So this is really good? I am intrigued I am down to try most things. Was the girl hesitant or was she down for anything? I think it was be hot in a three way a girl BJ in front and another behind doing DATO but obviously I would not wanna gross her out. It probably is gross but not sure I do not see my asshole very often I wipe and just assume its clean if nothing is on the TP.
I don't know if every guy gets a lot of feeling down there, but for me the intensity of a BBBJ is boring compared to
DATO with masturbation.
Much the same holds true with a fingers massage in that area, whether i do it myself or a lady does it. Although you
might be best off seeing a girl who specializes in massages such as this and/or the prostrate area & balls. In that case
(hand massage rather than licking) there would be less concerns about hair, smell & disease, as implied by Barko's post:
"Maybe consider wet wipes, a brazilian wax and dental dams..."
For a finger touching of the bum areas on and around the anus i prefer a lady with very short finger nails, as the long
ones can lead to a nick & infection, which i've experienced. The anal areas are, i think, more easily damaged than the penis.
Re cleaning prior to SP DATO service, i shower & wash my ass with Johnson's baby shampoo. I offer SP's a sweet smelling
& tasting lube prior to or during the act, but they seldom want it. I also use baby powder on my legs nearby & offer it to
the female to use as she desires. If i feel gas oncoming, i ask her to stop & explain the situation, while spraying perfume
on my body & applying powder. When i have had diarhea i've not requested this service. I've had about 10 different
ladies perform this on me & no complaints about smell, as some of them did this for up to 2 hours in a session. BTW,
every lady has her own DATO style. Also, as it pertains to cleanliness in there, after a BM i take 6 tissues of kleenex, wet
them with water & wipe. If there's any BM materials on the tissues after doing so, i repeat the procedure till clean.
Sometimes the SP will take a small towel moistened with water & do much the same thing. But i'd avoid mouthwash to
clean it as i found it stung quite badly.
As for hair, i've had a couple lickers request i reduce the length there, as it tickles their nose. This is easily done with an
electric body shaver in a few minutes, with no blood or pain. The only drawback i've experienced is minor rubbing of the
short stubble on my own ass. There is likely a number of remedies for this (vaseline?) but i didn't bother.
I've never had a lady use or request a dental dam for DATO, but i imagine it would feel very good anyway. For hand
massages in that area i have them use medical gloves & the feeling is just as strong as with bare hands. Re possible
health risks for the giver & reciever, i don't know if the health nurse has a post on this subject, but the health chart
(under "rimming") and wiki have some info:
http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/sti-risks-chart/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anilingus
One position i have this service performed on me is sitting on the bed with a pillow to my back against the wall, and
two pillows under my bum, to allow her easy access while laying on her tummy or sides. She may also find use of a
pillow, blanket or towel helpful to adjust her height for comfort and or the appropriate level. Another position, which
may be easier on the provider's neck, but harder on your legs, is to be under two pillows at the side of the bed, and
your feet raised to the edge of the bed, while the provider kneels on the floor, on a pillow or blanket, etc