Connecting with one SP versus meeting many?

JohnDoeSmith

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I was wondering what some of the veterans on here think about seeing one SP very regularly versus checking out different SPs. I am still rather noob and was expecting to meet at least of half dozen women before I even started. Women still on my to do list are Kim Capri, Alex Adare, Petite Lauren, Cute Cuddly Chloe, Claire Frost and Vanesssa. I have made contact with all of them except Chloe. But when I was setting up appointments most these women, they were not available for the time I wanted.

Now though I just wanna see one SP regularly. I do not plan to be in this hobby very long I should be doing some military service for an extended time requiring an 8 year commitment. So I will be very busy and traveling over those next 8 years. My long term memory is not good and I can only remember certain things from my past. Anyways I think if I saw only one SP I will be able to retain some vivid memories of our time together in the long term by seeing her regularly for the next 5-6 months. Versus seeing many different women I will probably soon forget what they even look like. So my goal on seeing just one SP is to gain some great memories while becoming closer to her with each session.

Seeing many different SPs seems to have many positives as well. I would get to see many different women and be able to appreciate their different personalities, backgrounds, ethnicity and bodies of course. There is also a chance I may connect with a different SP even better. Maybe find one that finds me extremely attractive. All kinds of possibilities out there. It would be nice to hear from the pooning veterans if they have any input on this dilemma. Keynote, doing both being a regular to one SP and seeing many as well is not an option for me.
 

JohnDoeSmith

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I think regular as in we can both expect to meet each other around the same time whether it be once or twice a month. Like the beginning, middle or end of the month. But try to make a consistent schedule. I am leaning towards once a month to have more time allotted for us in a single session.
 

JohnDoeSmith

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Recently I have been been wondering about other members of the board (borko, Badger, Tant and Yaletownguy) and why they like seeing a numbers of ladies.
I would also throw in mikem1 in that group but he's retired. I would like to thank him he pretty much laid out much of my To Do List with his thread reviewing all the women he has been with. He gave me confidence in deciding who to see because I believe we admire the same type of ladies. I prefer independent women and a lot on his list were Fox Den ladies so a no go for me.
 

rhydogg

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Fact of the matter is that they are not always around or available at times you want to play..
When I started I wanted to see as many ladies as I could, now I find the best way to keep myself happy is to have a small select list to go back too, that way 1 of them is usually around and you don't get too attached which is something you should consider as a variety can help in all aspects..
I rarely venture out of my list now, too many disappointments for me and I know I leave happy every time I book!

Great topic as I wondered others opinions on this as well
 

sevenofnine

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honestly there is no right answer is correct,
there are lots of great women out there, but i have mostly seen one.
others i have liked have been touring ladies or moved on,
and this one particular lady just keeps pulling me back

like a post i made on her recently, she is not the best sp out there, she is not even some one i would see if i could only poon once a year,
there is something about her, that i miss when i see other girls.
she is has become a friend, there is fun chemistry between us.

and the sex i think she keeps notes on me, other girls are very dominate or have a routine they seem to go through
with her and me, the session is tailored to me, what i enjoy. it is very nice,
and i think there is sex that you pay some one for and i think there is sex that well happens when your very comfortable with some one emotionally and intimately,
it is just different, when you have been with some one along time and your friends. hard to explain your just so very comfortable with each other naked and rolling around.

emotions if you see some one regular do play a part or can
and i guess it depends what your frame of mind is and were you are in life,
but honestly its normal to like some one be friends with some one care and perhaps even love.
what defines us is how we handle with it. but maybe if you poon only once a month for a short period of time it won't be an issue

one think i noticed is you focus on her, sexually i mean,
when i think of sex i tend to thnk of her, her body, i know it, its familiar

so if that is what you want memories to see you through long stretches maybe,

just a thought,
i have noticed i prefer to poon back to back then take a break,
the memories the feelings get reinforced i mean if you poon twice in a short period of time

good luck
 

blazejowski

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Honestly there's no right answer. Maybe a happy medium is to pick 2 of the ladies off your top list, see them both once, and go from there.
Exactly right... I like to see as many new ladies as possible, but I have my 2 regulars that I see, well, regularly... lol...
 

Georgieboy69

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Exactly right... I like to see as many new ladies as possible, but I have my 2 regulars that I see, well, regularly... lol...
Personally I believe most veterans have some sort of regular that they like to see be it one, two or more lol. It probably does not seem that way as most of the veterans don't write a review every single time they see someone, I know I don't but then again I consider myself a newbie :)
 

blazejowski

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Personally I believe most veterans have some sort of regular that they like to see be it one, two or more lol. It probably does not seem that way as most of the veterans don't write a review every single time they see someone, I know I don't but then again I consider myself a newbie :)
Exactly... I wrote my initial review for my one regular (after my first time), and I don't see the point of retelling the story over and over.....
 

newatit

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I have to agree with Jessica James, as she was one of my regulars, for quite awhile. We had some great times and some wonderful memories. Alas a time comes to move on, but Jessica and I remain friends and get together when it works.

So otherwise, my main thrust has been long term relationships. Have had a couple of those going at the same time, so not meaning you have to be tied to only one. You will find some sps satisfy one need and another looks after a different need, so just alternate. Like I have one gal who is pretty steady, not into kissing, but that good at the rest. I have another gal that I am quite content to have a long time kissing session with, sex may or may not happen, depends..
 

JohnDoeSmith

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Thanks for the conversation guys I have also consider if I start to see many SPs I will find other ladies I like a lot and have some tough decisions about who to see. I prefer the the ladies that cost more because I feel they will be more picky in their clients and perhaps less prone to getting STDs because they are probably more likely to turn down money from a dirty client. Also I like quality time usually 2 hours so if I happen to find some great girls I wanna be regular with my stash will be sapped pretty quickly. I think more than likely I will stick with one lady once or twice a month until either she retires or I leave for the military. Hopefully it will end with me leaving and not her retiring. Anyways thanks for the input.
 

blazejowski

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How will you know what's out there if you don't try more than 1 or 2?
Another good point... I have probably pooned over 20 times this year, and I would say half of those were with my 2 regulars, the other half with new girls... I like a healthy mix...
 

JohnDoeSmith

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While I understand what you're saying, please do not assume because a girl charges a certain amount things will be flawless. While girls can be pickier in a higher price bracket (and the price itself does it's own little form of screening) it doesn't mean she's 100% guaranteed to be clean/perfect/anything of the sort. So you have to take the same precautions you would with anyone else. STDs are NOT visible so it's not like we can look at a client and go "hmm dirty money, sorry you're gonna have to leave" ;)
I hear what you are saying about not being able to detect most STDs but I personally think I have better odds with pricier ladies because they probably take care of themselves more compared to the really cheap girls posting on BP and stuff trying to make a quick buck and they probably get regular check ups more often I hope. I unfortunately became a fan of BBBJ so unfortunately I am more at risk. I got my first official STD test a week before I was with my first SP and clean as expected since I was a virgin and I think if I begin a regular monthly visit with one I will probably go for a check up after each visit.

As for the military service, I appreciate the thanks but from my current position I do not believe I will care if I am given praise. To me it is going to be a job with danger just like many other jobs out there firefighter, police officer, etc. I am very athletic in good physical shape so I think I should do something with my physical abilities to help others. Anyways it is a fairly certain thing I will join. I went to college got a degree in Biology thought about med school but I did not like schoolwork and was not sure if I could go a bunch more years of schooling. With my degree I did not like most job options available to me and I have never had a job so I am kinda limited on my choices and the military seemed right going for officer no enlisted.
 

newatit

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once again, I will support Jessica James, she is absolutely correct, price has nothing to do with STD's at all. You might be assuming that std's are related to the quality of client, and therefore the higher the quality and price asked by the sp, the better the chance of no std's. But the guys who visit her will often like the local skag just for a laugh or for the lack of protection supplied by the higher cost SP. she isn't any better protected by charging the high price, Jessica is right on. You need to be vigiliant. right Jessica?
 

Gentle-man

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Basic high school level economics, higher price either from higher production cost or from higher demand than supply. Some ladies cost more because they provide nicer incall, higher end lingerie, better hair/makeup etc... some cost more because their time is limited so it needs to be really worth their while (reduced supply = higher price)... and sometimes it is because the demand is so great they can't keep up so they raise prices to slow down the amount of work and still bring in the same income...

You might think that higher price means classier/cleaner client... but perhaps those that can pay the higher price can afford to play around more often, sometimes in not so safe ways... You can't equate price to safety, there are too many variables.

No matter where you play, or who you play with, play safe... life is short, don't make it shorter!
 

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But I will add this and it may piss some people off I charge more because the guys that pay lower rates are often NOT DESIREABLE AT ALL. They can be rude , disrespectful major hygiene issues and have a blatant disregard for my space and my feelings. If I have to charge $500 or more to get a better client I will . I currently charge a low enough rate $300 to start that almost 100% of the time I have a fun and highly erotic respectful fun. The men I see are really awesome and I'm grateful I get to see such quality people. Price for me weeds out assholes .
Xoxox
Jessica
Well said!
 

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I would like to weigh in on this topic, as well.

I found the ladies' discussion about how they set their rates very interesting. It is one answer to the seemingly endlessly asked question, "Why do SP's charge so much?" My answer has always been, in so many words, "Because they can. Because there are some men who will pay whatever a woman asks." Not everyone wants to drive a Rolls Royce. But, enough do to keep Rolls in business.

Now the other line in this thread was, "Do I see a regular, or go through many?" Again, there have been some fantastic answers. But, it comes down to one thing. "What is your comfort level?"

My first 5 - 6 years in this hobby I went through many women, and played with only a couple multiple times. Then, within a very short period of time, I met two women with whom I really connected on a personal level. For reasons I won't go into, I REALLY connected with one of the two, and became friends with her, and that friendship lasts to this day, although we don't see each other often these days.

I saw this lady every couple weeks for quite a while, and my time with her was truly GFE. In a way, I did fall in love with her, although it was never going to go anywhere. But, even though I saw her regularly, I still allowed myself to play with others, including the second woman I mentioned above.

There is no right or wrong answer to this question.
 

SeekSteadyRegSP

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I was wondering what some of the veterans on here think about seeing one SP very regularly versus checking out different SPs. I am still rather noob and was expecting to meet at least of half dozen women before I even started. Women still on my to do list are Kim Capri, Alex Adare, Petite Lauren, Cute Cuddly Chloe, Claire Frost and Vanesssa. I have made contact with all of them except Chloe. But when I was setting up appointments most these women, they were not available for the time I wanted.

Now though I just wanna see one SP regularly. I do not plan to be in this hobby very long I should be doing some military service for an extended time requiring an 8 year commitment. So I will be very busy and traveling over those next 8 years. My long term memory is not good and I can only remember certain things from my past. Anyways I think if I saw only one SP I will be able to retain some vivid memories of our time together in the long term by seeing her regularly for the next 5-6 months. Versus seeing many different women I will probably soon forget what they even look like. So my goal on seeing just one SP is to gain some great memories while becoming closer to her with each session.

Seeing many different SPs seems to have many positives as well. I would get to see many different women and be able to appreciate their different personalities, backgrounds, ethnicity and bodies of course. There is also a chance I may connect with a different SP even better. Maybe find one that finds me extremely attractive. All kinds of possibilities out there. It would be nice to hear from the pooning veterans if they have any input on this dilemma. Keynote, doing both being a regular to one SP and seeing many as well is not an option for me.


Unique about your post is the emphasis you give to what might be best termed "future hindsight".


Strange about the military is the way those who comprise its ranks are extra inspired to have someone waiting back on their own shores, perhaps just as a coping mechanism. To see it somehow applied to working girls, and in particular mere memories of working girls, is unique.


I don't think there is a really clear answer to your question, yet I think that as you made your way through such a to-do list, you would land on one random member of it, and become inspired to see her over and over again vs. keep checking them off.

Indeed fate will probably create an answer FOR you.
 

sevenofnine

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a comment or two on prices

have you ever just stood out in front of wall mart in a run down part of town enough said


and from experiance women appreciate it if your not cheap with them
i like longer sessions and i have tipped and bought gifts,
plus i have i think or i mean i have tried to give the lady and enjoyable evening not just bang away at her all night long,
enjoy her company her conversation her friendship as much as anything physical that we do
and be honest and geniune about it.


in all honesty they appreciate it.
kindness friendship as well as you spending money on them
and that is not meant to be derogatory
it is a job for these ladies
and who doesn't want to get paid

but you know if it works out win win for both of you,

but like everything the devil is in the details
 
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