Friction Question for the Ladies

Maury Beniowski

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A lady contacted from Montreal yesterday asking if I knew any ladies who may have some suggestions over a discomfort she has been experiencing on days when she services five of more men, or when the session durations are excessive. She says that even with a generous amount of lubricant, the latex in the condom eventually overcomes the lubricant's friction reducing properties, causing a heat buildup on her vaginal walls that can lead to great discomfort.

My reply initially was to suggest some R&R, but she claims that even that does not improve the situation as the first session afterwards can bring it all on again. My question thus is two-fold... Are there lubricants that perform better under those conditions, and when the symptoms surface, are there substances that can relieve the discomfort afterwards?
 

LonelyGhost

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the second part of your post seems to contradict the first: if it was friction, then lube would help ... but if it comes on with the first time back, then I wonder if she is allergic (or sensitive) to latex? it is becoming more and more common and she may need to try different condoms or get out of the business!

the second is some kind of infection (maybe herpes?) that is triggered by friction ... she may want to consider getting tested for STI's.

finally, is she using a lube with spermicide? some people are sensitive to that and can have an inflammation reaction.
 

Maury Beniowski

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LonelyGhost said:
the second part of your post seems to contradict the first: if it was friction, then lube would help ... but if it comes on with the first time back, then I wonder if she is allergic (or sensitive) to latex? it is becoming more and more common and she may need to try different condoms or get out of the business!

the second is some kind of infection (maybe herpes?) that is triggered by friction ... she may want to consider getting tested for STI's.

finally, is she using a lube with spermicide? some people are sensitive to that and can have an inflammation reaction.
I called her after I read your post. She is clean and tested. Latex sensitivity may be an issue, so she'll check into that with an allergist. This only occurs when she sees many clients in succession, or an individual session drags on. When you consider that a mere fifteen minute non-stop session could total 3,600 strokes, it's not inconceivable that any lubricant's properties could be compromised. And this is what I think is the crux of the problem. That's why I am seeking some suggestions with ladies that have experimented with various lubes. I have heard that Astroglide is good, albeit expensive. The ingredients however are identical to other cheaper formulas like L-D's house brand, so I am leery to suggest it to her. Besides, it wouldn't be availble back East, unless I sent it to her.

It may come down to just buying a whole selection of lubes until she find one that works for her...

Thanks for your input!
 

gravitas

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Maury Beniowski said:
only occurs when she sees many clients
Maybe she needs to have her kitty resoled


On a serious note have her try some of the silicon based lubes.....WAY more durable then the water based ones like KW or Astroglide and still condom friendly
 

Maury Beniowski

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Great suggestion Gravitas!

Silicon probably has some insulating properties, rather than conducting heat like water does.

I hadn't thought of that, but on the surface, it is makes a lot of sense. I'll pass it on.

Any particular brand names?

Thanks for your input!
 

gravitas

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I've used Wet Platinum and had good results.....I like it esp. for going in the back door as its a little stickier then other lubes so you slick up your willy and are ready to dive right in
 

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Hi Maury Beniowski

The suggestion by Gravitas of a silicon based lube is a good start; they do not tend to dry out like other lubes.

If latex is an issue, there are polyurethane male/female condoms available on the market.

If you are in the Vancouver area I would suggest giving Rubber Rainbow 604-683-3423 a call. They specialize in condoms and lube. I have called them on many occasions and have found their product knowledge to be very helpful.

Please feel free to comment or ask us to expand on a topic. Remember if you would like to ask me a personal question just send me a PM.

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Thought I'd throw in a suggestion or two.

My ex had a very similar problem (ahh those blissful days at the begining of a relationship where you have sex for hours). What worked for her was mixing silicone lube with a water based one and this is the most helpful bit...
She bought a large irrigation syringe (tube & plunger minus the needle) and loaded it up with the lub mix and "injected" it into her vagina. Common sense really. If you rub lube on the outside of your/her vagina it doesn't really get in and if you rub it on you/his penis and then slide in most of it ends up on the outside of the pussy as well. This way she can ensure that the inner walls are quite well coated.
 
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