$300 to take a SP to the movies!

InTheBum

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I booked a session last week with an asian hottie. She is 21 yrs old with a tight little hot body and average face. She seemed easy going so after a 1 hr session and putting two loads in her for $160 I ask her if I can take her to the movies on her day off. No biggie I suggest...in fact we can just meet at the theatre if she wants since she only lives a few blocks away. She says okay and suggests her only day off which is Sunday. I then stated I will gladly pay for her movie ticket, drink, candy, etc...I just want her to go out and have a good time on her day off, rather than staying in watching TV and probably dreading the next 6 days of freaks and dorks pounding her pussy into submission!:pound::D:thumb:

We exchanged phone numbers and set a time for Sunday...then just as I am leaving her place she then states, "Oh and bring $300 for my time...":confused::eek::doh: I just replied that I would rather come she her next week for $160 again and pound away, if this is about money. I told her to forget the "date" and wished her a good night.


Are all Sp's super greedy or is it just me????
 

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Welcome to the ugly side of life ITB. It makes me wonder just who these people are in real life ( SP ). Do they have a lower rate for relatives? Do they charge half price to visit a relative in the hospital per hr? Its that cold out there dude.
 

sevenofnine

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of course its about money.

and some of us guys like it that way.

i mean, im married,
believe im well manered enough etc to have an affair,

but i don't feel like lieing to a lady, oh i so love you i so need you and all that, oh im going to leave my wife, just waiting for the right moment,
even if i was single, i could never lie to a women simply to get into her pants.

i don't want an affair or a romance


how many girls do you meet that would just fuck you and simply walk away and never see you again or want anything, it happens, but its rare and the girl usually has some issues of her own.

there is always a medium of exchange, sometimes its friendship or love or the future hopes of love and commitment
in this case the medium of exchange is money, we have sex and she will go away and never hassle me and bug me, and i don't have to promise to love her and be faithfull to her or any such stuff i want no part of.

not to mention you have a girl friend on the side, and she phones your wife or shows up at your house during a family supper
or her husband does at christmas dinner with all your family and friends there and asks you why are you fucking his wife
a true story happened to a guy at work,


like some one said i don't pay for sex i pay them to leave
it makes perfect sense to me,

and a girl is selling her self ok

but your sooo special i won't charge you,
if you want it for free you shouldn't be here, or should look elsewhere.
 

lenny

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Are all Sp's super greedy or is it just me????
I've noticed some SP's websites have charges for social time, e.g. dinner date type of stuff, maybe at a lesser rate
than their usual incall price.

Some SP's will also spend free time with a client they like or are attracted to, especially if he's a regular i suppose,
and not charge for this.

In this case the lady is 21. I don't know your age, but i can imagine she might feel uncomfortable going to a movie
with a guy 2 or 3 times her age. If it were a movie of her choice & one she was planning to see anyway, at that
particular time, that would provide incentive for her to go with you.

Now i'm sure my PM inbox will soon be full of lonely working girls asking to go out with me to a chick flick they've
been longing to see. And I'll only have to pay for the popcorn & tix.
 

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I booked a session last week with an asian hottie. She is 21 yrs old with a tight little hot body and average face. She seemed easy going so after a 1 hr session and putting two loads in her for $160 I ask her if I can take her to the movies on her day off. No biggie I suggest...in fact we can just meet at the theatre if she wants since she only lives a few blocks away. She says okay and suggests her only day off which is Sunday. I then stated I will gladly pay for her movie ticket, drink, candy, etc...I just want her to go out and have a good time on her day off, rather than staying in watching TV and probably dreading the next 6 days of freaks and dorks pounding her pussy into submission!:pound::D:thumb:

We exchanged phone numbers and set a time for Sunday...then just as I am leaving her place she then states, "Oh and bring $300 for my time...":confused::eek::doh: I just replied that I would rather come she her next week for $160 again and pound away, if this is about money. I told her to forget the "date" and wished her a good night.


Are all Sp's super greedy or is it just me????
I'm afraid you ask for too much. As Anita said, you come up with a statement like "two loads in her for $160" and then expect some sort of relationship?? These ladies aren't seeing us because they love us or can't get enough sex from their boyfriends. They are in it for the money. Once you understand and accept that premise, you can move forward. I developed a relationship with an SP a couple of years back but it was at her invitation, not mine and that relationship was built over time, not after one or two sessions.
It's not greed - "It is what it is" :thumb:
 

uncleg

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..I just want her to go out and have a good time on her day off, rather than staying in watching TV and probably dreading the next 6 days of freaks and dorks pounding her pussy into submission!:pound::D:thumb:

Are all Sp's super greedy or is it just me????

......................and you think a relaxing Sunday for her, will be spending time with one of the freaks/dorks that have been "pounding her pussy into submission"?








Yes, it is just you.........:nod::nod::pound::pound:
 

sevenofnine

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i remember a discussion somewhere from escorts why they end up doing what they do.

and a surprising number of them said, hey i like sex, i found myself just having sex with a large variety of men just as a normal part of my life,
and at some point i clued in, i can make money doing this.

girls who are just willing to give it away for free with no love or friendship, are few and far between, just have large amounts of recreational meaningless sex
and the smart ones at some point realize they can make money doing this.
 

Elmore

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This is an outstanding post and reaffirms the reason why that I don't "poon". Simply because, yes, it is indeed all about the money. Don't misunderstand, there are a lot of lovely interesting sps on this board and I am truly fascinated by their pictures and words but it really is all about the money. There's nothing wrong with that as long as you understand, notwithstanding your connection with this woman, she really doesn't want to go to a movie with you because she likes you.

For her, it's what we call "extra billing" in our world. That is, I work in a professional services firm in downtown Vancouver and we are no different than the SPs on this board. We like our clients as we work with them closely but we also sit around the boardroom discussing how we can more $$$ off of them.

Best to you
If an escort genuinely enjoys your company then it is possible that she will spend social time with a client off the clock but that can be a slippery slope. However, some escorts often try to compare themselves to other professionals, lawyers and accountants. But the fact is that even though we are not best of pals, I golf a couple times a year with my accountant...and he pays for my round of golf!! He enjoys a good round of golf as do I and he also values my business. We also get along very well and usually shoot a similar score.

It is not unusual to socialize with a business professional off the clock whose services we use. But with escorts, it really isn't very complicated. Escorts charge for their time...especially since they would rather be somewhere else or with someone else. I feel the same way as most escorts do about the escort/pooner relationship and if an escort wanted to spend time with me off the clock outside of our session, it might be time for me to pull back a bit and not see her as often.

In the case of the OP, she apparently sees your offer as your attempt to get closer to her and she just isn't interested.
 

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Some of you are making this into a way bigger issue than it is.

She isn't interested in dating ITB....thats it.....shocking.
 

crystal.dream

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Not all SPs are like that. I visited a girl, and without getting into to too much detail, we had a lot of interruptions (various reasons) that we both laughed about during our 2 hour session (I only booked for 1hr). We arranged for drinks that night and ended up spending the whole weekend together (drinking, laughing, sex) and it was not bizz at all.
Unfortunately, this only lasted a few months, because she was not willing to look for other types of work, and her bank account was running low (she was not working while we were together, I was not a SD)
 

violetblake

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I wouldn't say all SP's are like this based on my own experiences. I have had drinks etc. with a couple outside of "billed time" and I would say it was genuinely enjoyed by both of us. Don't take one SP's actions as an idication of how they would all react. They're regular people just like the rest of us. Some are in it for just the money and others genuinely wouldn't mind spending time outside of work with a client if the chemistry is right.
Thank you. Yes we are regular people *gasp* and therefore some are in it just for money, some aren't. Just like every other well-paying job on earth.

I'm afraid you ask for too much. As Anita said, you come up with a statement like "two loads in her for $160" and then expect some sort of relationship??
This is a business, this is how we make our living. That being said, some girls are willing to bend the "rules" a little, but ONLY to clients who treat them with respect. Perhaps you should ask yourself if you would fall into that category?

And if she does bend the rules, it should ALWAYS be HER who initiates it. If she doesn't ask you to stay after a session ends, or tell you that you get a discount, assume it's business as usual. Which is not an insult. Most girls, particularly low-volume ones, if they don't like you, they won't see you at all! Just because it's a "business relationship" doesn't mean that she can't still like your personality, care about you, and have fun with you. Because personally, I like all my clients. If I don't like you, I don't see you. So if we were to give tons of freebies to every client we liked, we'd be out of business! Any good business person strikes a balance between running their business so they stay afloat, while still making every client feel special, because the clients I choose to see genuinely are all special and awesome people.
 

blazejowski

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Maybe it's just my point of view, but I can't see how any two people can be friends, if one party won't spend time with the other without the exchange of money. I think the business relationship always takes priority and if a SP can see that a client is confusing that, it is her responsibility to clearly define the nature and extent of their actual relationship to her client.
I totally agree with that - the bedroom & the living room should never mix.
 

blazejowski

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Missy you're fucking amazing. Sexy, smart, articulate, and just amazing! I am so happy to know you! Thanks for saying it so perfectly!
<3
Amen to that... some of you girls make me want to move to BC...
(but for now I will settle for you girls touring!!)
 

PlayfulAlex

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I'm going to go to the Apple store later on this month, maybe get in on the back-to-school sales.

I can't wait to ask for my own personal special deal. Here it is: I already own my 3rd iPhone (with a 3-yr monthly contract), and an 11" Mac Book.

So what I'm going to ask for is a free iPad, because it's my loyalty request.

See, I paid for quite a bit of their hardware and software yet, I don't see why they'd be so greedy as to ask me to pay for the next piece of equipment I want.

It's just good business for them to grant my request and, if they don't, I'll publicly slag them. That should make me feel better.
 

Cock Throppled

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Never mix business and pleasure, even if your business is pleasure.

I'm surprised nobody mentioned the fact the movie was to be on her day off.

Assuming she didn't throw the mention of money in as an excuse to get out of it, then she is greedy and trying to earn $300 on her day off by doing nothing but exist. Maybe she's training to be a Senator or ICBC manager.
 

JClay

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...there is always a medium of exchange...
QFT.

Just happens that what was offered wasn't something she was interested in.

...You should know that you can have a friendship, and a good relationship with a regular SP...
Relationship, certainly. Friendship? Eh... I think I am a little old-school in the way I think sometimes, but to me, I can really count my "friends" on one hand, and have fingers left over.
 

Gentle-man

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We exchanged phone numbers and set a time for Sunday...then just as I am leaving her place she then states, "Oh and bring $300 for my time...":confused::eek::doh: I just replied that I would rather come she her next week for $160 again and pound away, if this is about money. I told her to forget the "date" and wished her a good night.


Are all Sp's super greedy or is it just me????
I said they don't HAVE to, that doesn't mean they can't choose to.

I value my time as well, but I also value great experiences (I don't think I'd consider going to the movies a 'great experience' though) and wouldn't pass up the opportunity to experience something new and exciting because I'm not being paid for my time if I won't experience it otherwise. An example is the sailing trip I'm going on, it's with a client that I get along with very well but I'm not charging him for my time, and he wouldn't have invited me if he thought I would charge.
Really, you are comparing a sailing trip to a Sunday movie with ticket and candy provided?

To Miss Melody, I'm glad you have a client that you enjoy his company enough to spend time with him off the clock and get to enjoy a life enriching experience like a sailing trip. I'm happy that you have the freedom to be able to take the time to take that trip with him... But I wouldn't think you were greedy if you would only spend time with your client if he could/would pay you for it. I would think that you are a busy lady with a full life that had a hard time getting away from friends and family, studying for school or working at another job...

To ITB
Honestly? You tried to ask out a rented date on a voluntary date and she only would go if she was compensated for her time. Maybe she has an SO that is fine with her seeing others provided it's for work. Maybe she actually needs money so that is why she is working. Maybe she doesn't want to cross that line with a paying customer because it could become hard to keep the line between business and friendship at future apts. Or maybe she just ain't that in to you... You asked that's fine if you felt that way, and that's a risky question to ask... but if she says she wants to keep it professional, you have to respect that. If she was figuring a 2+ hr movie with a little conversation before/after... $100/hr for social time... not that out of the question for a professional. Based on the fact that you wanted to start a thread to rant about the fact that she wouldn't see you voluntarily on her day off to relax while dreading the "freaks" she needs to be with without compensation and that you'd rather pay to pound her... I'm thinking maybe she made the right choice.

A women's right to choose extends to all aspects of her life!
 
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Itb you're lucky she only ask you for 300. You sound ultra discusting and probably overweight
 
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