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edmontonsubbie

Edmontonsubbie
Apr 22, 2006
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...a sub. I am, for the most part, relatively competent. I joined the local bdsm community and that's kinda cool. I believe that I am impatient. Anyone else here suffer from that? Substitute money for patience? It all works out the same. I won't assign control to incompetence....money can't guarantee competence. Only honesty can. I have been totally honest not once but twice...and completely rejected...sigh.

On the plus side, I was not promised something that could not be delivered and for that, I am grateful. I just started smoking again....sigh. What a loser.

eddie.

p.s....there is NO point to this post...total ramble.
 

Annalise Lane

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For the most part the community in Edmonton is very tight knit, which doesn't allow for someone who is willing and egar to fall into play easily. It's to bad really, you're a good guy with lots to offer.

I would suggest patience but you've stated it isn't your best for-tay:(

Try the B&D Emporuim on Jasper Ave in the basement of the Steamworks beside the men's gay bar. They use to have a board where locals advertised their get togethers.
 

edmontonsubbie

Edmontonsubbie
Apr 22, 2006
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thanks for those kind words...

...Annalise....I think I have wormed my way in fairly well to this group. For the most part, some extremely intelligent people with an admission of kink. Gotta love that.

I was invited by the past president and his sub to join and have attended one event, a post event, and a bbq with them and some friends. They advised me to "just be myself"...which I have done. I am sure some would prefer I had a ball gag but none were so forward as to say so....lol.

It's all for fun and I have zero expectations....that seems the healthiest approach.

eddie.
 
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Started smoking again? Bad boy!

Eddie,

Put down the cigs and stop whining. If you want to do distance training to help you quit, I offer that. Combine your submissive nature and your desire to make healthy choices.

I am coming to Alberta soon, we'll hook up again for another session.

Focus on the positive. You have it pretty damn good compared to a lot of poor buggers in this world.

Finding play partners, romantic partners, a job, a place to live, a car is all painful for as long as it takes you to find what you're looking for. As soon as you find it, the pain all goes away. Keep a positive attitude and keep seeking and you shall find.

Good boy.

xo
 

edmontonsubbie

Edmontonsubbie
Apr 22, 2006
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thank you Miss T....

...i will admit you etched a hole in my soul....was i whining though? Wait...I'm sure I must have been. *stops to light up a smoke*

I will likely fly out there before you visit here...I love Vangroovie!

eddie.
 

uncleg

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Jul 25, 2006
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lonely subbie

Have you tried alt.com to connect with the bdsm scene in Edmonton ? I met some interesting on line in Vancouver through that site. Then followed up by attending a few munchies. Connected with some folks there and found some asses to spank. As a spankee you woould probably want to meet a spankor, and I assure they are there as well. Anybody from the scene in Vancouver that has gone out to Edmonton or Calgary usually has never had a problem connecting.
 
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