Too Popular........??????

Ironhead

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Do you ever notice that when Sp's get popular they also become too hard to see and meet.
I am just making an observation here. Not directed at anyone.

It is becoming a trend in here I have noticed over the years. When a girl gets put up on a pedistal because everyone wants to see her, that customers start to back away and find someone else whom is easier to get a hold of.
It happens quite a bit here. The girls forget the people that put them there in the first place and start to travel and find greener pastures so to speak.
Not all of us clients can drop everything and make a date on minutes notice. We have jobs and obiligations as well.
There is a point where it does get funny watching this happen. I can almost perdicit when it willl happen.
Once again I am not directing this at anyone person. Just making an statement.
Please!!! grils remember who put you there. Don't bite the hand that feeds you. Or how about that thing about the golden egg.
This is a busniess like all others. Treat your customers like they are the last ones. OOOHHH Yeah. That older guy sitting in the back quitely usually has a lot more cash than the guy sitting up front. An old stripper friend of mine said something like that too me a while ago.
 

Valium

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Yes this is all true and I have also seen it happen several times, but you should also consider who it is that is making them so popular. We are all to blame as much as they are.
 

LaCreme

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belair

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Do you ever notice that when Sp's get popular they also become too hard to see and meet.
I am just making an observation here. Not directed at anyone.
On the other hand, waiting for the phone to ring while dressed up as a whore is about as much fun as, well, waiting for the phone to ring while dressed up as a whore.

Sometimes you're doing the laundry, mowing the lawn, buying groceries, visiting friends, driving a friend to an appointment, you know, the usual stuff.

It's not that the girl is necessarily "popular", but that she is busy living her life.

A thought.
 

georgebushmoron

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On the other hand, waiting for the phone to ring while dressed up as a whore is about as much fun as, well, waiting for the phone to ring while dressed up as a whore.
Yeah, "all dressed up and no one to blow".

Anyhow, the original poster's comments are nothing short of whining. Give me a break. Poor little guy, can't get his dick wet cuz his favorite whores are too busy fucking others! Go find yourself some other paid pussy, there's tons of it around... or grab a spine and try to land some unrented puss.
 

Miss*Bijou

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On the other hand, waiting for the phone to ring while dressed up as a whore is about as much fun as, well, waiting for the phone to ring while dressed up as a whore.

LOL

LOVE IT.



jUst a side note. Mentionning 3 times that the message isn't directed at anyone in particular doesn't make it less obvious who it's directed at. ;) Just sayin'.
 

Saraphina

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Do you ever notice that when Sp's get popular they also become too hard to see and meet.
I am just making an observation here. Not directed at anyone.
I can't help but agree with GBM on this one you're totally whinning not being able to hook up with your favorite piece of tail.

It is becoming a trend in here I have noticed over the years. When a girl gets put up on a pedistal because everyone wants to see her, that customers start to back away and find someone else whom is easier to get a hold of.
I think that's a good idea, if this issue picks your bum so much.

It happens quite a bit here. The girls forget the people that put them there in the first place and start to travel and find greener pastures so to speak.
I agree about the moving on to greener pastures. I worked very hard to get to a point I could skim the cream of the crop with my clients. The clients I have kept in my roster are the nice, clean, polite and fun clients. The others I choose not to make time for. Some clients are newer and some have seen me since the day I started. When it comes to the people who saw me in my beginning and helped me get my start by hiring me, I will never forget them. Some are amazing beautiful individuals. While others, there isn't enough booze on this planet to burn those experiences from my memory. (As a newbie SP I wasn't nearly as picky of whom I saw)

Not all of us clients can drop everything and make a date on minutes notice. We have jobs and obiligations as well.
I can't help be think, with this part of your post, that this is directed at someone. Cause when a girl gets busy she tends to get booked up fast and will start to require advance bookings, rather than having her client make a last minute booking. Unless she has gone out of her way to make extra time for a special client.

There is a point where it does get funny watching this happen. I can almost perdicit when it willl happen.
Once again I am not directing this at anyone person. Just making an statement.
Please!!! grils remember who put you there.
Ironhead don't forget the girl behind the pussy that pleased you. Not to discount the clients for frequenting the SP, but the SP deserves some credit for her success in this business.

If she is busy, chances are that she has a pretty good personality and is good at what she does. But I have also met the rare SP who is busy regardless of these factors. But it all boils down to, you are getting a VERY intimate service. And she only has 1 pussy to make her rounds. I am guessing that all us girls who are busy have to pick and choose who we see. And who, no matter how we pick, is up to us.

Don't bite the hand that feeds you. Or how about that thing about the golden egg.
Well unless you are providing the exclusive income to an SP, or she is doing some kind of negative conduct to a signifigant chunk of her clientel, I cannot see this as "biting the hand that feeds you" or "that thing about the golden egg". It appears to me that you are looking for some kind of special treatment from an SP, that due to her being busy, she cannot or won't deliver. When it comes to scheduling, an SP will learn mighty fast "You can't please all the people all the time". So you do your best. And unfortunately some people will be impossible to please. So you move on and do your best at pleasing the rest.

This is a busniess like all others. Treat your customers like they are the last ones.
No this business is not like any other. And no you don't have to treat each clients as if they are the last. Most businesses you will "put up" with certain customers so long as they pay. You rarely have the right to refuse service. This business we girls very much have the right to refuse service. I don't and won't "put up" with clients who I deem to be less than an ideal client. It's my pussy and my time. I have commited a significant chunk of years to this business. Enough to have called a career. I choose to make it a happy and profitable one. It could have very easily been a much different experience.

Anyhow I will never take for granted that the clients I see will come back no matter what. I know I have to operate my business with integrity and treat them to the best session I can provide, each time. However, becoming my client, and sometimes staying my client, means that a client cannot take me for granted either.

An SP must appreciate that a client is often paying a princely sum to see them. And must endeavor, within in reason, to provide great experience.

A client must appreciate, at very least, that the lady is allowing you to have an very intimate moment with her and giving you some of her limited time.

OOOHHH Yeah.That older guy sitting in the back quitely usually has a lot more cash than the guy sitting up front. An old stripper friend of mine said something like that too me a while ago.
This part of your post gives me the impression that you came into the hobby with a bit of a chip on your shoulder. As a client of an SP there is 1 thing that you possess that you have that will stretch your pooning dollar and get you prioritized with the SPs you see. That is, a warm, thoughtful, fun and hassel-free deamenor.

I hope you find an ongoing state of bliss.
 
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Saraphina
You bring up many points and observations that makes this activity such a dynamic enjoyable one. First, time IS limited. As you said, a popular girl is not going to sit around un-noticed after the positive reviews begin to build. By the same token, a provider who begins to compile a series of negative reviews will soon gather a keep-away or proceed with caution warning for potential clients.

Second, this activity is indeed a very intimate one. The most enjoyable providers are the ones who are able to express their unique personality and give a client a memorable experience most every time. I don't want the provider to be lying there for an hour without giving me any feedback for my senses that SHE ALSO is having a good time. She's my girlfriend for hire without giving me a sense that a meter is running while we are playing.

Why would a client WANT limit the success of a great escort rather than promote her looks, talents and skills. If I want to see her again, my best chance is for an escort to have good success and be gratified that I am part of the reason she is successful. My mechanic relative once worked for a car dealership and began to fix relatives/close friends vehicles in his spare time in the evenings and weekends. As word spread of his great value/service that he provided, he took the plunge and opened his own shop. His success continued to grow and those same first clients that contributed to his early success discovered he was harder to book. Did I begrudge what a great mechanic he was because he couldn't change the oil in my car or fix my brakes on short notice. Unless I am willing to hire him as my private mechanic, I applaude his success. I will still take my car to him whenever I have a big job to do and I can plan it but if he can't fix the small things in my car, I'll take my work elsewhere so that he can operate a successful business. What started as a sideline for him now became his bread and butter.

This same analogy applies. I write my reviews for selfish reasons: I want to be able to see a great lady again but I can't afford to keep her as my private play thing. So the one way I can help myself in the long run is to make sure the good escorts are discovered by the collective and the collective can support her business. The more good SP's we promote collectively creates competition which aids the market with good selection and value. If we want to keep a great SP to ourselves, than I should be trying to win her heart and ultimately enter into long term relationship. Oh... isn't that marriage :)

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Thais

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This is a busniess like all others. Treat your customers like they are the last ones.
No this business is not like any other. And no you don't have to treat each clients as if they are the last. Most businesses you will "put up" with certain customers so long as they pay.
Yes and no.
Even in regular service businesses, there is often a what's called an "80/20 rule":
80% of your income will come from 20% of your customers, and 20% of your customers will give you 80% of your headaches.

A smart regular business ensures the loyalty of the first 20% and carefully gets rid of the last 20%. When I worked in insurance, we had clients in the database marked as "Follow up only": we didn't want to touch them with a ten-foot pole and be the first to contact them, as they paid very little yet demanded royal treatment every time for every single little thing.

Yes, there is indeed another rule about satisfied customers and turning a problem into advantage... But realistically, it works a lot less than the 80/20.

So no, a smart regular business will not treat every customer as their last one but will have a well-defined target market and will spend most effort building their loyalty. Everybody else will get what remains of their time.

SPs are simply doing the same. And it is a lot more important to them to do so because this is such a deeply personal interaction. So for a popular SP, how rich you are may not matter as much as how pleasant your company is for her.
 

theapple_eve8

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LOL. This is too funny. If certain SPs have practices a guy doesn't like, why doesn't he just switch to another. I'm not sure I understand what the problem is?

This seems like a natural process:
1) SP becomes saught after
2) SP only has two choices A) Raise prices until it lowers demand to comfortable level or B) Schedule/Choose more carefully.
3) Some guys get frustrated and turn to other SPs, and everyone should be happy.

For some reason, it seems the whole Pacific NW scene is just too small. Trying to handle the State of Washington, the Vancouver area, international tourists, business travelers, and whatever else roles in has strained the entire market to the point where the prices are some of the highest in the world.

My friend just got back from Montreal and told me he was only paying like 140$ there and had few problems making appointments with the exception of some outcalls he made in advance flaked. Of course, maybe he didn't book top talent there either, who knows.

It sounds like the ultimate answer is to increase the supply of SPs so guys will stop bitching. lol.
 

tianna

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"oh my sweet men !!!

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"I just wanted to say thanks for all the phone calls and emails from people wondering if I was OK.. and if there was something wrong.. yes I am OK... and no I have not just disappeared and retired, I would never do that with out some kind of notice. I have been available and working but only out calls as I am looking for a different area for a new in call location. This is a temporary thing and I have already looked at a number of places but I need to find the best one for u guys.. so I'm being picky Doing out calls has been really different for me, as Its not something that I do often, so I'm adjusting at the moment as well.... I am going out of town from Wednesday to around next Monday, and I will be settled into my new place and available when I get back. I also wanted to let u know that I will be available all summer and my schedule will be very open pretty much 24/7 for at least a month. After the summer is done my schedule and and availability will be some what limited. Come fall, I will have reached my second financial goal, and will be purchasing and heading out into the valley. At this point I will not be retiring so don't worry about that.. however I'm not sure if I will have an in call location when the fall comes and might just stick to tours, out calls, and renting the odd hotel ! I have a number of projects that I need to focus on and will be putting a lot more of my time in to them... so I will only be available after my move on more of a part time basis. I have to send lots of special thanks to all the men who have made this possible for me, because with out all the great support and generosity I would not be sitting in the position that I am in. Hence the reason I would like to share with u my plan for the next few months. I have a lot of different business ventures that I am exploring right now.. and looking forward to some courses that I have wanted to take for a while as well. I also plan on taking an entire month off to travel and work on my book, as I really want to get it finished for publication, but this will not happen until the fall or winter as well.. The next few years are going to be the most exciting and and busiest ones ever, I'm really looking forward to them, as well as molding and embracing the woman that I am becoming !!!! sweet kisses all around
sincerely True"
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the above is an old post :)

I also made it clear that I wold be travelling as I did promise many that I would cumm around... and I also have stated that I get my new apartment as of the 15 of this month... at which time things will settle down for me :) Im on vacation now and then Ill be back in vancouver for 24 hours thats it.. then Im back on a plane to calgary and then back in vancouver as of the 17 to pick up my keys.. Id love to see you then.. but I do take this as a personal post directed towards me.. ands its unfair as I even listed every city I planned on going too.. I have yet to activate my calendar.. as I have been busy as of late.. and Im here on this computer trying to catch up, when in fact Im on vacation... but have felt so badly about how far behind I have fell in my emails and pms.. that I wanted to put in a few hours before the sun came out and heated the town up...... and Im not that hard to get ahold of.. I just cleared my voice mail box..as it was full.. and spent a good hour yesterday calling back many of the people who left me messages ( I have another hour to go still today with that as well )... so Im really only a phone call away.. and If I dont answere its because I AM NOT IN THE POSITION TO DO SO.. BECAUSE I AM WITH COMPANY AND CAN NOT, AS THIS IS A PRIVATE VENTURE FOR ME, however those who leave me messages recieve a phone call back.. as soon as Im able to slip away
Hope all is well

sweet kisses
Tianna
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totravel

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These comments are not directed at anyone in particular, just my observations from years of reading review boards:

If an SP is really good at her job, treats every client like he's special, it can bend reality for some clients. He starts believing that he really is the only one she provides this amazing service to, and as such deserves more exclusive treatment than those other guys (who can't be experiencing the same incredible sensations he is).

Saraphina is right, this is not the same as any other business. It's fleeting, takes an enormous amount out of the SP's that offer the most caring service.
As long as a pooner remembers that, he will respect the reality SP's deal with.

Enjoy the experiences you are lucky enough to have, and always be ready to let go and move on to another.
 

TotallyTouchin

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wow

These comments are not directed at anyone in particular, just my observations from years of reading review boards:

If an SP is really good at her job, treats every client like he's special, it can bend reality for some clients. He starts believing that he really is the only one she provides this amazing service to, and as such deserves more exclusive treatment than those other guys (who can't be experiencing the same incredible sensations he is).

Saraphina is right, this is not the same as any other business. It's fleeting, takes an enormous amount out of the SP's that offer the most caring service.
As long as a pooner remembers that, he will respect the reality SP's deal with.

Enjoy the experiences you are lucky enough to have, and always be ready to let go and move on to another.
Wicked post TT!

This is a unique buisness and part of it is completely giving of yourself for the time you are with that person and also going as far as sending out a "happy birthday" or "hope you are feeling better"...type of email to your regular clientele.

If both people respect boundaries and don't take the actions of a busy sp to be personal, then it can work well.

I know that often times because unique intimate relations are formed with regulars, it can be easy for a client to feel personally slighted when that sincerely is not the case.

We do our best to be as personable and on top of things as we can be especially when it comes to our regulars...but life happens and as Tianna stated, it takes only you going away for like a weekend with the girls for all your emails and voicemails and EVERYTHING to fill up....then its about catch up.

Please guys realise that we never want you to take it personally if we can't see or accomidate you...we try!

Again, great post TT:)
 

sinfulltimez

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These comments are not directed at anyone in particular, just my observations from years of reading review boards:

If an SP is really good at her job, treats every client like he's special, it can bend reality for some clients. He starts believing that he really is the only one she provides this amazing service to, and as such deserves more exclusive treatment than those other guys (who can't be experiencing the same incredible sensations he is).

Saraphina is right, this is not the same as any other business. It's fleeting, takes an enormous amount out of the SP's that offer the most caring service.
As long as a pooner remembers that, he will respect the reality SP's deal with.

Enjoy the experiences you are lucky enough to have, and always be ready to let go and move on to another.
How true that is. Fell for a SP but soon realized it was all for the mighty DOLLAR with no feelings attached. Wanted her to be my regular SP but she got too busy so time to move on. Got to give them credit for their line of work and service provided. I know I'm not the only " IDIOT " who fell hard. Being too nice and a softie doesn't fly. So the moral to the story is have fun and move on to the next.
 

LaCreme

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How true that is. Fell for a SP but soon realized it was all for the mighty DOLLAR with no feelings attached. Wanted her to be my regular SP but she got too busy so time to move on. Got to give them credit for their line of work and service provided. I know I'm not the only " IDIOT " who fell hard. Being too nice and a softie doesn't fly. So the moral to the story is have fun and move on to the next.
thanks you very much i just hope my fans dosent read u.
because that business is all about falling in love for that special person.
so my baby need care so i might fly too.
depending how much the doc charge me..
Love,
 
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How true that is. Fell for a SP but soon realized it was all for the mighty DOLLAR with no feelings attached. Wanted her to be my regular SP but she got too busy so time to move on. Got to give them credit for their line of work and service provided. I know I'm not the only " IDIOT " who fell hard. Being too nice and a softie doesn't fly. So the moral to the story is have fun and move on to the next.

There are plenty of us "IDIOTS" around. Falling for a SP is something comes with the territory, and it's never "just sex". If its just sex, a few "FREE" porn sites and one good hand will do just fine. It is in fact "just sex" when you having sex with your spouse but thinking about the hot blonde at work. Pathetic? Yes, but that's the truth, and truth often hurts. When seeing a SP, we are paying for the itamacy that we desire. Doing this enough times with one person, is there any doubt why we fall for a SP?
 
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