As a long time domination seeker, I have recently been looking for a sensuous domme with ``hands-on`` aspects of session activities. Don`t get me wrong, I have the usual BDSM tee-shirts and then some, and have enjoyed every minute of traditional ``arms-length`` pro-dom sessions. My most memorable sessions though were the ones where there was mental and physical connection that flirted with elements of SP activity. Tampdowns recent review of Trish Cox confirms I am not alone. So off I go to research the possibilities.....
Sifting through a lot of PERB, Craiglist, spar, Cityvibe, GS, B&S, and other ads, I settled this week on a session with Miss Scarlet. She advertises regularly on Craiglist.
http://vancouver.craigslist.org/ers/245491442.html (for example)
I couldn`t find a single review of Miss Scarlet, so this I am thinking this could be TOFTT territory. Miss Scarlet indicated she is an avid play partier, and had escalated to pro-domme status since the summer. Initial contacts were extremely positive, so the Puntmeister`s willpower crumbled and arranged a session late last week.
The usual call-when-parked routine brought me into that comfort zone of ``here we go``! The ring-up was smooth, the condo was clean, and the pics were accurate. Great start!
I appreciated that Miss Scarlet re-capped my interests and confirmed expectations before we got going. Her warmth and easy going nature set me at ease and made me feel very comfortable and accepted. This is a big deal--you know what I mean. I had been feeling good all day and just had one of those ``I know this is going to be good`` sensations. I was not dissappointed.
I won`t give you the whitty blow-by-blow details because your interests may be very different from mine. Let me just say that I got what I asked for, with some forced daty, strap-on play, HJ, but short of FS.
Very satisfying session, I think for both of us. Grin is still wearing off slowly
This deserves first trial of the Puntmeister 5-point BDSM rating system:
``L-A-S-H-E-D``. (pun intended).
L (Looks): 7.5 (pics accurate, great fetish wear, toned. higher rating possible with some bitch boots and a little more primping. Tongue and nip pierced if that is important to you. Overall very nice)
A (Attitude): 9 (very personable, responded promptly and clerarly to e-mails. Phrendly on the phone. Put me at ease. Listened to my interests. Went with the flow.
S (Service): 9 (got what I asked for and then some. Good-to-excellent technique. Nice combination of youth, experience, and vitality. Very satisfying session)
Now on to the BDSM elements that extend the SP criteria to kinksters everywhere....
H (Headspace). 9 (Experienced Punters might say this is the most important element of BDSM. A great physically executed session can be a let-down if the grey stuff between the temples is unengaged. The Puntmeister was carefull to articulate the headspace he was looking for, and Miss Scarlet delivered in a very natural way. Nice. I think she is a very versatile and intuitive domme).
E (Equipment). 7 (Although a full-on toy collection was not evident, what she did have she used very well. I brought a few faves too, and she used some of these with effectiveness. Could use some more leather, chains, and implements of perversion, but the ropes and dongs she used had the Punmeister well dommed. I suspect the current situation is a reflection of short time in the pro-scene, and likely will improve tremendously with a little time, just like a fine cabernet).
(Dungeon). 6 (Not really a dungeon, more like an SP pad, but that was in fact what I was looking for. The intimidation factor of the St. A`s Cross and related hardware would be a nice touch though. Some music would round out the scene too, with say a few NIN CD`s and similar. Funny how a domme`s personality in music can play a significant role in power exchange. But I digress. Miss Scarlets place was quite sufficient, good location, clean, and purposeful. Shower was offerred and accepted post-session. I`d say 190 thread count on the towel, but I could be rusty on this point. Tee hee hee.)
I enjoyed myself, and plan to repeat. Asked if OK to review, and affirmed.
Recommended But PM me first so I can get there before you.
Sifting through a lot of PERB, Craiglist, spar, Cityvibe, GS, B&S, and other ads, I settled this week on a session with Miss Scarlet. She advertises regularly on Craiglist.
http://vancouver.craigslist.org/ers/245491442.html (for example)
I couldn`t find a single review of Miss Scarlet, so this I am thinking this could be TOFTT territory. Miss Scarlet indicated she is an avid play partier, and had escalated to pro-domme status since the summer. Initial contacts were extremely positive, so the Puntmeister`s willpower crumbled and arranged a session late last week.
The usual call-when-parked routine brought me into that comfort zone of ``here we go``! The ring-up was smooth, the condo was clean, and the pics were accurate. Great start!
I appreciated that Miss Scarlet re-capped my interests and confirmed expectations before we got going. Her warmth and easy going nature set me at ease and made me feel very comfortable and accepted. This is a big deal--you know what I mean. I had been feeling good all day and just had one of those ``I know this is going to be good`` sensations. I was not dissappointed.
I won`t give you the whitty blow-by-blow details because your interests may be very different from mine. Let me just say that I got what I asked for, with some forced daty, strap-on play, HJ, but short of FS.
Very satisfying session, I think for both of us. Grin is still wearing off slowly
This deserves first trial of the Puntmeister 5-point BDSM rating system:
``L-A-S-H-E-D``. (pun intended).
L (Looks): 7.5 (pics accurate, great fetish wear, toned. higher rating possible with some bitch boots and a little more primping. Tongue and nip pierced if that is important to you. Overall very nice)
A (Attitude): 9 (very personable, responded promptly and clerarly to e-mails. Phrendly on the phone. Put me at ease. Listened to my interests. Went with the flow.
S (Service): 9 (got what I asked for and then some. Good-to-excellent technique. Nice combination of youth, experience, and vitality. Very satisfying session)
Now on to the BDSM elements that extend the SP criteria to kinksters everywhere....
H (Headspace). 9 (Experienced Punters might say this is the most important element of BDSM. A great physically executed session can be a let-down if the grey stuff between the temples is unengaged. The Puntmeister was carefull to articulate the headspace he was looking for, and Miss Scarlet delivered in a very natural way. Nice. I think she is a very versatile and intuitive domme).
E (Equipment). 7 (Although a full-on toy collection was not evident, what she did have she used very well. I brought a few faves too, and she used some of these with effectiveness. Could use some more leather, chains, and implements of perversion, but the ropes and dongs she used had the Punmeister well dommed. I suspect the current situation is a reflection of short time in the pro-scene, and likely will improve tremendously with a little time, just like a fine cabernet).
(Dungeon). 6 (Not really a dungeon, more like an SP pad, but that was in fact what I was looking for. The intimidation factor of the St. A`s Cross and related hardware would be a nice touch though. Some music would round out the scene too, with say a few NIN CD`s and similar. Funny how a domme`s personality in music can play a significant role in power exchange. But I digress. Miss Scarlets place was quite sufficient, good location, clean, and purposeful. Shower was offerred and accepted post-session. I`d say 190 thread count on the towel, but I could be rusty on this point. Tee hee hee.)
I enjoyed myself, and plan to repeat. Asked if OK to review, and affirmed.
Recommended But PM me first so I can get there before you.