Ladies have you evern been requested to do the Islamic Way?

susi

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Ladies, Have you ever been requested "The Islamic Way" ?

i received this message and and reposting the content here;

This is 2 sentences they want you to repeat in Arabic.

I was confused and did not repeat but my interpretation was,

A) Once I repeated the words I had converted to Islam but could go back to my own religion once they left.

B) That I was being blessed by Allah.

I did not do this, won't do this and the client left respectively and politely when asked.

Does anyone have any more info on this, guys or girls ? It made me very uncomfortable. I've received this request via text 3 more times this weekend from different numbers but it may be the same person.

I am wondering if there is a reason to be worried about it or if it is no big deal.

Thank you


from susie : i feel like its not likely a threat but is a little strange....could it be that once you convert to islam they can hold you or justify certain things under shria law....? i don't know but it does seem like a bad idea....
 

NataliaBijoux

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I've had this happening alot recently too...
Stating they cannot do anything outside of marriage.
I got requests like this from both a guy saying he's Muslim and another Christian.
I just decline and they stopped texting me.
I thought it was very strange.
 

hornygandalf

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I am very fuzzy on this so may be totally wrong, however, I understand there is the concept of the 'temporary marriage' in Islam, and so by getting married to you temporarily for the period of their encounter with you, they aren't sinning... or something along those lines.

Might be a way around Bill 36 ;)
 

LalaniElectrica

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I have a few Muslim clients, but for me it's more a bdsm lifestyle thing where they are my personal slaves and must do as Mistress commands… In many religions having sexual contact with your slaves is not a sin, or paying for sexual services is not adultery… Not sure what the prayer is etc… Probably a sort of ritual or something… Perhaps there are some Muslims on the board who can comment on this custom? :)
 

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I used to have a few regulars who would request this ritual. I haven't come across it in several years though.

It was explained to me as a loophole of sorts for them. By creating a temporary marriage/union/commitment they were still honouring and respecting their beliefs as they are written.

It isn't a means of converting you, or meant to have you turn your back on your own belief systems. It's simply a way of neutralizing an activity for them. Kind of the equivalent of a Catholics and confession (at least with how people use it today)
 

saurabh

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Hi Ladies,

Well I am not Muslim. But have several Muslims friends from Saudi Arabia. Who have also asked about the halal sex. This is the term used by Muslims, in which you marry for short time to have sex outside of marriage. You may know that as Muslims you can marry four wives legally. but women have to behave like wife during that time and obey all commands of their husbands. it is old school ritual. I would suggest to remain away from it. As Muslims people take their religion took seriously as compared to any other religion. Sometime you may end up as a victim to something big. as In Islam man can divorce a women, But women cannot. So Just a friendly advice.
 

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This is totally ignorant of me. But the way I see it is that it has nothing at all to do with the girl and is only for the man who is actually religious. I would totally ignore it all as the more u pay attention to it the more power it has . the Islamic guy does not expect u to take IIT seriously in his heart it is worth nothing and don't think that Allah is so easily fooled ' and if Allah won't take it seriously then why should u
 

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Temporary Marriage Explained

Hello Everyone,

I would like to explain the concept of marriage in Islam. In Islam, marriage is done in three ways; Permanent Marriage, Temporary Marriage and Marrying your slave.This is mentioned in the Quran, Chapter Nisa (The Women). In Islam a man is allowed to have only 4 permanent wife and the fifth and the sixth and so on must be temporary.


A Muslim man is allowed to marry a Christian or a Jewish woman on a temporary basis.
* That is despite her not being Muslim nor a believer, and her not believing in the permissibility of temporary marriage?
Nevertheless, marrying her on such basis is allowed.

In countries where the majority of people consists of atheists and Ahlul Kitab, i.e. non-Muslims, it is necessary for a Muslim to ask the woman whom he wants to marry about her religion so that he may ensure that she is not an atheist and thus the marriage be valid. Her answer [about her faith and religion] is to be accepted.

- Fathers permission is required if the girl is virgin but If the father withdraws his guardianship from his virgin daughter and considers her independent, after reaching the age of eighteen, as is common in the West, it is permissible to marry her without getting the consent and approval of her father.

- Before the marriage both must agree on the dowry(marriage gift) and the time period.

- The formula for solemnizing the temporary marriage is as follows: The woman says to the man: ““Zawwaj-tuka nafsi bi mahrin qadruhu (x) li muddati (x) — I give myself to you in marriage for the dowry of (x) for the time period (x).” (In place of first “x” mention the agreed dowry and in place of the second “x” mention the agreed time.) The man immediately says, “Qabiltut tazweej — I accept the marriage.”

For a person who cannot recite the formula of marriage in Arabic, it is permissible to say it in a language that would convey the meaning of marriage, even if he can appoint someone to say it in Arabic.

If the sexual intercourse is taken place then the women has to wait 45 days or two menstrual cycle before marrying another guy. This is because if the girl is pregnant than you would know who the father is.


**A Muslim man is not allowed to marry two sisters at the same time. He is not allowed to marry a married women. ***


Masturbation is not allowed in Islam so people that can't get married permanently are allowed to marry temporary by paying her wage(marriage gift).


I'll explain the difference between temporary marriage and fornacation on another day.


Hope that helps.
 

take8easy

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Hello Everyone,

I would like to explain the concept of marriage in Islam. In Islam, marriage is done in three ways; Permanent Marriage, Temporary Marriage and Marrying your slave.This is mentioned in the Quran, Chapter Nisa (The Women). In Islam a man is allowed to have only 4 permanent wife and the fifth and the sixth and so on must be temporary.


A Muslim man is allowed to marry a Christian or a Jewish woman on a temporary basis.
* That is despite her not being Muslim nor a believer, and her not believing in the permissibility of temporary marriage?
Nevertheless, marrying her on such basis is allowed.

In countries where the majority of people consists of atheists and Ahlul Kitab, i.e. non-Muslims, it is necessary for a Muslim to ask the woman whom he wants to marry about her religion so that he may ensure that she is not an atheist and thus the marriage be valid. Her answer [about her faith and religion] is to be accepted.

- Fathers permission is required if the girl is virgin but If the father withdraws his guardianship from his virgin daughter and considers her independent, after reaching the age of eighteen, as is common in the West, it is permissible to marry her without getting the consent and approval of her father.

- Before the marriage both must agree on the dowry(marriage gift) and the time period.

- The formula for solemnizing the temporary marriage is as follows: The woman says to the man: ““Zawwaj-tuka nafsi bi mahrin qadruhu (x) li muddati (x) — I give myself to you in marriage for the dowry of (x) for the time period (x).” (In place of first “x” mention the agreed dowry and in place of the second “x” mention the agreed time.) The man immediately says, “Qabiltut tazweej — I accept the marriage.”

For a person who cannot recite the formula of marriage in Arabic, it is permissible to say it in a language that would convey the meaning of marriage, even if he can appoint someone to say it in Arabic.

If the sexual intercourse is taken place then the women has to wait 45 days or two menstrual cycle before marrying another guy. This is because if the girl is pregnant than you would know who the father is.


**A Muslim man is not allowed to marry two sisters at the same time. He is not allowed to marry a married women. ***


Masturbation is not allowed in Islam so people that can't get married permanently are allowed to marry temporary by paying her wage(marriage gift).


I'll explain the difference between temporary marriage and fornacation on another day.


Hope that helps.
Why do I get the impression that all these rules were created by men. :)

hmmmm
 

Nightnotes12

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How about women? Can a 18 year old girl marry a boy for an hour if she is horny? Or does she become damaged goods if she loses her virginity?
The consent of the father or the paternal grandfather to marry a virgin woman, who is both adult and sensible, is not required [in the following cases:] if they stop her from marrying someone who is her equal in the eyes of both shar’ia and common practice; if they completely withdraw from the involvement in her marriage; when it is not possible to get their consent because of their absence.In these cases, she is permitted to marry, if she is in need of marriage.

If losing virginity is no problem for the girls future permanent husband then there is no damage. In the west majority of the girls lose their virginity when they are sixteen or even younger. This is not the case for Muslim girls because they keep their virginity for their husband( at least the majority).

Someone that performs temporary marriage doesn't need to have sex to lose their virginity.foreplay can sometimes be enough for someone whose horny or even oral sex.

I'm not a scholar but Islam has solution for every problem. People are the one that make things hard for themselves.
 

overdone

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People are the one that make things hard for themselves.
yes, if only as children people weren't stupid enough to be born in the wrong parts of the world, to the wrong parents, then if they only hadn't been indoctrinated into cults they don't have the mental ability to understand, life would be much easier for them later, when they're being told they need to conform to someone else's way of thinking, those from when the world was flat and the earth was the center of the universe, simpler times, aka the good old days
 
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