freinds
After being in this "hobby" for several years , and having both negative and positive encounters , I think that everyone involved should have a real good look at themselves and decide why they are in this position , and what you want out of it (im talking both client and sp ) . Too many clients have little or no regard for the ladies and too many sp's have little regard for there clients . In my own case , I have come to the point where I have had my "fun" and have a better understanding of what I want from a sp. I want someone who is warm , caring , partially honest (hopefully very honest ) , someone whom I get along with (and I could spend time with out of the bedroom as well, not that we would) and hopefully someone who feels somewhat the same about me. We both realize it is still a buisness arrangement , similar to that of your mechanic , lawyer , accountant ,and that a service is being provided at a fee , but that you can also be freinds in a sense as well. As far as giving intimate details when I am with a sp , i believe that those things are private , and will not repeat them on here for the benefit of those who read it and get a rush from it , similar to that of reading a porn magazine . I will share if i feel someone gives great sevice or not as well as my opinion on there looks . Way to much detail , and
badmouthing going on . The good providers have repeat clients , have a good reutation, and are good at what they do . Most sp's do not provide the same quality of service to there clients at all times , just as we do not treat them all exactly the same. If I would see a dirty , smelly sp , I WILL NOT be doing the same things with them as my favorite girl and the same goes for what the girl will do with her clients. I have found a few gems , and will nolonger go looking for the next "gem thats just around the corner). Top notch providers are hard to find , especially ones that you truly enjoy the whole session and she genuinely does as well. To get infatuated with them is very easy to do , however one must distinguish between a buisness relationship and a private one. Once it becomes a struggle to distinguish the two , then it is either time to move on , or time for change (ie leave the wife and pursue your sp) and once this reality check hits home , then cooler heads will prevail.
In closing , I ask all you guys to treat the ladies with more respect and dignity . plz try and refrain from all the details of a session , the BS gets so thick on here sometimes that it becomes very hard to tell the difference between the truths and the lies. I use this board only occassionaly , basically to see where the girls are shifting tooo , and there are only a few guys that I axctually believe on here as well. This could be a place for some great discussion and information but unfortunatly I feel it is not serving that purpose. I would also like to see more sp's posting on here as well , so that we could get some input from them as well as having a chance to pm them as well. The Edmonton and Calgary site has a few regular mps on there , and for what its worth , next time im in those cities and decide to partake of a sp , it shall be one of those ladies whom I may see.
I hope i didnt ramble on too long , but I have gotten to know a few of the girls in the buisness over the last number of years , and realize what they have to put up with. There are a few Fantastic sp's out there , many Great sp's , lots of good ones , a few poor ones and some VERY Poor ones. Each has a place to fill in the buisness , lets not let a few bad apples spoilthe whole bunch , and the same for the clients. This board should be some help to distiguish between them , and thats it!!! Any comments would be appreciated. I feel I have been a very fair and honest critic of any sp i have seen , and hope I dont offend anyone with my comments.
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