411 - How to protect yourself

vandanz

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So far, the dommes I've seen had ads running for several months (if not longer) before I booked a session, or they had good reviews and in one case she had been active in the fetish community for a long time. So although nervous, I felt some comfort that I was being tied up by someone "established". What if it's someone new or not so well known? Any suggestions to make sure you're safe? What if you don't have a friend that you can tell that you're going to see a pro domme?
 

Annalise Lane

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vandanz said:
So far, the dommes I've seen had ads running for several months (if not longer) before I booked a session, or they had good reviews and in one case she had been active in the fetish community for a long time. So although nervous, I felt some comfort that I was being tied up by someone "established". What if it's someone new or not so well known? Any suggestions to make sure you're safe? What if you don't have a friend that you can tell that you're going to see a pro domme?
Safe words are the most important conversation you can have with your potental visit. Establish them in a timely manner.

The standard safe words are ' yellow ' and ' red '

Let her quiz you on the session you want, but I suggest very strongly that you dicuss it on the phone prior to meeting. If for some reason she doesn't bring up save words then you better.

Yellow means slow down but not stop. It means come check on me but dont stop. It means I need a breath but dont stop. To sum up the word ' yellow ' it can mean anything as long as the Top you are playing with checks in and asks.

Red means ... STOP ... so dont play with that word because your visit is now over. Time to come down and relax, but it's over.

If this is yoru first time playing in this areana, it's best to be prepared for the emotional outcome. You may feel many things while surrendering your body to another person. Blah blah ... I can elaborate if you'd like, just give me the heads up and I will.
 

Skol

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vandanz said:
What if it's someone new or not so well known? Any suggestions to make sure you're safe? What if you don't have a friend that you can tell that you're going to see a pro domme?
Don't let her tie you up or blindfold you until you've gotten to know her better.
 
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