Strip Club - HandJob

inneedofhelp

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Three months back, I visited an SC. The dancer I saw, kissed me a lot (not on lips), notice her masturbate a bit (well place fingers around her vagina), and a bit later end up giving me a bit of a handjob.

In between other clients, I notice she took a long break in the washroom (to presumably watch hands), and always used a lubricant in her purse before proceding with the HJ. Because I wasn't thinking right, I did also ask her to be a bit rough, my penis was quite red afterwards although i think i saw her hand to be clean.

A nurse who specialize in this said I should be ok and considerably safe although she might had just said that to reassure me. Ever since that incident, No symptoms have show up (like syphllis, gonerhea, clymdia, etc) but internet and advertisements say that symptoms sometimes don't show up.

Given what I said, do you think I should really consider getting myself check up somehow or that there might be a small risk that something happened?

Thanks,
 

wannabeslut

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Why not? Healthcare is free. Just go get a check up to put yourself at ease.

You hardly need the Health Nurse to tell you that!
 

volks

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I don't think so...

Three months back, I visited an SC. The dancer I saw, kissed me a lot (not on lips), notice her masturbate a bit (well place fingers around her vagina), and a bit later end up giving me a bit of a handjob.

In between other clients, I notice she took a long break in the washroom (to presumably watch hands), and always used a lubricant in her purse before proceding with the HJ. Because I wasn't thinking right, I did also ask her to be a bit rough, my penis was quite red afterwards although i think i saw her hand to be clean.

A nurse who specialize in this said I should be ok and considerably safe although she might had just said that to reassure me. Ever since that incident, No symptoms have show up (like syphllis, gonerhea, clymdia, etc) but internet and advertisements say that symptoms sometimes don't show up.

Given what I said, do you think I should really consider getting myself check up somehow or that there might be a small risk that something happened?

Thanks,
Translation:

I masturbated to the Playboy channel for three hours and my dick got a little raw. Then I went to a micro for a quickie and the nice young lady provided me with a BBBJ. Now I'm worried that I got something from her saliva on my open masturbation wound...what should I do?

Come on... what strip joint girls ever give out HJs? Wishful thinking I'm afraid. Ok, enough of the slamming, here's some helpful advice: go get blood work done. Tell the nice doctor that you've recently had sex with a relatively unknown partner and you spotted something after that concerned you. They'll get you hooked up with some blood work and all should be fine.

Oh yeah, and let me know the club so I can go and get tugged too...

volks.
 

inneedofhelp

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To Clarify

Sorry about the confusion. I wish to ask the nurse if any type of testing is recommended in my situation. It would be greatly appreciated.

1) Three months ago, I got a HJ from a dancer at a strip club. She goes to the washroom after each dance session (with at least 10 min break), presumably to wash her hands. Aside from light kissing on the face except the lips, she did touch her vagina (to masturabate?) minutes before the HJ. Her vagina seemed really dry, and she did used a lubricant for the HJ. I also did get dry lip-to-lip contact from another dancer.

2) I am concern about the transmission of possible infected fluids (hers or even those of her clients) her hands might have carried to my genitals. I have not noticed anything except for barely visible paps (less than 1mm diameter) around the base of my forehead - which a doctor without seeing them have told me are harmless. Since symptoms don't necessary show up all the time, I am concern that I might be unknowningly carrying something.

3) This took place in a Toronto club. However, I think my situation is worth-noting because others including myself could better understand the risk of possible fluid transmission in hand-to-gential contact that frequently takes place at a massage parlour. Again, it would be greatly appreciated if a medical expert who works in this industry like Health Nurse, can offer her insight here.

Thanks again,
 

bigmoe69er

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NOT wishful thinking...

Come on... what strip joint girls ever give out HJs? Wishful thinking I'm afraid. volks.
...not necessarily, Volks. Hand jobs and CBJs are by no means unheard of at strip clubs. In fact, some clubs go so far as to specialize in such services. Have you ever heard of Seductions in Niagara Falls?


---Dr. Moe
 

ezsmile

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Did I get that right?... you have barely visible paps just above your eyebrows? (base of forehead)....

Whats that got to do with a handjob?

hahahahahahaahhahahahhha sorry bud normally I don't laugh at people's discomfort but that one cracked me up

I think you meant foreskin.

I'm no health expert, but a handjob 3 months ago that made your dick red doesn't sound like it should give you an std.

But I bet this was not the only time you have had some form of intimate contact with someone you don't know that well.

In any case, sure, go to your regular doctor or any clinic. If you check out std free then its good news, if not then the doctor or clinic will give you a prescription and as long as you take it then its good news once again.

You can't lose.

That said, your post is kind of annoying in that it reads like you are blaming the girl for being dirty because "she touched her vagina (to masturbate?)" and then touched you.

Next time just go solo?
 

volks

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To offer a little bit of HELPful advice this time...

I got poked by a needle on the bus a year or so ago. I went to see the doc and she told me it was VERY unlikely I contracted anything from it. AIDS/HIV only really survives in the air (or on someone's hand) for about 30 seconds, so it would have had to have been a very quick hand-job-to-hand-job night for her to pass fluids from another client.

if you are still concerned, go get yourself tested...that is what I can't quite understand, you keep posting asking us if you should go, just f*cking GO... especially if you are a regular pooner here in the city, protect the rest of us and go get blood work done, it's painless and will set your mind at ease...GO.

volks.
 

Health Nurse

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Sorry about the confusion. I wish to ask the nurse if any type of testing is recommended in my situation. It would be greatly appreciated.

1) Three months ago, I got a HJ from a dancer at a strip club. She goes to the washroom after each dance session (with at least 10 min break), presumably to wash her hands. Aside from light kissing on the face except the lips, she did touch her vagina (to masturabate?) minutes before the HJ. Her vagina seemed really dry, and she did used a lubricant for the HJ. I also did get dry lip-to-lip contact from another dancer.

2) I am concern about the transmission of possible infected fluids (hers or even those of her clients) her hands might have carried to my genitals. I have not noticed anything except for barely visible paps (less than 1mm diameter) around the base of my forehead - which a doctor without seeing them have told me are harmless. Since symptoms don't necessary show up all the time, I am concern that I might be unknowningly carrying something.

3) This took place in a Toronto club. However, I think my situation is worth-noting because others including myself could better understand the risk of possible fluid transmission in hand-to-gential contact that frequently takes place at a massage parlour. Again, it would be greatly appreciated if a medical expert who works in this industry like Health Nurse, can offer her insight here.

Thanks again,




Hi inneedofhelp

We do not consider getting a hand job as a risk for STI/HIV.

I would recommend that you go for a test just for peace of mind. It has been 3 months and the tests would be very accurate. We would recommend that anyone who is sexually active with different partners to get a STI/HIV test every 6 months. It is common not to notice signs and symptoms of STI's.

If there are reasons (embarrassment, confidentiality etc) that are stopping you from coming to a clinic send me a PM and I can tell you about free clinics were you do not need to use your real name or a care card.

What this does bring up is a topic that we have discussed on PERB a few times, and seen in our clinic quite a bit. This is risk tolerance. If you do something that makes your anxiety levels go up you might want to consider what kind of sex you are comfortable having.

Does this answer your question?

Please feel free to comment or ask us to expand on a topic. Remember if you would like to ask me a personal question just send me a PM.

HN
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