SP's asking for money upfront = bad experience

ang07

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Just out of curiosity I was wondeirng if anyone had similar experiences as me?
Visit MP and SP asks for $$.4 up front and service is just horrible along with attitude? Had this happen to me twice and just wondering if its just bad news?
 

belair

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Um, I don't know,

have you had a bath recently? You know, one where you clean both your back and front end?
 
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wannabe

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hmm

I get a little nervous if a girl asks me for money upfront, although cant really blame them.

What I like to do is slap my cash down so that when they come in the room they see it, it ususally sets up a trusting and more times than not a very good session.

Lastly, try to use this board to lessen your chance of getting stuck with a dud.
lots of great providers out there and many have been reviewed on here.

Good luck!
 

Bobo The Rabbit

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Money upfront tends to happen with the girls who are lousy plain and simple.
 

buddha2

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up front - no prob

In fact, I've always been surprised that it could be any other way. Let's face it, the real potential is for the lady to get ripped off. Feedback I've got from SP's is that guys who don't offer up front, and who are always negotiating are likely encountering the SP's fear that she's facing a "dine and dash" scenario...

Bottom line, don't repeat with the bad attitudes...
 

Guardian Angel

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Be prepared

I am always prepared to pay when I get first get in. It usually allows time to discuss what is included in the fee and any charges for extras.

If extras are discussed, agreed to and we get right into the session, without paying first, the comfort level seems to be higher and usually I have rec'd great service.

More often than not though, any session where money first, pleasure second is the norm, I have had my worst experiences.

G.A.
 

Pleaser

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my comment

I have to be honest I can understand why the ladies want the money up front however in my experience like stated above all my excellent sessions and repeat business has been with providers that rarely discuss financial details.

All times I have paid upfront have been rushed and horrible experience. It may be bad luck but paying up front draws a red flag especially if you have seen the girl before.

P
 

kayla21

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up front

I have found from personal experiance from having a man hit and run off on me.... that if you at least make sure they have the money put somewhere within her reach so she grab it quickly after then really there should be no problems..:p
 

belair

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Receiving money up front is the norm in this business all around the world. It's just the way it is. On the other hand, there have been many times when I have received cash after a session, and no problems have resulted for either myself or my client.
 

wickedwillie

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you gotta be kidding

Receiving money up front is the norm in this business all around the world. It's just the way it is. On the other hand, there have been many times when I have received cash after a session, and no problems have resulted for either myself or my client.
obviously you nothing about paid sex out of North America

I have pooned all over the world

and ALWAYS PAY AFTER the the business is done

this is true is all of South America, Mexico, Asia, East Europe, Australia, New zealand

only men in some first world countries are dumb enough (me too:( ) to pay upfront

by the way we pay upfront (most of the time, but not always), pay the most, and get the worst sex, in "sexprison northamerica"

can't wait to get out of here (sexprison canada) in september for a 50 day trip to thailand and philippines, its gonna be so rough having a hottie stay the whole night (full GFE) for $25 to $40.00:D AND PAY AFTERWARDS
 

Annalise Lane

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If I dont know the gent I will ask for money up front ... and how it's worded is "Can we take care of biz, so I can relax" NEVER have I had anyone complain about this. Then there are the gentleman who understand our ladies needs for donatiion secuity and they have it ready on the table when I enter the room.

With regulars, I never ask, and we dont' discuss amount EVER. They know my rates, and they book according to their budget and time interest. Simple really.

MP gals have a harder time I'm sure, as their donations are based on time/ services/extra's, so each donation will be different. And I can see why a money conversation is first not only for the gent but for the lady.

Easily 20% of the time I count before I leave IN FRONT of him, and a few times there has been more money then I asked for, which I offered back to him, the usually answer is ' no that is a tip '

In NYC I was complimented that it was classy not to count. And I still believe, if you are going to rip off a lady, the gent likely needed pussy more then we needed to pay bills.

Karma is a bitch but it always comes around too.
 

sexylittlevixen

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Sadly...

Too many girls have been ripped off or shorted. So there is always some tension when it is a new client. Most of the gentlemen that come in are honest and awesome, but I have had some try to pull a fast one! It happens, no doubt about it.

I always want to discuss business up front so there is no miscommunication. I want to make sure you are getting everything you want. However, I never touch the donation EVER until the end of the session. I always ask just to leave it on the table. At the end of the session I ALWAYS ask if the session was to their satisfaction, and if we are still good about the donation. If there is a problem, we discuss it before I take it.

When I have a regular or repeat business, I don't ask or discuss it and I don't worry about it. I haven't had any issues. But I also don't worry about my clients walking out disgruntled.
 

SAXXXON

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just the tip

just thought i'd add my little thoughts on this one ... as an indi sp i have made it my own rule to recieve the 'donation' AFTER our time had been spent. in doing this you leave the session unjaded - ladies even though our clients are paying us and they know they have to, who really wants to feel like the only reason you are touching them is because they just handed you a handful of fifties??? :(

in saying that ~ i have always been absolutely clear in what i ask for as a donation and what that donation entails ... i dont upsell or bargain and everything is non negotiable. my clients know who they are calling and what they are going to get. so they come with the correct amount in hand. :cool:

now that i am working at an mp i have been having trouble with the fact that you have to even discuss money and services before hand... as i specailise in gfe but now have to offer regular service as well ... this poses for an akward silence as my client decides wether in the next hour he might have the urge to kiss me or not...*sigh*:rolleyes:

just my thoughts on the subject....xo ~*saxxxon*~xo
 

the Reverse

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I've only twice been asked for the money upfront. Once was a bad session [though, not my worst], the other one of my best; when I re-visited Josie, she had no problems, and didn't discuss it till afterwards. Both good sessions with her. It depends a lot on the lady. Plus, multiple visits and getting to know one another help there, I think.
 

calvinxxx

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for Saxxon i suppose that is one of the challnges of being truly independent: the vagaries of us men dont give us too many options.

I remember a session a few years ago that was my first major post and no one discussed price until we ere departing What was asked was delivered with a bonus and never questioned ( I beleive) and went on to more and better seesions.
 

Mick Shagher

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I remember a session a few years ago that was my first major post and no one discussed price until we ere departing What was asked was delivered with a bonus and never questioned ( I beleive) and went on to more and better seesions.
I'm guessing her name started with a G and ended with an I. Am I warm?
 

Mick Shagher

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If both parties are unsure of each other, I do agree with the idea of putting the donation out in the open until the session is completed. At least that way the SP knows the guy has the money and the client knows that the SP has to live up to her end of the bargain if she wants the complete amount.

Personally I've rarely been asked for the fees upfront, but if it does happen with an SP I'm seeing for the first time, I'll pay for a nude only and then if the session is going well and I decide to upgrade, I'll pay the balance afterwards.
 

kmdfan

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my experience....

...saw a full figured blonde @ swedish touch massage a couple of times, just for basic massage, nude HJ - both times money taken afterwards, no prob.....on 3rd visit though when i wanted the CBJ she asked for money upfront? i was like what the....... - not cool in my books, especially after she saw me TWICE before! - of course i have NEVER been back to see her strickly on the fact that she's seen me before, knows me, and in the next breath SHE ACTED as if it was my very first time with her - didnt enjoy that session just due to principle
 
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