Reasons Not To See An SP Again

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vanperb

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We've had SP's we've kept seeing till one day something happens and you say "That's it... we're done"
What were those things that made you move on or even retire from hobbying?

Abosolutely no names. I'll start...

  • New tattoo that she thought was hilarious but I found really offensive.
  • Got off midway through the session, got on her phone and ignored me till I left.
  • Spent 40 minutes telling me about her exs and current boyfriend and how they were all deadbeats.
 

Har-Don

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Probably a little more obvious but sometimes one or more of the following:

* Service went downhill
* Prices went up
* Looks changed (weight gain/ loss, tattoos, hair style, etc)
* Just wanted a change
* They retired
 

take8easy

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She insisted that I pay her less than the listed price.
She was adamant that we include one of her besties in the session.
She would book me for 60 minute, but would not let me leave till 89 minute mark.
If I was not able to MSOG , she tried to use the back door method to make me shoot.
The squirting got too much to handle.
 

ddcanz

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I just like more variety. Not usually anything personal about any specific SP.
 

johnnydepth

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For me it's about pushing the limits. Once I feel we have gone as far as we can it's over. Might be after 1 visit, might be after 20.
 

westwoody

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got on her phone and ignored me
SPs taking phone calls and playing with their phone when you are paying them really pisses me off.

Instant mood killer and guarantee no repeat ever.
 

wilde

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Familiarity breeds contempt.

On the other side of the coin, you develop strong feelings towards an SP but deep down you know it can never be more than a client/SP relationship.
 

Gardener

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Dirty incall
Any sign of intoxication
Checking phone during session
Trying to rush the session
 

badbadboy

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Sometimes with an SP you've seen many times the thrill goes for a while. It happens and it's no one's fault. I just give it a rest for 3 - 6 months or so and it is usually pretty good again.

Looking at her phone other than changing a song on her playlist is just rude. I don't go back after that happens.

Mechanical or fake moans - no thanks.

Repeatedly delaying 30 min, 45 min and then trying to reschedule last minute for the next day. Nope.
 

Quarter Mile'r

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with human feelings and emotions.

R&SFTH,
Tim McGee.
And ne'er the twain should meet, in a business transaction.
But we are human so that is a difficult task at best when two people
are sharing the most intimate of possessions.. Each others bodies.

I find topics like this fascinating. Having hobby'd for some 20 years now.
You see and read and hear all kinds of things that happen.
We've all been there fellow pooners where our emotions take over
even when we are paying for it. Quite difficult to separate the two
for sure when it comes to the most intimate of times between two people.

Back to the topic at hand,

Many reasons for sure, some good and some bad.
Worst of all for me was years ago when I got emotionally attached
and after some realization couldn't believe what I let myself get involved with.

It literally can change a persons attitude as well.

Oh yah, last but not least. Loose the phone girl while you are entertaining a guest.
Can't do that? You've lost me as a customer.



.......................QM'r
 

MissingOne

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... I think deep down, I don't even know what I want from SPs...
It would seem that for starters, you want names that begin with the letter "A". Do you plan to work your way through the alphabet eventually?
 
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Cock Throppled

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For me it's about pushing the limits. Once I feel we have gone as far as we can it's over. Might be after 1 visit, might be after 20.
If that's your approach, I'm sure they're all more than happy to lose you as a client.
 

Amuse0ne

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Whenever I don't repeat with an SP it's just because we were unable to make a connection due to a lack of chemistry. I always book at least 90 minutes and I want to take my time, I don't book very frequently so it's always a special occasion for me. That's the hope anyway.
 

Kingpin29

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Familiarity breeds contempt.

On the other side of the coin, you develop strong feelings towards an SP but deep down you know it can never be more than a client/SP relationship.
This speaks so much truth and a main reason for me to consider to stop seeing an SP. Developing strong emotions and having it affect the relationship where some sessions end up being bad rather than good. It sucks when emotions develope and the inevitable personal feelings get in between.

Also being on the phone, for quick glance at time or messages okay fine. But straight up just eyes glued to the phone, that's rude.

Asking for tips, like WTF, I'll tip if I think they deserve it.

Booty calling you, but it's actually cause they had a slow day and want to get paid. It gets annoying sometimes.

Snatching money out of your hands. That's a huge no-no and just unbelievable.

Reduced service, like lots DFK and Daty and all positions with high energy in the beginning then over time only BJ and lazy positions with no dfk and no daty. Basically means time to stop seeing her.
 
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Abbott_

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* No longer praises my Iconic dick
* Underwhelmed with its load.
* Charges way~more than my dentist & as hard to schedule.​


_______:nono:
 

2bfair

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Part way through she says "my pussy is tired, can we change it up as you are my fifth today and i have two more booked." Always book early in the day i learned there.
or one said "I have a bad back so I can't do doggy style or bend over".
one claimed i wasnt hard enough yet to enter semi erect and kept saying it over and over..told her to squeeze the base and she said it was cheating. I am normally hard as a rock for msog. lol.
another ran to the bathroon to spit half way though the bbbj cim that was on her menu. semi ruined orgasm..
 
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