Ooops.... now what?

flake

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Thanks for your attention and let me tell you that I appreciate your input on this matter.

I was out and about a few days ago and after a good fun filled night we decided to visit a discreet escort agency. What happened then is what is bothering me.

I went down on the escort I had. I asked her before if it was okay and she said yes. I didn't have intercourse with her at all. It was my first time and I was extremely nervous! I ended it after that.

Should I believe her that it was okay to go down on her? I know the agency we visited does do testing on there escorts every often.

There's a chance I could have got an STD isn't there? I want to know what my chances of contracting any diseases are in this situation. I was told to wait 72hrs and see if I get any sores around my mouth.

I know she was clean downstairs. Very clean. It's weird, I know to pay to please her but that's what I enjoy. She told me twice she was okay and not to worry. I'm sure she is std free but this voice in the back of my head is worrying me.

Any input would help me out alot.

Thanks....
 

Walk Softly

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Go back a bit in this section Flake. Health Nurse has covered this stuff fairly extensively. (There's not that many posts.)
 

flake

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That's fine but I don't know the abbreviation for going down on a chick. I see all these other abbreviations but I have no clue what it is for what I did.
 

Verb

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flake said:
That's fine but I don't know the abbreviation for going down on a chick. I see all these other abbreviations but I have no clue what it is for what I did.

DATY is your answer
 

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flake said:
Thanks for your attention and let me tell you that I appreciate your input on this matter.

I was out and about a few days ago and after a good fun filled night we decided to visit a discreet escort agency. What happened then is what is bothering me.

I went down on the escort I had. I asked her before if it was okay and she said yes. I didn`t have intercourse with her at all. It was my first time and I was extremely nervous! I ended it after that.

Should I believe her that it was okay to go down on her? I know the agency we visited does do testing on there escorts every often.

There`s a chance I could have got an STD isn`t there? I want to know what my chances of contracting any diseases are in this situation. I was told to wait 72hrs and see if I get any sores around my mouth.

I know she was clean downstairs. Very clean. It`s weird, I know to pay to please her but that`s what I enjoy. She told me twice she was okay and not to worry. I`m sure she is std free but this voice in the back of my head is worrying me.

Any input would help me out alot.

Thanks....

Hi Flake

I have included some links to the threads were we have discussed the risks of “going down on a lady”. On PERB they refer to it as DATY and it is known as cunnilingus.

Links to threads

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=55826

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=48205

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=41215

In regard to HIV risk I have cut and pasted a section from the Canadian aids society. Sorry that it is a bit long but it gives a good reason why DATY is a low risk but also gives a definition of what low risk means.

Oral Sex: Cunnilingus
There is a potential for transmission of HIV by performing
cunnilingus (licking the clitoris and/or in or around the
vulva) because vaginal fluid and blood can get in the mouth.
However, the mouth generally is a hostile environment for
HIV, because an enzyme in saliva has been shown to inhibit
HIV.

The potential for transmission to the performing partner is
increased if there is a disruption in the oral mucosa caused
by bleeding gums, cuts, sores, lesions, ulcers or burns in the
mouth or by a recent tooth extraction, or other dental work
that causes trauma in the mouth. The risk in performing
cunnilingus is also higher during menstruation because of
the presence of blood. The risk can be reduced by avoiding
cunnilingus during menses using a latex barrier over the
vaginal opening, such as a dental dam or, as an alternative, a
new and unlubricated condom carefully cut open and used

as a barrier between the mouth and vulva or clitoris. It is
also recommended that the performing partner not engage
in oral sex directly after brushing or flossing teeth before
engaging in cunnilingus, since brushing and flossing may
cause temporary bleeding of the gums. The amount of time
to wait varies from 30 minutes to two hours since these
activities can produce cuts and tears along the gum, and
the amount and severity depends on how vigorously one
brushes or flosses their teeth.

Receiving cunnilingus involves a small potential for transmission
because of the possibility of abrasions in the vagina;
these could permit entry of small quantities of blood from
bleeding gums or a sore in the mouth. However, the small
amount of blood likely to be involved in such contact make
this a remote possibility.

Evidence of Transmission
There are no well-designed studies offering evidence of
transmission through cunnilingus. However, the extremely
small number of case reports in which transmission has been
attributed to performing cunnilingus supports the classification
of this activity as low risk.
There have been no documented cases of transmission
through receiving cunnilingus.
Assessment of Risk of HIV Transmission
Cunnilingus (performing)
With barrier . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Negligible Risk*
Without barrier and not during menses . . . . . . . Low Risk
Without barrier and during menses . . . . . . . . . . Low Risk
Cunnilingus (receiving)
With barrier . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Negligible Risk*
Without barrier . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Negligible Risk
* There is enough evidence of breakage or improper use of
barrier methods to classify this activity as negligible rather than
no risk.


They give a good definition of what the different types of risk mean.



Negligible risk
All of the practices assigned to this risk level present a
potential for HIV transmission because they involve
an exchange of body fluids, such as semen (including
precum), vaginal fluid, blood or breast milk. However, the
amounts, conditions and media of exchange are such that
the efficiency of HIV transmission appears to be greatly
diminished. There are no confirmed reports of infection
from these activities.
Potential for transmission . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Yes
Evidence of transmission: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . None

Low risk
All of the practices assigned this risk level present a potential
for HIV transmission because they involve an exchange of
body fluids such as semen (including precum), vaginal fluid,
blood or breast milk. There are also a few reports of infection
attributed to these activities (usually through individual
case studies or anecdotal reports, and usually under certain
identifiable conditions).
Potential for transmission . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Yes
Evidence of transmission: . . .Yes (under certain conditions)


Please feel free to comment or ask us to expand on a topic. Remember if you would like to ask me a personal question just send me a PM.

HN
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