Another Rev of Melody (VE)

CantGetEnuf · Aug 29, 2003

Info:
http://www3.telus.net/victorias-eden/melody.html

Rating:
Look - 8 (very young, she is like the baby sitter you fantasize about)
Body - 7.5 (the photos may have led you to believe that melody has a bigger than a B, but in reality, they are just B, no more no less. Nice soft skin, not tight, but no excessive fat)
Attitude - 7 (good conversation)
Service - 6

Service renderred:
brief ok massage, cbj, mish, doggie

I called VE on a weekday mid afternoon, and was glad to book an appt with melody (my 1st choice - what are the odds of that ever happens). If I remember correctly, they are near downtown (<5min cab ride about CAN$5 tip included) in a very decent appt complex. Greeted at the door by a very young looking girl in top and jeans (very casual - just the way I would imagine).Took me inside to her bedroom, 1st order of business was the donation. She then gave me an ok massage and followed with a cbj. One
thing I noticed about Melody was that she doesn't smoke, but unfortunately for me, kissing was not on the menu :-(. We then proceeded with mish, I tried to play with her soft Bs, but was kept to min for unknown reason.

Ok, I think both DATY and digit are on the menu, but not sure as I am not much of a giver (so sue me). During the session, I did dive down, only to kiss the side of the Y and her thighs (my fetish), and I didn't get any objections from the young lady.

Anyway, where were we? Ok, after mish, I asked for cg, but was not on the menu (this is the 2nd time - 1st with Emily of IB). Due to my lack of knowledge in female anatomy, I really can't explain her reasoning. The young lady said NO, so I complied. We just switched back and forth between mish / doggie until something popped. We laid in bed and talked until the time was up. I quickly cleaned up and left.

Repeat? She is very young, that's an important criteria, but her service level is below par. Based on this experience, I would say NO. I will reconsider until I see more positive reviews on her from this board.

NOTE: YMMV

Cheers,
CGE

bigmoe69er · Aug 29, 2003

Melody

I have mixed feelings about your response to CGE. On one hand I admire the guts it takes for you to reply, but on the other hand I can see how the halo effect has come into play regarding the writing of reviews on this board. The latter is due, of course, to the presence of the reviewees on PERB. Overall, do the positives from this presence outweigh the negatives? How do others feel about this phenomenon? ----Moe

stargazer · Aug 29, 2003

Just my opinion

Moe,

I kinda like the idea of the girls viewing and replying to their reviews for a few reasons...

If a girl gets a poor review it allows her to not only (hopefully)learn from the experience but also to air her side of it. It also gets out there to the girls exactly what it is we are looking for. Either way, I think, a learning experience.

If a girl gets a positive review, I think personally it would be really nice to see a reply like "...Stargazer, I really enjoyed my time with you too...". Of course the likelyhood of someone posting that about me, well....

Whenever I read a poor review (ie CGE on Emily) I always remember that YMMV plays heavily into the comfort, attraction, mood and connection that an SP has with us. You could have 3 back to back reviews of the same person and have 3 completely different outcomes. I personally have been with an SP and had 2 completely different experiences - 1 good, 1 bad. Unless I see a constant trend towards a girl, I'm not going to let 1 review turn me off of seeing her. At the same time, if I see a poor review and see, for instance, Melody responding...hey at least she cares enough to do it. How many times have there been poor reviews that if given the chance to reply, the girl would just shrug and say "oh well".

Hats off to you Melody for responding and wanting to gather the feedback.

My only concern after reading what I just wrote is the distinct possiblity of a nasty exchange due to unhappy SP/Client. I dunno...what do you think?

stargazer · Aug 29, 2003

Good or bad...just my 2 cents worth

RobBC · Aug 29, 2003

Familiar format hehe

Good review CantGetEnuf, I particularly like the format (hehe, seems familiar to me

)

I'd say that my experience with Melody was pretty close to yours, although I'd give her a bit higher marks for service (probably a 7 - 7.5). Just for other people's interest, I was told though when I saw her that DATY was not on the menu.

As for the whole reviewee commenting on the reviewer thing, I'd feel better if it were discussed via PM's myself. Otherwise I think there's a danger of it degenerating into a flame war. If a provider really sincerely would like to know how to be a better provider, then it shouldn't matter if criticisms are discussed privately or not.

As for the "halo effect", perhaps this is a good thing, as I've seen reviews on this board (as well as others) that are way unfair and downright rude to the women. I'm a subscriber to the "treat people the way you want to be treated" philosophy, so if the presence of girls on the board encourages this, I'm all for it.

RobBC

bigmoe69er · Aug 29, 2003

I understand, Melody, and I appreciate your good attitude. I was just posing a rhetorical question concerning the halo effect and the presence of reviewees on PERB. Stargazer responded with some good points. ----Moe

stargazer · Aug 29, 2003

bigmoe69er said:
I understand, Melody, and I appreciate your good attitude. I was just posing a rhetorical question concerning the halo effect and the presence of reviewees on PERB. Stargazer responded with some good points. ----Moe

As always...just my opinion. This would make an interesting thread in itself though. I`m sure that there are many different opinions and concerns out there.

Hmmm....think I`ll start one....

And here it is!

CantGetEnuf · Aug 29, 2003

For the reason pointed out, I hesitated a bit before I
posted these reviews, but then I think it benefits the SPs
(and perberts) if they can see the session from the
customers` pov. At any rate, I am glad I didn`t start a
flame thread.

Melody, 1st of all, thanks for looking after my interest.
I am sure pain wasn`t I looked for, and apologize for
misinterpreting that as your restriction.

To answer your question on what to improve, it`s really
subjective. Kissing is big, very big for me (see my review
on Ashley and Felicity), as such I carefully choose SPs who
don`t do bbbj or smoke (big + for not smoke such as
yourself) so I feel comfortable locking lips with them.

Ttytt, I can get off on just kissing alone, I guess it
brings back fond memory of my teen...

Anyway, what it all comes down to is the understanding
between the customers and the SPs. In my case, I should
have asked VE on your restrictions before I made the appt -
my little head was doing the thinking at the time

and I
definitely don`t want to force the girl to do anything they
are not open to or comfortable with. My objective is a
good time to be had by both of us. And I am quite happy
just to be able to get off. Anyway, my point is you can`t
please everyone as each customer has different demands.
From I can see (on this board), you are already quite a
busy girl. Your service is below par by my standard does
not mean that it`s below par for the next guy.

In my future review, may be I should be more specific on
what I am looking for in a session and better clarify the
reason why I choose not to repeat.

Here are the 10 I gave Ashley and Felicity:

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?threadid=3532

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?threadid=3534

Cheers,
CGE

bigmoe69er · Aug 30, 2003

Melody

Are you referring to all forms of kissing, or just French kissing?
----Moe

chuck1561 · Aug 30, 2003

Just My lil ole opinion

This is in general and not aimed at CGE's review or Melody or anyone in this thread..re SP's viewing and responding..If you look at it from a business stand point..Anyone who is in business of any sort is going to read reviews about their business..that's a given and should be expected..they have every right to do so and respond..just as was done here..to find out how and if they can make things better..I also agree with them straightening things out that are wrong in their defence if things are not as they seem....I mean if something was being said about "You" in your line of work, over the Internet that could have an effect on your income, I think you would want to respond in some way depending on what was being said

just my 2 cents..or am I up to a quarter with this one

ps I also think it would hopefully deter the false reviews from happening, the idea that some have even if only a few, that sp's shouldn't be here and should keep their mouth shut is ludicrous..as long as the review is respectful not nasty or rude regardless of being Neg or Pos and most of all a "Truthful" one, then the reviewer shouldn't care who responds IMHO

bigmoe69er · Aug 30, 2003

Chuck

Who on this board has said "that sp's shouldn't be here and should keep their mouth shut"? I no more agree with such a position than you do, and I do not appreciate my name being mentioned within the context of the aforementioned statement. Please explain the first sentence of your above p.s. regarding who you are claiming said this, and the point you are trying to make with respect to what would "deter the false reviews from happening". Thank you. ----Moe

bigmoe69er · Aug 30, 2003

Hottmama

Are you at liberty to make boyfriend comments because your identity is a secret, or would you do so regardless? ----Moe

bigmoe69er · Aug 30, 2003

Let Me Be Blunt

1) Service providers have as much right to use this board as anyone else, and, in most cases, I enjoy hearing from them.
2) Like it or not, there is often a halo effect resulting from reviewees commenting on their reviews; this stems from a subconscious and/or unconscious tendency to be less than fully truthful in the writing of reviews.
3) Service providers have the right to enjoy their boyfriends and to make boyfriend related comments on this board.
4) Speaking only for myself, I would most likely never see a service provider who makes boyfriend related comments on a review board. Personally, I find it to be a turn off.
----Moe

Janedoe · Aug 30, 2003

Hello, I agree in most jobs you do not bring your personal life to work. However with this being such a intimate job there are things we have to keep to our personal lifes. There are lots of sp's that provide everything you are looking for and I think thats when good communicaton needs to come in, because if you know what you want then the person on the other side of the phone should understand and know what girl would best suits you.

just my two cents

bigmoe69er · Aug 30, 2003

Franklyhuge

You make some excellent points, Franklyhuge! Regarding my #2, note that I did say "often". The halo effect is a scientifically tested phenomenon; it applies just as much to a provider-client relationship as it does to professor-student, doctor-patient, ect., ect. Obviously, the circumstances and dynamics differ both within and between the various categories.
Regarding boyfriend comments, you are absolutely correct, Franklyhuge. In addition to agreeing with your astute comments, it is for me, as I said earlier, simply a turn off. Sexual entertainment, for me, involves having fun with a fantasy and having a certain mystique surrounding the provider. Boyfriend talk and/or overexposure on a review board can detract from this erotic mystique.
---Moe

bigdman · Aug 30, 2003

gents,
since VE has many good SP's who provide above average services and many are very openminded and "extreme" openminded.

I know that Lisa provides very good service with GFE, and Melony also provides GFE. Here we have Melody she also provides very good services (since many positive reviews)
However, did anyone of you visit Anna from VE?? I have not seen any reviews about her services, I wonder how openminded she is ?? Maybe, Luscious can help me out in this...because Anna looks very good to me with that platinum blonde...

Thanks

bigmoe69er · Aug 30, 2003

Franklyhuge

Reviewees responding DO influence reviewers. Is this true in every case? No. Is the reviewer always aware this is happening? No. This is not a question of the poster's veracity; it is a fact of human nature and a phenomenon of the subconscious and unconscious mind.
You and I have made excellent points about "boyfriend talk". Beyond this, it really boils down to individual preferences. Each person is turned off, and on, by different things. Franklyhuge, do you have any comments about board overexposure within the context of my earlier post? ----Moe

chuck1561 · Aug 30, 2003

Big Moe..sorry to offend you

Moe I apologize if I didn't word things correctly..but I have seen it said in other threads throughout the board that... this is a board for the guys and the girls shouldn't be responding to those reviews.. I did NOT say that you said any of these things..My "disclaimer" was my way of saying I was not directing it at you and I obviously did not succeed at doing so.. So I sincerely apologize to YOU.. Iam sorry I will take your name out of that post..
now on that note...just because I can't quote the various threads throughout this board where that sentiment exists does not mean it isn't so and does not mean that it is not true.. All I meant was that if people who may post false reviews know that the lady would have an oppurtunity to post a reply to defend herself it may deter them from doing so.. I still don't know if I have explained that correctly..hope that clarifies things..

ps sorry I took so long to respond to your post Moe..I was at work and just got home..

bigmoe69er · Aug 30, 2003

No problem, Chuck. I was not sure how to take your comments, and I appreciate your clarification. You are correct regarding the fact that such sentiment does, indeed, exist. -----Moe

bigmoe69er · Aug 31, 2003

Franklyhuge

I have no concern. I was simply making a personal observation relating to the correlation between the amount of exposure on a review board and the perceived mystique of a provider in terms of how that could affect desirability. What anyone "reveals" is a side issue not directly relating to the point I was trying to make. I shall continue to shop; your "obvious solution" is unrelated to my question! ---Moe

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