...or worse, have you ever been the victim of the "unfair" fight?
A little background....married this wicked cool chick...second wife thing...duh me. But, she was amazing...cute, sexy, smart, my best friend kinda thing. We would shoot pool at the pub and the winner got choice of Top or bottom for the rest of the night....or some other silly bet. She was a great Top so even when she lost she invented a win.
Anyway, she was also incredibly jealous. At first, I found this flattering because she was way hotter than I...but...it became oppressive. But, I loved her and worked it out as best I could. I would never watch a tv show with attractive women....that was always a trick....I just gave up on tv...no real loss. Walking down the street...would never look at an oncoming chick....not too hard really...and I only had eyes for her anyway...so easy peasy.
The real issues erupted when she became jealous of the affections that my daughters held for me and vice versa....I was...wtf???....that was a constant thorn....then came her need to be out gambling at the casino....totally destructive....and so...it had to come to an end. I left once....went back once....finally left for good. I still loved her very much and so it was not easy to walk away from the one that I loved.
To the point. My ex wife (kids mom)....a few friends....and my current employer at the time...begin to recieve emails from her....detailing very intimate secrets straight off the pillow. All the little games we had played....and, i'll admit it, I'm no saint...but...omg. That was some pretty private shit.
I was humiliated, angry, and slightly devastated. I found new employment, shortened my "friends" list, and never bothered to explain much to the ex...we are on good terms as we share parenting of two wonderful children....although the mother in law now looks like me as though I am from the moon and won't speak directly...but...who cares on that one.
This was three years ago....I had never encountered someone who fought like this before....and I surely hope to never do so again.
I've noticed more than a wee bit of hesitancy on "opening up" as a result of this. I guess time is doing it's trick though.....I just wish the freaking rain would stop so I could get back to work!....well....I think it's stopped now....but...it's gonna be muddy so I'll be lazy and take this day off. And...I know you care....
eddie.
A little background....married this wicked cool chick...second wife thing...duh me. But, she was amazing...cute, sexy, smart, my best friend kinda thing. We would shoot pool at the pub and the winner got choice of Top or bottom for the rest of the night....or some other silly bet. She was a great Top so even when she lost she invented a win.
Anyway, she was also incredibly jealous. At first, I found this flattering because she was way hotter than I...but...it became oppressive. But, I loved her and worked it out as best I could. I would never watch a tv show with attractive women....that was always a trick....I just gave up on tv...no real loss. Walking down the street...would never look at an oncoming chick....not too hard really...and I only had eyes for her anyway...so easy peasy.
The real issues erupted when she became jealous of the affections that my daughters held for me and vice versa....I was...wtf???....that was a constant thorn....then came her need to be out gambling at the casino....totally destructive....and so...it had to come to an end. I left once....went back once....finally left for good. I still loved her very much and so it was not easy to walk away from the one that I loved.
To the point. My ex wife (kids mom)....a few friends....and my current employer at the time...begin to recieve emails from her....detailing very intimate secrets straight off the pillow. All the little games we had played....and, i'll admit it, I'm no saint...but...omg. That was some pretty private shit.
I was humiliated, angry, and slightly devastated. I found new employment, shortened my "friends" list, and never bothered to explain much to the ex...we are on good terms as we share parenting of two wonderful children....although the mother in law now looks like me as though I am from the moon and won't speak directly...but...who cares on that one.
This was three years ago....I had never encountered someone who fought like this before....and I surely hope to never do so again.
I've noticed more than a wee bit of hesitancy on "opening up" as a result of this. I guess time is doing it's trick though.....I just wish the freaking rain would stop so I could get back to work!....well....I think it's stopped now....but...it's gonna be muddy so I'll be lazy and take this day off. And...I know you care....
eddie.