Meaning of SP not disclosing std status?

fanvan

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What does it mean that you ask an SP about their health and STD status and they don't answer, or evade the question? I had this happen and it perturbed me. Could it be a very "personal" question? All she said was she was up for her 6 month check. Does saying nothing imply "has something nasty"? On a side note, what is std risk of CBJ and HJ?
 

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fanvan said:
What does it mean that you ask an SP about their health and STD status and they don't answer, or evade the question? I had this happen and it perturbed me. Could it be a very "personal" question? All she said was she was up for her 6 month check. Does saying nothing imply "has something nasty"? On a side note, what is std risk of CBJ and HJ?
It is a personal question that not a lot of SPs will answer. How does one prove they are free and clear? Perhaps the question caught them off guard or if they felt that you should be asked that same question.
 

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didn't see that coming, I actually agree with CIM

This same issue, asking someone of their HIV/HEP/etc status, has come up on numerous EMS courses I've taken/taught and the answer is always the same. There's a reason they're called "universal precautions". You follow the same protocol with every patient regardless of their known/unknown status.
 

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Damn, you are a funny wise-ass. :) Freud only sucked cigars......


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I think Shaun was referring to kissing an SP

Hep B is one of the few STD/STI's that can be contracted through saliva. I imagine he has chronic Hep B, which remains highly contageous. For most people, hep B just goes away on it's own in a few weeks, and other than building up the antibodies for it and then becoming resistent in the future, they never know they even had it.

However, a few people who contract it will end up with a chronic problem like Shaun - which isn't treatable. So no - I don't think it is right for you to not disclose your condintion. There are many of us who are safe within reason, and have never had an STD or STI. That assumption that we all probably 'have something anyway' is pathetic and shows something about your personality and character. I have no idea what you look like Shaun, but I would imagine that the fact that you are a disrespectful ass probably has more to do with why you can't find a real girlfriend.

Ladies, for the record, you can and should get a vaccination for Hep B - because in something like 5% of cases it does become chronic. Shaun got the short end of the stick initally in contracting it and not managing to shake it(you can also get it from water, unclean utinsils, toothbrushes etc.) but obviously he dosen't have any sort of conscience regarding passing it along to unsuspecting ladies. As horrible as the thought is, there are likely many more 'men' out there who are just as pathetic and irresponsible as he is.
 

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I've been vaccinated for Hep A and B. They will do it for free at the CDC clinics in Vancouver. One's on 12th ave near Cambie another that I go to is at the LGBT Center on Bute at Davie downtown.
 

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Creole Lady Marmalade said:
It is a personal question that not a lot of SPs will answer. How does one prove they are free and clear? Perhaps the question caught them off guard or if they felt that you should be asked that same question.
If you have been tested at one of the CDC clinics I mentioned above you can get test results over the phone during business hours. No reason why you can't have the SP listen in during the call. Unfortunately this is for everything except HIV. But the likelyhood of transmitting that via GFE stuff is relatively small.
 

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I was with a high mileage SP a few years ago, who, when I asked about her STD status, became very angry. She refused to answer the question, "when was the last time you got tested?". I took her anger as a very negative response, and her only words were "I hate that question". I surmised that she had never ever been tested, and that the anger came from being asked that question by many others.

Having been at this a few years and having come to know a few SPs personally, I would have to say that MOST of the ones I've encountered have never been regularly tested, and a great fraction of those have never tested at all. The mentality is that they are afraid to know, and believe that if they confine themselves (with the odd transience) to a few activities, they will probably not ever catch anything. The trouble is, they have unrealistically appraised the risk of those activities. Now having dated (ie: non-professionally) my 3rd SP, I can attest that this attitude is common. Furthermore, most lie about being tested. For example, I went along with two SP-GF's to their doctor, and found out that they had never been tested at all.

The ignorance of those in the SP "profession" is astounding. They are not only ignorant of the facts, but choose to ignore it when presented to them. Why? Greed and laziness.

A sobering epiphany may never occur to most. The money is too astoundingly good, the work too easy that they don't wish the dream to end. They don't want to face that the world is still a place where those who work hard are the ones who deserve the rewards.

Of course, there are exceptions to all this, and I personally know some. That they exist is a testament to the intelligence and wisdom of some women. But it is sad to say that they are grossly outnumbered by the dummies.
 

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Ok I am throwing my .2cents in here and DON'T want to get my head chewed off as it IS after all just a question to ALL the pooners.

How many times and when was the last time "you all" got tested? Although many of the pooners out there always suspect we the sp's are the one's with the STD's. How many pooners actually find the time to sneak away from their S/O to get checked at a clinic? I am not saying pooners don't get checked, but my guess is sp's get checked a lot more often.

If pooner X see's SP's A,B and C, and A,B or C have not been checked, then pooner X could spread something from A,B or C to A,B or C. I think there is a number of pooners who don't get checked, or wouldn't get checked unless they saw a huge boil on their cockhead. At the same time there is a good number of pooners who respect themselves and the sp's and do get checked regularily.It's a 2 way street if we all wanna stay safe.
As I have said in the past posts I do get checked 2 times a month, EVERY month and I don't wait for 3-6 months, as I think and feel for myself and the safety of other's and out of respect that it is faster to catch whatever in that time frame, then waiting for it to be running rampid in my body for 3-6 months til my next check up.

Just MY .2 cents.
 

Sonny

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There are always the good, middling and bad.

In the SP business, the money is significant and addictive, whether the girl is an indie or works in a MP. Who can say that even if a girl had a long-term STD that she would stop work? There are SPs with integrity who would stop, but there are also those who may not. Money can make folks a little crazy and blur social responsibility. Surely the SW situation, with some exception, is rife with desperation and SWs' needs can outstrip care.

CalgaryJenn writes she gets tested semi-monthly out of self-respect and respect for others. This would be the gold standard for clinic checks, which I wager few SPs and johns meet.

Then there are the johns with STDs. Undoubtedly, there are some for whom the small head drive is so intense, they don't care about anyone else, let alone SPs, and want to get off (even BB) regardless of the risk they represent.

I agree with GBM that there are likely many SPs and johns who may not choose to be tested because they don't believe (and don't want to believe) that getting a STD will happen to them.

Still, there continue to be SPs and pooners (including me)... no stopping the world's oldest profession.
 
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