And the difference between Domme and FemTop/Mistress .......... is ??
One originated from online chat rooms.
One originated from a Mentor in the lifestyle.
~ just keeping thing straight ~
little boy, you will find tons of wanna be Mistresses but if she refers to herself as a Domme the likeliness that she is a lifestylist is VERY slim. She's dressed in Leather with an ego the size of a Moutain. Look for a mole hill, you will get more mileage, which I suspect you are looking for.
oh and btw: not all Escorts on this board are part time FemTops, some are just plain kinky !! Some Mistresses on this board are Hookers with Whips, just as kinky but a different happy ending. Neither are wrong, just different roads.
The kink community says it is accepting - but the truth is - it's not.
Tips and Tricks
1 -Investigate your future Mistress with the community she walks in.
2 - Ask important life questions to make sure you are both suited. While kink has many layers, their not all perfect for each other ' after ' play. ei: smoking or drinking etc.
3 - If you are a novice and She has 10 years in the scene, make sure She will train you.
4 - Sam's are annoying for most Lifestyle Mistresses, unless it's in a playful way, but if it is to get that spanking you so need, I would hope she puts you in a corner.
~ just a quick list ~