Not really related to hobbyists and SP's, but I was curious what everyone's opinion was on this subject.
My partner and I have been trying online dating. We met online and we discussed the idea of getting tested. So we both went out to get tested before we even met. On our first "date" we exchanged our results as an icebreaker, along with drivers licenses just to prove neither of us were flakes or trying to hide anything. It seemed "normal" for us, as two strangers, to get tested before becoming intimate.
Now we're looking to add a third person for some erotic encounters. We've been communicating with several people online, but one in particular and things were going great. We exchanged pics (some explicit) and shared our fantasies in great detail. She was all for getting together with us and we started making plans for a future weekend together. Then we brought up that we were both tested and asked if she was recently or if she would mind getting tested to ease any concerns we may have.
Well, we get a nasty e-mail saying she was "insulted" that we would make such a request and she was upset we didn't trust her. She wants nothing to do with us.
So, do you think her reaction was legitimate in this day & age? Or is she hiding something.
My partner and I have been trying online dating. We met online and we discussed the idea of getting tested. So we both went out to get tested before we even met. On our first "date" we exchanged our results as an icebreaker, along with drivers licenses just to prove neither of us were flakes or trying to hide anything. It seemed "normal" for us, as two strangers, to get tested before becoming intimate.
Now we're looking to add a third person for some erotic encounters. We've been communicating with several people online, but one in particular and things were going great. We exchanged pics (some explicit) and shared our fantasies in great detail. She was all for getting together with us and we started making plans for a future weekend together. Then we brought up that we were both tested and asked if she was recently or if she would mind getting tested to ease any concerns we may have.
Well, we get a nasty e-mail saying she was "insulted" that we would make such a request and she was upset we didn't trust her. She wants nothing to do with us.
So, do you think her reaction was legitimate in this day & age? Or is she hiding something.