Ladies of Victoria.. Scum Bag Alert

AbbyFaux

Abby Faux
Oct 19, 2014
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Victoria B.C
www.abbyfaux.com
I got a call a couple days ago from him asking if I allow e-transfer, it’s not something I normally do but have in the past with no problems. He said his wife looks for cash withdraws and therefor can’t go to the bank and take money out (I realize now, that should have been my first red flag). When he got there he acted like he was super nervous as he has never done this before (I call BS) I assured him everything was safe and we were going to have a good time. We sat down and started the e-transfer right away so i figured this is something he normally does., he asked me email, secret question, etc. and even said he included a 60 tip for the hassle.. Now I know it can take up to a half hour to receive the email but since he booked for the hour, I figure there was a enough time. He basically finished after 5 min then started to get dressed. I asked what the rush was and he just got here and I still hadn't received the email. He said he wanted a smoke but it was down in his car and offered that I come with him until I received the transfer, I agreed. (He has a black escalade btw)

When we got to the car he was complaining that his wife was calling but sat with me to wait for this “email”. He asked every second if I had gotten it, but nothing came in. After a couple mins he excused himself to call his wife, then came back and said his grandma was in the hospital and he had to leave right now. I knew right there he never sent it. I asked over and over again for him to show me the confirmation email and he refused. He kept saying “don’t worry, don’t worry” and “ I sent it”. I made the mistake of believing him, which is something I’ll never do again. I completely understand it was my fault for believing in the good in people. Needless to say, I got played.

I just dont want him to get away with this again with anyone else.. PM me for his name and number

Abby
 

ddcanz

curmudgeon
Feb 27, 2012
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right here and now
Cash on the barrell-head girlie!
We have our red flags to determine whether an SP is on the up and up. SPs have theirs.
No one appreciates getting burned- sorry to hear this fuck-head put one over on you.
 

Claire Monet

Active member
Apr 28, 2014
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Vancouver
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He used your services and did not pay for them. He ripped you off and you can report him to the police. I have been told this directly from 3 different VPD officers and one investigator (mind you this was before C-36, not sure what other ramifications he might be subject to). It sounds like you have enough information about him for the police to find him.

I'm sorry you had to go through that :( Be strong and trust your gut.
 

Slicat

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Feb 12, 2015
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As that old expression goes "In God we trust - all others pay cash" I am not sure about other people's banking/etransfer systems, but I have done hundreds of personal etransfers and it's never taken more than half hour. Most times, less. Any "hobby" related transfers I've done in the past, were a deposit as required. So far it's worked out without problems. I see some people who have the "balls" to pull off crazy stunts, but that's a new one to me. Especially when his whole idenity was exposed.
 

Sweet_Cherry

cherry|soda
Jul 12, 2012
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Victoria, BC
When someone wants to pay me via email transfer, I get them to send it at least an hour before their appointment. I know that this makes people nervous, understandably because there are a lot of scammers in this city, so to quell their nerves I ask that they wait until they arrive to give me the password. You can't deposit the transfer without the password.

So, I have the e-transfer ready for the password when they arrive, so it is done as quickly at the beginning of the encounter as it would were cash paid.

The thing is, some guys think that somehow we will still be able to get the money, even if they don't give us the password. This is impossible. When you go to accept the transfer, you have one chance to enter the password. If you get it wrong the transfer is cancelled. The chance of someone being able to guess a password in one chance is pretty near impossible.

A note for the ladies! Even though you see that the email transfer has been sent, until you accept it and it is deposited, the sender is able to slip off to the washroom, or some such thing, and cancel it! (Thank you to my first rip off client for teaching me that little tidbit!)
 

covalone

Member
Sep 18, 2011
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FYI, I just had an email etransfer take 8 hours. That was from a hotmail account, which I've noticed seem to have a lag time.
 

Sweet_Cherry

cherry|soda
Jul 12, 2012
82
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Victoria, BC
This morning this guy tried to pull a fast one on me. He calls, says it's his first time seeing an escort and that he had called a couple other girls but they were rude (yeah, right, they probably just had him on their black lists already).
So we make an appointment for an hour in the future. Before he arrives, I make sure he knows what my donation is for the "hour or two" he wanted. He assures me he has "plenty of money".
When he arrives at my condo, he introduces him as Peter. He's in his early 40s, about 6 feet tall, blond/redish hair, and has a bit of a farmer look to him.
I say let's do business then we can have some fun, to which he replies that he will send me an interac transfer. I'm skeptical, and tell him that I have been taken by this before and would really prefer cash. He says his wife would question a withdrawl. But not an e-transfer? Nope because he would send it from his business account. I tell him that doesn't make any sense but we go through the motions of him sending me an e-mail transfer, which, according to him, is instant.
He offers me a back rub.
I tell him no fun until I have the money deposited, at which point he starts whining "But it could be a half an hour before it arrives!" What? I thought it was instant!
I assure him that I won't start the clock until then.
He starts to get belligerent when I won't let him touch me.
He gets up and says he is going for a smoke. Whatever.
I'm not surprised when he texts me 20 minutes later to say that he has cancelled the request, because he didn't want to wait. Bullshit. Even if it was cancelled, I would have still received the original email.

Oh, and a quick google of the phone number he contacted me from 250-***-0237 comes up as H** K*** Daycare. Just who you want looking after your children: a guy who tries to rip off hookers.

I've heard rumours that this loser is a member on this forum.

Ladies, we really need to do something about scum like this guy.

I believe 100% in client-provider confidentiality, but guess what? If you aren't paying for my services then you aren't a client.

This guy obviously has no respect for working girls.

No wonder some girls are so negative and cynical, dealing with dickheads like this guy all the time.
 

epicurean_yvr

Long Standing Member
Aug 18, 2006
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Vancouver
When someone wants to pay me via email transfer, I get them to send it at least an hour before their appointment. I know that this makes people nervous, understandably because there are a lot of scammers in this city, so to quell their nerves I ask that they wait until they arrive to give me the password. You can't deposit the transfer without the password.

So, I have the e-transfer ready for the password when they arrive, so it is done as quickly at the beginning of the encounter as it would were cash paid.
That's a great idea, and for more than just the hobby side of things.

Sorry to hear of your (the OP) troubles.
 
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