortably. I talk to my member of parliament, guys at the bar, ladies that flirt with me, my masseuse, albino chasing knomes with cattle prods, randomly selected librarians, and the hot check-out girl at Safeway with the dark eye liner.

But that's just me I guess.
I know her! And, to think, she actually said that I was the only one for her. Gawd....I'm slightly desolated. Well, I don't think there are degrees of desolation....you either are...or you aren't.

I talk to my landlady about all this actually. We were out having a firepit...drinking beer (of course)....and get to swapping stories....told her about the summrtreat weekend and she gets all interested....turns out she has a whole pile of floggers and a crop and cuffs etc etc etc....shows them to me...we start laughing and go from there.

I think she wants to go further with this...well, I know she does. She's kinda hot too....kind of a cross between Miss T and Mistress Anna....as if there could be such a thing. But, in my own ridiculous principles way....I told her with a straight face that I would never consider engaging in such as this with her as we live in the same place and any "downturn" in the relationship would only lead me to looking for a new place to live. And, I'm not really interested in moving from a pretty cool home that I have established for myself. I told my kids one time that I was thinking of moving into one of those high rises downtown...I love downtown...and they were unanimous...."noooo daddy, don't move!"....so I won't.

I will never look at a giraffe in the same way now....especially if there are clowns around.

eddie.
 

edmontonsubbie

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You know you want to!

Who do I talk to? Most of my friends are in the fetish scene so it's not an issue, just a normal topic of conversation.

I also talk to my "vanilla" clients about it as most are interested in at least hearing about it if not exploring it. And then, of course, we have to explore it... And then - well, let's just say I'm changing the flavors of the world, one man at a time! Woo Hoo! ;)
the world needs more of your "ilk"....presuming that ilk is even a word.

eddie.
 

Poeticus

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harbinger of secrets
forbidden, dark,

I lay in bed alone with my dreams

the horizon is a barren Dali landscape
spotted with mysterious caves of danger

I cannot look. I must look.

The sky roils where energy meets art

The odyssey is mine, but there are others on the path
 

sinfulsydnee

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Beautifully articulated...

harbinger of secrets
forbidden, dark,

I lay in bed alone with my dreams

the horizon is a barren Dali landscape
spotted with mysterious caves of danger

I cannot look. I must look.

The sky roils where energy meets art

The odyssey is mine, but there are others on the path
and well said even :) I on the other hand, tend to talk to many people about my particular fetishes and my BDSM practices...interestingly enough, Winnipeg has a thriving little BDSM scene but I have found very few Pro Dommes to talk with...that is something that I really would love to do - find local women who work in the profession to share experiences with...beyond that though, I tend to go the route of the Beautiful Anna...bi speaking with my vanilla clients I find that they often want to explore more in our sessions...so I too am on a mission to make my little world more Baskins Robbinsesque - one person at a time :D
 
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kutterdoug

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Hi eddie I'am with Anna on this one about the landlady, sounds very interesting. You know you want to, hell I want to (LOL). From what you said about enjoying where you call home maybe you won't.Just an idea maybe you should try being a little late with the rent one day.Good luck trying to stay away from her now that she knows.
 

naughtyboy

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Good post ES. Some gf you can talk to about this, some you can't. I think you express well what a lot of us feel.
 
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