Question for SP ladies...

If you saw breast after breast, 5 to 20 pairs a day every day... how relevant is size going to be to you? I'd say mostly non-relevant unless the breasts are at the extremes of very small to monstrously huge.

These girls see roughly from 30 to 120 dicks a week. If she's been in the biz for awhile, she's seen roughly 1000 to 3000 dicks a year. Based on this, she might be able to give you an objective opinion on the size of your dick compared to the rest of the population, but it sure as hell isn't going to make much of an impression.

I never lie about it, or give a client a bigger ego then they already think they have. If I am asked, I am honest, and sometime's brutally, but hey at least I am honest and sometime's I am thanked for the honesty, and sometime's "sorry I asked"....lol

I've been told I'm big but I know she was just trying to make me feel better. I am decidedly average in size.

My regular right now has honestly told me I am quite average.

Avarice said:

I lie all the time.

Click to expand...

Except to me, right?

I group that in with other little lies and acting abilities that are supposed to boost my ego in the sack. Not that it bothers me necessarily, Lord knows I could sometimes use the ego boost. If she wants to project this fantasy that I'm ripping her cootch to shreds with my humongous dong (even though in truth it's a tad over average) then I won't complain.

i would rather have an sp or a women be honest with me and tell me what they actually feel about my technique,size,etc. i love daty and my first gf made me think that i was a superstar and the next few never really let on that i basically sucked something fierce in that dept. so one time when i was with an sp and she basically lubed my shaft up so that it was impossible to put on a condem. so my loss turned into my a huge gain when i got like a 45 minute lesson in how best to please a women down there. best appt i ever got because i get alot of complinments on my technique now

I wonder about that too. Actually, their tone of voice is a dead give away. If you detect a note of panic they probably aren't BS-ing you. Usually, I take it to mean "go easy" rather than "she wants me to think I'm superman."

Keep in mind all of this is relative. Women who've had kids or who don't have super strong muscle tone are going to feel pretty different than a 20 yr old gymnast. (They all have their charms of course.)

Also, Bigger is definitely not always better from what I've heard.

Another way to know if you're being bullshitted is if after seeing a whole whack of SPs and one suddenly comments on "how big you are!" you can pretty well bet the farm she's full of it (and I don't mean cock). On the other hand, if a majority of them go on and on about how big your package is, then you can be a little smug.

I find it funny that most of the SP's I see say the same thing about me being large , but when I say that compared to all the guys in pornos I'm small they have nothing to say. Its sort of like a guy telling the girl how gorgeous she is when the last SP was much prettier.

is it true

Yes I have had them say the same thing .. you are big ... I figure i am average... ..
If it is tight.. then it is just right
If it is not then you are to small .. at least for the women you are with

And in any case . if you don't know how towork it right and its not doing any thing for the lady .. then it real dose not matter how big it is
AS for how is a man going to know if he is big ..or small
Well I watched a lot of porn .. and i know that the guys there are biger then average .. so it shows on camera... and the ladies are small.
The other ways to see whos got what is at the gym ..... but dose that make you gay..
So it still comes down to what the lady your with makes you beleave.

If you draw blood from hitting her vulva....or if she needs to put a gallon of lube on your dick beforehand, or if she has to take a deep breath before you put it in, or if there is only one position that she feels comfortable in, or if she insists on being on top so she can control the penetration.....perhaps if you experience any of these, then you may be above average size,,,,but it other factors matter to be sexy..afterall, the hedgehog has a 9" dick to go with his hairy back..

ditto - why bother if it isn't sincere....

CalgaryJenn said:

I never lie about it, or give a client a bigger ego then they already think they have. If I am asked, I am honest, and sometime's brutally, but hey at least I am honest and sometime's I am thanked for the honesty, and sometime's "sorry I asked"....lol

Click to expand...

exactly Jenn. It bothers me when ppl think I just say stuff to hear my own voice.....this is real life, live & uncensored.

Not sure what SP's GBM is talking about, but I know very few ladies with those kind of numbers - selling your soul has a price in the end