Regrets

Rolo Tomasi

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Ever entered the SP's condo/apartment, took a good look at her, not the girl in the pictures or just bad overall feeling, part of you wants to leave, but you stay . . . .
hand over donation . . . . . encounter goes bad . . . . as you thought it might . . . . .once you depart, kicking yourself for staying . . . . .
"I gave her $$$??!!" or whatever the $$ amount was. Vow to yourself, "That will never happen again", . . . .but it will I think we've all been there
Have to make peace with yourself to move on in the hobby. At times, we are our own worst critic. Anybody else can relate??
 

westwoody

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It happens to everyone if they are active enough. It has certainly happened to me.
If you cannot accept the risk factor/ymmv factors buy a blowup doll.
Dealing with people always involves variables and life is not always fair.
 

nightswhisper

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Ever buy something at the store on impulse and hated it when you brought it home?

Ever go out with someone and they turn out to be as boring as wet carrot?

Ever buy something used and it's got a shit load of problems?

Life.
 

Quarter Mile'r

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Well said, and there will never be an end to bad experiences in this hobby.
Now, or ever.




.......................QM'r
 

PuntMeister

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A farmer sows his seeds across the land.
He does not know which seeds will germinate and bear crops, and which seeds will die.
He does not expect every seed to yield wheat—he just needs enough of them to thrive for him to survive.

I do not focus on the duds.

I focus on the gems.

And as long as I find 1 gem per 10 attempts, I can go back to the gems when I want or need to.

Some seeds will die.

It is the way of things.

For miracles to happen.

-Punt
 

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Yes and no because we ( guys) are the ones who are visiting the ladies so... for me, I'm happy they are willing to accept me in. Plus, part of the exciting side is the game of mystery play. Like at the casino. Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose.
Besides and honestly, can't blame people for the way they look or are. Remember that goes both ways for us.
It's the nature of the beast so try and make the best of it.
 

Bridge

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I do not focus on the duds.
I focus on the gems.
And as long as I find 1 gem per 10 attempts, I can go back to the gems when I want or need to.

Totally agree with Punt. Gemology is a great hobby!
 

sevenofnine

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i have never walked out on an sp,

though I felt I should have more then once,
the nice guy in me, I guess, or the pussy, pick one,

and it happens, everyone has a bad day,
even with the two sp's I was a regular with they both have pissed me off enough
I had to keep asking myself what the fuck am I still doing hanging around for

but I have experienced the good times with them, know they can make magic happen
so I chalk it up to a bad day,

that is just it if its your first time with a lady, you don't know if she is really having a bad day,
or this is normal for her,
either way I don't go back if I can't see the possiblilties
 

ddcanz

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right here and now
Less than memorable experiences? Yes.
Regrets? No.
 
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