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buddha2

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Had a very nice 2 hours with Kendra of Edmonton's 50 St. Massage tonight.

I'm not into publishing every detail like edmontonsubbie (but keep up the good work guy!) but I will say this:

Kendra is drop dead gorgeous. Her photos on the 50 St. website don't quite do her justice.

She's an SP first and into the kink second if I understand correctly. On that level, very warm and welcoming. Good conversation to ensure that expectations around the menu are clear. No misunderstandings. The menu is substantive (DATY, digits, FS) but no kissing.

As for the kink, see the title above. Kendra advised that she' s been slowly "learning the ropes" since 50 St opened complete with their very good dom room (again, the website's pics don't quite do the room justice. It's very spacious, and the bed you see is just massive. Lots of strong tie spots, and something you can't see - overhead rails for tying, and for Kendra to use for balance when trampling!)

As one might expect from a first session with a relatively inexperienced top, I had to do a little "topping from the bottom", but Kendra warmed to the task nicely, and warmed me all over really quite well. I'll definitely be back, and can't wait to see how far we can go when she gains more experience, particularly in terms of reading me and how to push my limits.

For anyone who's a switch like me, there's a good prospect of a little topping action once you gain her trust. In that regard, all I will say is that I managed to finagle a nice bit of "sample time", and I think the title above will hold true on the other side as well.

Only downside at this point, is that despite the awesome room and furniture, 50 St. is a little short on toys at this point. I was very glad I brought my own.

I'll close by simply thanking Kendra for a great time, and repeating that I'll be back as soon as time and cash flow permits!
 

Pleaser

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Hi

hi Buddha

Thanks for the intel. Excuse my ignorance but what does topping from the bottom mean? Thanks

Kendra looks wonerful.

Pleaser
 

ShyMike

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Pleaser,
The top is the person giving, the bottom is receiving

So if Kendra was to be the top, she would have a strap-on on and you would be receiving. correct me if I'm wrong. Correct me if I'm wrong Buddha
 

buddha2

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Topping from the bottom

Gents: you're being a little too specific in your thinking.

The "Top" is the dominant person. The "bottom" is the submissiive.

"Topping" is the very general term used to describe all of the various activities the top might engage in. There's no necessary relation to "pitching and catching".

"Topping from the bottom" means that the submissive is actually more in charge of the session than the ostensive top.

Topping from the bottom is generally considered to be uncool in the BDSM community, but it is pretty much a fact of life/necessity when a relatively experienced bottom or switch is trying to teach an inexperienced top what is do-able and what isn't, both in terms of pleasure/(dis)comfort and safety.

One of the great paradoxes of BDSM is that even with experienced tops, the sub has significant control in most sessions. Outside of the relatively rare circumstance where the relationship is well developed enough that you can play without (a) safe word(s), the sub really has the final say on what's going to happen.

Of course, it's almost every subs fantasy to find that top you can trust, but...

PS - another corollary of this is that the best tops have invariably been trained as bottoms first. This allows them to understand what the bottom is going through and generally conduct the session in a way which both protects the sub and lets them push their boundries, often at the same time!
 

edmontonsubbie

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hey Buddha....

.....cool review. Nice to see some local talent potentially emerging....I'm biased of course, and believe that BDSM is a very cool way to approach this whole dirty little fun game.

Just a thought here...well, maybe an observation? I will speak back to a discussion with the delightful Miss T (I know, I know, I risk sounding a shill but she's my only frame of reference)....in which she mentioned a client having a very detailed fantasy in mind...one in which he supplied a script....she loved it!

So, my point, if any, is to be very upfront with your communications. For gawd's sake, don't leave her to try to guess what you want, you run the very real risk of disappointment. Then, of course, comes finding the one capable of translating your ideas into reality...now there's the rub.

I tried to talk Miss T into moving to Edmonton....all I recall was a torrent of epithets by way of reply....some of those words I had not even heard before....at least not in those combinations.

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Scripts and moving to Edmonton...

Firstly scripts. I like them, some Domme's don't. Many Domme's insist they will do whatever their heart pleases during a session and many subs request this as well. Personal choice, to communicate or be suprised.

Moving to Edmonton: I love Vancouver. When I took a trip to Edmonton a couple of months ago I didn't receive an overwhelming reception. Since Eddi's post, I've had over 10 emails from subs in Edmonton.

I'm not coming back to Edmonton, but if a sub wants to make the trip to beautiful Vancouver, I will make the trip very worth your while. I put together special value packages for those who have to pay airfare to come see me.

Best regards,
Miss T
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buddha2

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Kendra

Finally got back tonight! Had another excellent time, beginning with the fact that even though I'd decided before the session that top/bottom was going to be decided by a coin flip, and Kendra won top, she begged to bottom.

So I got to play with that lithe body and put it through its paces for the better part of an hour and a half! Then we switched and she had a little revenge before a very happy ending.

Can't wait till next time!
 

buddha2

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A star has been born

Finally got back tonight! Had another excellent time, beginning with the fact that even though I'd decided before the session that top/bottom was going to be decided by a coin flip, and Kendra won top, she begged to bottom.

So I got to play with that lithe body and put it through its paces for the better part of an hour and a half! Then we switched and she had a little revenge before a very happy ending.

Can't wait till next time!
I've played with Kendra a couple of times now since this original post, and she keeps surpassing herself. I won't go into details, but I'm thoroughly hooked!
 
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