821-***-1200 Most irrational client I have ever met..

xo Heidi Hayes xo

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May 10, 2011
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This client booked on less than 2 hrs notice. After a little back-and-forth and slight schedule modification, we agreed to meet at 1:30. He eventually strolled in at 3pm, completely unapologetic.
I had to contact him every 15 minutes until his late arrival to confirm that he had actually planned to show up and every time I was met with a cavalier, apathetic 'yeah-yeah, on my way. See you in 5' or 'I'll be there in another 10'. No arrival. No call or text to update me on anything'
I asked him to wait a few mins when arrived, as I was starting to believe that he was going to flake - I didn't bother yet with the finishing touches (lighting candles, putting on music etc)
He caused a bit of a stink over this.
When he arrived, he refused to take a shower. Fine.
He paid the session fee and he took me up on my offer of a massage to start.
I asked him to turn over and he demanded that I remove all of my lingerie immediately (I typically like to tease and build up to this kind of thing)
We had been making small-talk briefly. I had mentioned that I had had a gnarly allergic reaction to some hazelnuts I had eaten yesterday scoffed at how annoying hives were (I only had a couple to speak of, which I had concealed effectively with make-up. In fact, they were so minor that he hadn't even noticed them and had to ask me to step in to a well lit area so that he could examine them. This was the first red flag.
Claimed that he wanted to pass on the 30 min session that we were already 10 mins in to and that he didn't wamt to get sick.
As kindly as I could muster, I explained that allergies are not contagious and that I wouldn't ever dream of working if I were sick, as I have a reputation to uphold and that his $200 would simply not be worth jeopardizing my career over.
He nodded and said 'fine, lets do this' and then proceeded to treat me like a rabid animal.
He requested a cbj and then jumped up and started tripping balls when made any kind of contact with his member (duh - I kind of had to in order to get him flying at full mast before I could fit a jimmy on him!)
As I sat there naked having spent 10 mins with him after being strung along for 90 mins, he insisted on leaving with the fee. I told him that I thought he was being unreasonable in all respects, all things considered. He started advancing on my physically demanding all but $40 back. I explained why I thought that was unreasonable and suggested that he just pay me my minimum rate (30 mins of massage) and that he keep the rest. He became quite irrational and continued to approach me in a rather intimidating manner.
I warned him that I felt unsafe and that I would have to call the cops if he came any closer.
He said 'No! I will call the cops!) and I called his bluff.
He took the difference that I offered and was uttering threats and speaking very rudely in a harsh tone as he left.
Total overly-paranoid, entitled jerk.
 

Alix Turner

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Thank you for being kind enough to share the info, and holy crap I am so sorry you had to deal with that (also, way to maintain your composure regardless)
 

PierreCoeur

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I had to contact him every 15 minutes until his late arrival to confirm that he had actually planned to show up and every time I was met with a cavalier, apathetic 'yeah-yeah, on my way. See you in 5' or 'I'll be there in another 10'. No arrival. No call or text to update me on anything'
I asked him to wait a few mins when arrived, as I was starting to believe that he was going to flake -
I am so sorry this happened to you. It should never happen as it shows little respect to you or your time. And I don't want you to take this wrong, but do you know how many times this actually happens to guys booking SP's on the other side of the coin? 1 out of every 5 SP's I visit, I am asked to wait 15 to 20 minutes before being let in their buildings. 1 out of every 10 appointments I make, I am ask to wait 20 minutes to a half hour. And on one occasion I made an appointment - drove 30 minutes to her location and had to wait for over and an hour and a half.

Heidi, you should have cancelled his ass at the 45 minute mark and I should be doing the same when it gets to be 30 minutes or more. We need to respect each other and until that happens there are going to be posts from both pooners and SP's complaining about this lack of respect of time.
 

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I'm sorry to read this, Heidi. Idiots like this are free advertising for men with manners. I hope you're feeling better soon.
 

xo Heidi Hayes xo

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Thanks for the support, guys :)
He is medium build (app 5'10) clean cut, black hair, brown eyes. Looks to be possibly Mediterranean descent (no accent)
Contacted me from a California number, but I sense that he may have been a local.
Lesson learned. There were plenty of red flags before he even walked through the door - and I guess I am guilty of awarding 'benefit of the doubt' too freely, at times.
On a more positive note, I can count my blessings that I haven't had to deal with anyone like him in a handful of years, so there's that!
Xoxo
 

Ms Erica Phoenix

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Thanks for the support, guys :)
He is medium build (app 5'10) clean cut, black hair, brown eyes. Looks to be possibly Mediterranean descent (no accent)
Contacted me from a California number, but I sense that he may have been a local.
Lesson learned. There were plenty of red flags before he even walked through the door - and I guess I am guilty of awarding 'benefit of the doubt' too freely, at times.
On a more positive note, I can count my blessings that I haven't had to deal with anyone like him in a handful of years, so there's that!
Xoxo
THAT.

Major red flag for me too! While I have spent innumerable delightful hours, days & nights with out of town/province area codes, I can say with certainty that if you can't give me a really good explanation for why, I will be off the phone in under 2 minutes. In fact, if I have to ask WHY you have an out of town area code, there's very little chance I'm going to waste much time on the phone. If I have to ask for an explanation before they offer one, I'm awfully suspicious.
 
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