what a cool idea....
...seeing as how one of the four rooms is devoted to that "theme". In any event, I think it's a wonderful idea...obviously...see header.
From my perspective, I think having a chick just "take over" and do what she wants...insist on getting what she wants....pushing...prodding...a careless disregard for any "feelings" the sub may have...all "in session" of course....is a total turn on. But I do have a tendency to enjoy the sadistic side of things and BDSM is different things to different people.
For me, BDSM comes from a male dominated society and the way I was brought up in terms of "always solving the problem and dealing with the issue"..it's a complete break to have someone just completely and utterly take over.
That's obviously just my opinion, but I like my opinion!
Anyway, keep up the good work. Information sessions and info exchange can never hurt. Oh...take a look at the free vids over at
www.romanvideo.com....some pretty cool dom/smother type sessions there...for me at least, I would love to find someone to fulfill that kind of thing.
There's a thousand times one thousand various sites...it all boils down to very open communication during the initial phase. I always feel embarassed to admit the thoughts I might have as I think...gawd...that's too wierd!....but, yanno what?....who hasn't had a dark thought or two. Just promote an environment of open communication and either side can choose to decline upfront without fear of embarassment.
I hope this all made sense...or at least a portion.
eddie.
p.s.....i'm glad to see the 'chat' thing is back! I love yakking in there...some pretty cool people for sure.