Luxxxe Affaire

Bitchy Women Bosses

sexmaniac

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Now don't go accusing me of having a hate-on for woman or anything, that couldn't be further from the truth but there is a particular group that poses a real hazard to society and to men and that is bitchy female bosses. I just wanted to rant here, I have had it up to here with these assertive, bitches from hell. Where do they get off thinking they are so much better than you and acting like they never make mistakes? Seems like all they do is complain about other people and pout. I hate this crap... Any brothers in perbland share the pain? And how do you cope? Some days you just want to kill them, any ideas on how to get revenge in a discreet way? In a bigger company it is easier to get away with but how about a smaller one? I think these women need to chill out and don't have a hate-on for men, we are not all against you ok?
 

The Bostonian

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I feel your pain brother,

I totally understand where your coming from. You would not believe the bitches out in Toronto. I'm one of the nicest guys out there. I've been assaulted, cursed at on a street, yelled at in church, pushed in a mall, my suit jacket tugged and accused of something I've never done. Funny thing is most of it were done by Jamaican women (I'm not racist, I've proud to have friends from different backgrounds). You should see the old chinese ladies in Chinatown trying to "butt in" in the line to get on the bus.There is no respect any more for men. I think their just trying to compete with their catty and bitchy ways.
My friend, who will do anything to help you was "stomped" many times by women too. He jokingly said he was surprised that he didn't turn gay.
 

noneasgood

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sexmaniac said:
Now don't go accusing me of having a hate-on for woman or anything, that couldn't be further from the truth but there is a particular group that poses a real hazard to society and to men and that is bitchy female bosses. I just wanted to rant here, I have had it up to here with these assertive, bitches from hell. Where do they get off thinking they are so much better than you and acting like they never make mistakes? Seems like all they do is complain about other people and pout. I hate this crap... Any brothers in perbland share the pain? And how do you cope? Some days you just want to kill them, any ideas on how to get revenge in a discreet way? In a bigger company it is easier to get away with but how about a smaller one? I think these women need to chill out and don't have a hate-on for men, we are not all against you ok?
I own my own company and I have two female assistants who I certainly appreciate. But once upon a time I was in a similar situation, I've had bad woman bosses as well as men bosses, both irritated me equally. My personal solution was to take control of my own economic future by quiting and buying a business that was in 1994 and I never looked back.

But I don't know what value you expect by posting a rant on perb. I can't imagine that solving anything, Ultimately you either have to be prepared to to take action to get out of this situation, or you have to accept it.

My personal opinion, is having a job you don't like, or reporting to someone you dispise, just to make a living, is hell on earth. Fortunately I love my job and the control I have.
 

maverick73

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sexmaniac said:
Now don't go accusing me of having a hate-on for woman or anything, that couldn't be further from the truth but there is a particular group that poses a real hazard to society and to men and that is bitchy female bosses. I just wanted to rant here, I have had it up to here with these assertive, bitches from hell. Where do they get off thinking they are so much better than you and acting like they never make mistakes? Seems like all they do is complain about other people and pout. I hate this crap... Any brothers in perbland share the pain? And how do you cope? Some days you just want to kill them, any ideas on how to get revenge in a discreet way? In a bigger company it is easier to get away with but how about a smaller one? I think these women need to chill out and don't have a hate-on for men, we are not all against you ok?
Shall I be honest about this? I haven't been in the "workforce" for a long time, but when I was, and when I observe bitchy female bosses as a visitor as a non-workforce member, I can't help but fantasize about how I'm going to do it to them rough, like in the ass, forcing them onto their knees in their work clothes, grabbing them by the hair and basically fucking their pouty mouths to make them quit the bitchin'... and of course, blowing a load in their face for good measure for being such a bitch and man-hater. It's a powerful fantasy. I remember I was in traffic court 1 time... and the judge was hot but a bitch... finding people guilty and handing down stiff fines... but all I could think about during court was bending her over in her robes and giving it to her in the ass as retribution for all the innocent people she was finding guilty... of course, I argued my way out of mine, but still...

Sh$t, maybe I shouldn't have said that... now people are gonna think I'm some misogynistic asshole that has a hate-on for women... time and place for everything... I like romantic sex, but I also like it rough once in a while.
 

sexmaniac

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There is one important qualifier I think that Maverick has stated, that it may be a turn on if you are an observer but not if you have to deal with their bitchy ways daily. I would like to be in the position as noneasgood, because if you own the company you are in control and you can choose who you work for. Eventually I hope to be in this position. I did not have any particular agenda posting this topic, but maybe just to relieve some stress and here other guy's viewpoints. There is something good about having moral support when you need it. I guess as a nicer person myself, who doesn't believe in complaining and bitching, it is hard for me to understand how some people can be like that. I know their are all types in the world and some people won't change their ways, but it is a real shame that these women don't wake up and ask themselves does anybody really like me? And if people are responding to them negatively don't they consider that as maybe a sign that they need to look inside themselves and change?
 

ace85

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This is funny.

There is one type of woman that annoys the hell out of me.

That is the Fundemental Bitch. It is in her core. She looks bitchy, she sounds bitchy, she is bitchy.

We have had them as teachers and coworkers (bosses maybe), friends girl friends. It is actually simple to deal with them.

You KILL them with Kindness. Just be friendly, because after a little while you can call her on being a FUNDEMENTAL Bitch. Drop some examples of where she had the option but couldn't bring herself to actually be nice.

It is fun, becasue they know they are fundemental bitches, they feel like they can't help it, and they wish they were different.

When you come down on them and point out there most fatal flaw, and show them that you will not be affected by their bitchiness. It is like snapping their spine. It really does kill their will to live and more importantly their desire and ability to muster the energy to be bitchy towards you.

It is like dealing with a BULLY at school, except society frowns on punching the Fundemental Bitch in the face.
 

wildonion

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ace85 said:
except society frowns on punching the Fundemental Bitch in the face.
I'm sure YOU don't frown on hitting women in the face, tho, do you ace?
 

Herb_The_Perb

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sexmaniac said:
Now don't go accusing me of having a hate-on for woman or anything, that couldn't be further from the truth but there is a particular group that poses a real hazard to society and to men and that is bitchy female bosses. I just wanted to rant here, I have had it up to here with these assertive, bitches from hell. Where do they get off thinking they are so much better than you and acting like they never make mistakes? Seems like all they do is complain about other people and pout. I hate this crap...
Thank god that there are no male bosses who ever behave like this.
 

maverick73

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sexmaniac said:
There is one important qualifier I think that Maverick has stated, that it may be a turn on if you are an observer but not if you have to deal with their bitchy ways daily. I would like to be in the position as noneasgood, because if you own the company you are in control and you can choose who you work for. Eventually I hope to be in this position. I did not have any particular agenda posting this topic, but maybe just to relieve some stress and here other guy's viewpoints. There is something good about having moral support when you need it. I guess as a nicer person myself, who doesn't believe in complaining and bitching, it is hard for me to understand how some people can be like that. I know their are all types in the world and some people won't change their ways, but it is a real shame that these women don't wake up and ask themselves does anybody really like me? And if people are responding to them negatively don't they consider that as maybe a sign that they need to look inside themselves and change?
There's really not much you can do except grit your teeth, smile, and treat her really nice. Sometimes, if she treats you REALLY bad and everybody including her EXPECTS you to treat her somewhat badly in return or to retaliate, and you still treat her really nicely, she may be shocked and realize how much of a bitch she is and that maybe she should lighten up. I've known a lot of these types of women.

1. A friend of mine has a sister who is a total man hater. She is over 30, still lives at home, while her brother was happily married at a younger age. I don't know what happened to her, but I think she was deeply hurt by a man in a relationship. At the time, I was attached and had an attractive SO. When this girl saw my SO, she had this "bitch look" on her face, as if my SO reminded her of some girl that "stole her man" or something. Naturally, she didn't like me at first, but after being nice to her, she finally came around. She is actually quite attractive except for the initial scowl on her face and bitchy demeanour.

2. Another old friend of mine also had a sister with what he called "constant PMS." I really have no idea what was up with her, but I tried my best to be nice to her and she was nice to me in person... even though every time I called, she would be in a bad mood and be rude over the phone.

3. I once had a female boss working at a grocery store. She had a husband, 3 kids, and commuted 1.5 hours into work every day! She was always bitchy, but I could understand. She had a lot of pressure on her... working 40 hours a week, taking care of 3 kids, doing most of the housework, etc. She had a military crew cut which is highly unfeminine. I just did my job and kept to myself when she was on.

Since then I've never had any female bosses so it's hard for me to give first hand advice. I would say though that people that are like that aren't born like that. They are a product of their past environments. Just try to be as understanding as possible, and when all else fails, if she is hot, just think of all the compromising positions you'd like to put her through ;). If she's not, well just grit your teeth and smile ;).
 

ace85

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wildonion said:
I'm sure YOU don't frown on hitting women in the face, tho, do you ace?
I would never hit a woman. The comment is from compairing the fundemental bitch to the bully. The best way to deal with a Bully is punch him in the face. Remember Onion back in Junior High when you were bullied contantly and scared to defend your self.

Let me clarify one more time. I would have issue with a man punching a woman in the face.

But thanks for making judgement, or are you trying to find constituants for the "Wild Onion - smack a woman if she doesn't agree club."

Which meets in the same offices as the "Wild Onion Personally Insult someone if they don't agree club."
 

Cinnamon Girl

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I needed to read this thread...perfect timing

I just went through the absolute worst job experience in my entire life because of a middle aged woman, we'll call "cunt opener" more like can't-open-her, she hasn't ben laid in 8 yrs, hence the severe attitude problem. It was Hells Kitchen for 5 longgggggg weeks, I refused to work with her after she yelled & swore & threw things at all the staff, topped off the evening throwing personal insults at me. I quit & was talked into staying "she will be leaving" "I need to get through the summer & there will be changes" "I like you & want you to stay, can you work in the front with the waitress' & the kitchen?" Of course I reply, we'll get through this, I know you are having a tough time, I will work whenever you need me, even on call, I am 10 minutes away. Meanwhile the owner is badmouthing alot of the staff behind their back & mimicking the middle aged menoimpossible nighmare skankerella often.

I take a weekend off to find a letter with my paycheck, no advanced notice, 'due to circumstances beyond my control I am giving seasonal lay offs......thank you for your hard work & devotion, blahblahblah' - she ditched most of the staff, of course leaving the woman who terrorized the entire staff.....others quit on the spot & walked out when working with her never to return.

I will NEVER EVERwork with middle aged women again NEVER LOL or step foot in that restaurant again. you are right Meiko they both need sex!!!!

Instead I started yet another new business adventure this week, the other is a bit slow(I am redoing my advertsing currently)something I really am passionate about.

Mean women should be sent to Saskatchewan (we couldn't keep up with the bus loads hahahahaha)

:)

you ask about revenge.....no need for it, KARMA is a bitch(the place gets complaints often about its food :D ) & imagine how unhappy these women already are to act like that, personal destruction 101.
 

Cinnamon Girl

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name dropping not a good idea

it is in the back woods of Vancouver Island, most locals don't know it, survived on tourism in the summer......between the poor treatment of staff & the food complaints, its just a matter of time b4 it sinks. no assistance needed :rolleyes:
 

lenny

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I will NEVER EVERwork with middle aged women again NEVER LOL or step foot in that restaurant again. you are right Meiko they both need sex!!!!
Send them to PERB...some guys here might be willing to "save" them
from their misery.

1182
 

DJLAW

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i work with the bitchiest woman alive. she is redheaded if that means anything.

thankfully, her husband may be allowed into canada soon and she may "start to get laid."

i hope after he gets his green card, he lets her down easy because id hate to see her in a worse mood after this.

it sucks because everyone in my workplace has to walk around on eggshells whenever she is around.

she is constantly going to management and complaining about this and harassment that.

ive killed her with kindness for years now and she even complained about me once before. she is just that jaded. you cant be nice to her and you cant be rude either.
 

vancouverman

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many moons ago... when I was working on contracts, I was in two places that everyone in the office complained about the boss ... a female boss of course. during my 6 months contracts .... in both places .... both bosses were nice to me. none of the other (full time ) employees could understand it. at both places, they thought I went to bed with them. nope ... I did not ( only once I went with my boss to bed .... LOL ..... I was just after university .... she was a bit older LOL .... as it turned out .... the best career move I ever did LOL )
so ... maybe it is attitude .... maybe as somebody said it before .... pay back her by being nice .... maybe ... with time she will loose her "bitch armor".
IMHO there are no "bad" woman ... just the ones that try to look that way
 
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