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Why Women are a pain in the ass for Men

Tugela

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see graph# 4: what women mean
And what makes you think you are right and they are wrong? After all, that is exactly what you are accusing them of.

The thing is, men (or women for that matter) might be straightforward with friends, but when they are dealing with someone they are intimate with, the rules change. It becomes awkward. You don't say what you mean, even if you think you are. So, you might say to your buddies, "hey, you know me! I'm allways upfront right?" and they might agree with you. Problem is, you don't behave the same way with women, especially ones you are trying to trick into having sex with you. It all starts out that way and relationships follow on from that, but typically with a deeply dysfunctional level of communication stemming from that initial need to initiate a relationship.
 

luvsdaty

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They're only a pain in the ass if you let them be. As I've grown older,they don't really get to me anymore.If they wanna hang out fine,if they don't well that's okay too.
Watched about 2 minutes of the video & found it(mostly him) boring.
 
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the old maxx50

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I have not found then to be a pain in the ass . as long as they use the stap-on the right way .. LOL

I only know escorts or ex escorts that I have had sex with .. i usually just have to ask for sex i found i can talk to them honestly But I have learnt not to talk about all things ,, a And i find they talk to me like one of there girl friends ,, So yes they are honest , blunt and say what they mean .. But they don't tell me every thing either ..

Now i do have more problem talking to those girls that i do have feeling for ,,and yet .. no where near as much as if I was in a relationship with them .
Then again maybe i just try to pick girls that don't fall under those standard behavior that other women have made an art form of.
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I know it sounds gay
 

chilli

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I would agree 100% that women are a huge pain in the ass for men.

But not necessarily for the reasons he has outlined.
 

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And what makes you think you are right and they are wrong? After all, that is exactly what you are accusing them of.

The thing is, men (or women for that matter) might be straightforward with friends, but when they are dealing with someone they are intimate with, the rules change. It becomes awkward. You don't say what you mean, even if you think you are. So, you might say to your buddies, "hey, you know me! I'm allways upfront right?" and they might agree with you. Problem is, you don't behave the same way with women, especially ones you are trying to trick into having sex with you. It all starts out that way and relationships follow on from that, but typically with a deeply dysfunctional level of communication stemming from that initial need to initiate a relationship.
I used to have a woman friend who was openly bisexual, one day we got on the topic of her dating life. I'd assumed she spent roughly 50% of her time dating men, turns out she spent 80% of her time dating men, so I assumed she preferred men.
Turns out she prefers women
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Her explaination: Women are too high maintenance as GFs, they say one thing but actually mean something else, they're normal 3 weeks per month then crazy for a few days, etc. Men on the otherhand are simple. Give them sex, beer, food, and sports- everybody is happy
I learned a lot that day
 

Tugela

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I used to have a woman friend who was openly bisexual, one day we got on the topic of her dating life. I'd assumed she spent roughly 50% of her time dating men, turns out she spent 80% of her time dating men, so I assumed she preferred men.
Turns out she prefers women
??
Her explaination: Women are too high maintenance as GFs, they say one thing but actually mean something else, they're normal 3 weeks per month then crazy for a few days, etc. Men on the otherhand are simple. Give them sex, beer, food, and sports- everybody is happy
I learned a lot that day
Exactly. She was using her male friends for sex only, there was minimal relationship so all was good. Women on the other hand, those she was trying to form a relationship with, so the issues associated with that came into play.

The point is, if you form an intimate relationship, the rules change no matter who the significant other is.
 

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LOL too funny.

When it comes to male/female communication it is like this:

Women speak with a lot of subtext. The words they say aren't always what they mean, butt hey want o communicate in a way that doesn't make them appear "unladylike." At no time with men do they want to appear like they are bitches or shrews, so they communicate things like displeasure in very passive aggressive ways. They put out more non-verbal and more subtle signals in their communications with each other and with men as well.

Men are the opposite. We try to make our communications in a simple, direct, sometimes belligerent ,manner. Most of the time, the words are the message and all the body language and tone of voice and what not we use to express it is pretty self evident.

Because men communicate the way we do, we often miss the subtext of what a women communicates because we don't read into it too much. Women look for hidden meanings in our communications despite the fact there is rarely anything covert and in order to satisfy their ego, sometimes fabricate stuff to patronize themselves.

Basically, guys need to smarten up and women need to dumb it down when it comes to inter-gender relations.
 

CJ Tylers

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And what makes you think you are right and they are wrong? After all, that is exactly what you are accusing them of.

The thing is, men (or women for that matter) might be straightforward with friends, but when they are dealing with someone they are intimate with, the rules change. It becomes awkward. You don't say what you mean, even if you think you are. So, you might say to your buddies, "hey, you know me! I'm allways upfront right?" and they might agree with you. Problem is, you don't behave the same way with women, especially ones you are trying to trick into having sex with you. It all starts out that way and relationships follow on from that, but typically with a deeply dysfunctional level of communication stemming from that initial need to initiate a relationship.
Why spend time on someone you need to trick into having sex with you? Is it not better spent with someone who wants to be intimate with you? Also, this stereo type is repeated more by married men than single guys out on the prowl. Do married men have to trick their wives into having sex with them? That's not a relationship I'd want to touch with a 10 foot pole.
 

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So what are your thoughts on women who communicate like a man. Direct, inappropriate, to the point. Or a woman who after an O, wants a smoke and fall alseep ? A woman who would prefer to have anonymous sex and leave the love at the door ?

LOL too funny.

When it comes to male/female communication it is like this:

Women speak with a lot of subtext. The words they say aren't always what they mean, butt hey want o communicate in a way that doesn't make them appear "unladylike." At no time with men do they want to appear like they are bitches or shrews, so they communicate things like displeasure in very passive aggressive ways. They put out more non-verbal and more subtle signals in their communications with each other and with men as well.

Men are the opposite. We try to make our communications in a simple, direct, sometimes belligerent ,manner. Most of the time, the words are the message and all the body language and tone of voice and what not we use to express it is pretty self evident.

Because men communicate the way we do, we often miss the subtext of what a women communicates because we don't read into it too much. Women look for hidden meanings in our communications despite the fact there is rarely anything covert and in order to satisfy their ego, sometimes fabricate stuff to patronize themselves.

Basically, guys need to smarten up and women need to dumb it down when it comes to inter-gender relations.
 

HandsomeMan

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The guy in the video is bonkers...though I only watched until he started blubbering about the magnetic, deep space womb...WTF?
 

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So what are your thoughts on women who communicate like a man. Direct, inappropriate, to the point. Or a woman who after an O, wants a smoke and fall alseep ? A woman who would prefer to have anonymous sex and leave the love at the door ?
Never met one.... ;)
 
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