Side benefits of seeing escorts, Financial smarts.

sevenofnine

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It has been out there, the finicial mess you can get into because of your bad habits regarding this hobby.

I just thought I would put it out there is there a benifit finicially to seeing escorts?

A few years ago, fuck the money that was going through my wallet at an amazing rate. It made my head spin.

Any way I needed to get a handle on this, I work overtime an hour every day.
But just my money smarts has improved,

Before I never really cared, I mean I worked I always worked had car loans etc like everyone, no worries.
But then add seeing an escort on a regular basis well and the fact that I like long sessions
and fuck,
I had a wake up call.

I paid attention to everything finially doing things I should have done years early, getting rid of hi rate credit card debt. Negotiate with the bank on a line of credit on my house and stood fast until the bank gave me the rate I wanted.
I never knew you could negotiate with a bank before.
I would have spent the money anyway, my house was paid for, guys like me show up for work in a corvette convertible or a nice new diesel truck and trailer unit. For sure I would have spent the money one way or another.
My choice I spent it on the ladies.

But I also started paying attention to the stock market, listened to a few guys who I thought they knew what they were talking about,
and despite the fact that I have a standing supper date with an sp, I have managed to build up a small modest stock portfolio still growing.
I manage my families wealth giving finicial advice to my kids and wife, with there stocks.
There doing much better then me.
Because I still see escorts. But my entire family is finically pretty smart taking advantage of the tax free savings account as well as others, thanks to me and well paying a lot more attention to money.

I am one of those guys that never really get down and do anything until they have to.
And just watching a hell of a lot of money go through my wallet has made me a lot more fincially smart.

It helps for sure my house is paid for and have a pretty relaxed and simple, but comfortable lifestyle.
But then that is my choice as well.
At some point material things just get in the fucking way and you become there slave, you have to work to maintain them and pay for them and guess what, its never ending.

Its never ending when I was younger it went from a tent to a tent trailer to truck and camper,
then a cabin with all the toys. Now its a motor home and two vacation properties.
At some point I just said fuck it and got off that rat race tred mill. Because it never ends, whats bigger and whats next.

Money is nice to have, but you spend it on a motor home, the motor home just becomes a fucking headache, because your always running back to the dealer.
And how many vacation properties do you need to own.

Money I think you have to make it work for you, instead of you working your ass of chasing it and being a slave to all of your possesions.
 

UhOh

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That some fuzzy logic being applied in this thread. Wouldn't it be even more financially smart to just stay home and wack off.
Sounds like you got things pointed in the right direction in spite of, not because of pooning.
Just keeping it real.
 

yazoo

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Continuing to keep it real - seeing SP's is entertainment - it is fantasy. To say that it is cheaper than dating is to mix apples and oranges. Watching the Discovery Channel is cheaper than climbing Kilimanjaro, but it is not the same.
 

uncleg

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................improved spelling sure isn't one of them...............:D
 

Sexiaccent

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[Money I think you have to make it work for you, instead of you working your ass of chasing it and being a slave to all of your possesions.[/QUOTE]

Totally agree!!!!
 

sevenofnine

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I think there is a benefit to seeing escorts, and for some it is money well spent. We are for some just a one of the variety of ladies they see to get their sexual sesires met. But for some it is more and it is therapy. The physical touch involved and the emotional. People get lonely and need a little more then just the sex, they need the conversation. Some need to know that they still have it that they can still turn a lady on and satisfy her.

We see men from all walks of life and some are very rich while others are middle class and some even on a pension. If you see an escort and it helps you feel better as a person your self esteem and conidence go up then it is well worth the money you pay.
We hear from clients, they thank us they tell us (in my case anyways) you have no idea what you have done for me.
I am proud to have been here to help the many men I have, when I left the island I was sad to leave my clients behind, they still contact me to say hello. We as SPs make a big impression on our clients lives. It is or some very beneficial.

Money pays the bills buys you all kinds of materilistic things it can also buy you a fantasy and a fantasy is something we crave and need and makes us feel good. It is all makes one a better person.
Not sure if my point is made clear here I am not a pooner so perhaps your question should be rephrased on why men see SPs and is it beneficial to them. Is there or do they feel that they are spending their money wisely by seeing SP's.

If you know how to budget and even put the tiniest amount of money away it will grow in time. It took me working 2 fulltime straight jobs to build a hefty account over 10 years for it to disappear (long story) but now I have time for family and have rebuilt all I had financially not material items in just 4 years. Just need to put priorities together and anyone can be financially stable no matter what type of job they do.
I agree.
Paying for sex is not at all worth it.

Its the feelings you retain when you leave,
feeling good about yourself, having some one to talk to if you need it.
loneliness is gone. Sexual anxiety is gone.
It is money well spent actually.

Or it can be.
You need to practice this hobby in connection with a life.
A full life.

A thankyou Angie your comments.
Like some one made the comment way back, he felt uncomfortable spending money on some one thinking she had drug problems.
Paying some one money knowing they have personal issues or need help. Well I will just leave it there.

But paying some one knowing there helping out family or the community,
or simply they don't want to stand as a cashier at Safeway and get ahead and enjoy some of the finer things in live. Which were all entitled to.
I think for both sides of this money is a tool. Something to put to good use.
 

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What the hell is Finicial ?
 
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