This client booked on less than 2 hrs notice. After a little back-and-forth and slight schedule modification, we agreed to meet at 1:30. He eventually strolled in at 3pm, completely unapologetic.
I had to contact him every 15 minutes until his late arrival to confirm that he had actually planned to show up and every time I was met with a cavalier, apathetic 'yeah-yeah, on my way. See you in 5' or 'I'll be there in another 10'. No arrival. No call or text to update me on anything'
I asked him to wait a few mins when arrived, as I was starting to believe that he was going to flake - I didn't bother yet with the finishing touches (lighting candles, putting on music etc)
He caused a bit of a stink over this.
When he arrived, he refused to take a shower. Fine.
He paid the session fee and he took me up on my offer of a massage to start.
I asked him to turn over and he demanded that I remove all of my lingerie immediately (I typically like to tease and build up to this kind of thing)
We had been making small-talk briefly. I had mentioned that I had had a gnarly allergic reaction to some hazelnuts I had eaten yesterday scoffed at how annoying hives were (I only had a couple to speak of, which I had concealed effectively with make-up. In fact, they were so minor that he hadn't even noticed them and had to ask me to step in to a well lit area so that he could examine them. This was the first red flag.
Claimed that he wanted to pass on the 30 min session that we were already 10 mins in to and that he didn't wamt to get sick.
As kindly as I could muster, I explained that allergies are not contagious and that I wouldn't ever dream of working if I were sick, as I have a reputation to uphold and that his $200 would simply not be worth jeopardizing my career over.
He nodded and said 'fine, lets do this' and then proceeded to treat me like a rabid animal.
He requested a cbj and then jumped up and started tripping balls when made any kind of contact with his member (duh - I kind of had to in order to get him flying at full mast before I could fit a jimmy on him!)
As I sat there naked having spent 10 mins with him after being strung along for 90 mins, he insisted on leaving with the fee. I told him that I thought he was being unreasonable in all respects, all things considered. He started advancing on my physically demanding all but $40 back. I explained why I thought that was unreasonable and suggested that he just pay me my minimum rate (30 mins of massage) and that he keep the rest. He became quite irrational and continued to approach me in a rather intimidating manner.
I warned him that I felt unsafe and that I would have to call the cops if he came any closer.
He said 'No! I will call the cops!) and I called his bluff.
He took the difference that I offered and was uttering threats and speaking very rudely in a harsh tone as he left.
Total overly-paranoid, entitled jerk.
I had to contact him every 15 minutes until his late arrival to confirm that he had actually planned to show up and every time I was met with a cavalier, apathetic 'yeah-yeah, on my way. See you in 5' or 'I'll be there in another 10'. No arrival. No call or text to update me on anything'
I asked him to wait a few mins when arrived, as I was starting to believe that he was going to flake - I didn't bother yet with the finishing touches (lighting candles, putting on music etc)
He caused a bit of a stink over this.
When he arrived, he refused to take a shower. Fine.
He paid the session fee and he took me up on my offer of a massage to start.
I asked him to turn over and he demanded that I remove all of my lingerie immediately (I typically like to tease and build up to this kind of thing)
We had been making small-talk briefly. I had mentioned that I had had a gnarly allergic reaction to some hazelnuts I had eaten yesterday scoffed at how annoying hives were (I only had a couple to speak of, which I had concealed effectively with make-up. In fact, they were so minor that he hadn't even noticed them and had to ask me to step in to a well lit area so that he could examine them. This was the first red flag.
Claimed that he wanted to pass on the 30 min session that we were already 10 mins in to and that he didn't wamt to get sick.
As kindly as I could muster, I explained that allergies are not contagious and that I wouldn't ever dream of working if I were sick, as I have a reputation to uphold and that his $200 would simply not be worth jeopardizing my career over.
He nodded and said 'fine, lets do this' and then proceeded to treat me like a rabid animal.
He requested a cbj and then jumped up and started tripping balls when made any kind of contact with his member (duh - I kind of had to in order to get him flying at full mast before I could fit a jimmy on him!)
As I sat there naked having spent 10 mins with him after being strung along for 90 mins, he insisted on leaving with the fee. I told him that I thought he was being unreasonable in all respects, all things considered. He started advancing on my physically demanding all but $40 back. I explained why I thought that was unreasonable and suggested that he just pay me my minimum rate (30 mins of massage) and that he keep the rest. He became quite irrational and continued to approach me in a rather intimidating manner.
I warned him that I felt unsafe and that I would have to call the cops if he came any closer.
He said 'No! I will call the cops!) and I called his bluff.
He took the difference that I offered and was uttering threats and speaking very rudely in a harsh tone as he left.
Total overly-paranoid, entitled jerk.