Flabby bodies

Spencer57

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Gentlemen
Like many of you ( and some of you on your way) I have spent a respectable amount of time and resources enjoying the company of many women in Vancouver (and because I travel frequently-other parts of North America). I qualify location because your comments are welcome regarding the standard we encounter compared to other regions of the world-regarding SPs. I believe in being respectful, punctual, clean, etc....and also keep myself in shape.
That should set the context for my question:
It has been in the recent year that I am encountering a lot of "flab", "baby fat" , "chubbiness"-whatever you call it, alarmingly from younger SPs......Yes there are some attractive, fit ladies out there and they know who they are because I spend a lot of money to see them. But the quantity is low, the quality even worse. Please tell me I am alone in this feeling, I may be having a streak of bad-luck.
If we are paying hard earned cash-why are these ladies not fit, trim, athletic even?
We are in the act and I catch a glimpse of the mid-section(belly)...jiggling more than it needs too-Damn!- I won't name names...
Perb is where I can make this observation.

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Dickson

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Interesting observations.

I can say from my travels right in Europe that the stable of SPs is changing and I think it has a lot to do with demographics. Clients are older and SP are older. Yes there are younger ones out there but there are more catering to the older guys like me.

My Fav agency in Berlin has seen thier stable of ladies change a great deal. Both in numbers and in quality. In Vancouver my all time fav agency for years was Scarletts and the last few trips to Vancouver was a nightmare as the ladies were subpar in every department. I did find one at Carman but I just learned she is no longer in the business.

The world is changing and so is the hobby. I donot expect it to get better only more difficult to find the right SP.
 

sevenofnine

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i have always wondered why more sps don't take better care of there bodies, i mean that is how they earn there living.

there are some hot sps, out there don't get me wrong, but

you know it might be part of the lifestyle,
i mean my job, i sit on my butt, work long hours, tend to eat junk food, it requires a good deal of effort for me to get motiviated
and well i had cancer and both parents died from life style issues, so i can motivate myself, i walk and cylcle and work out.

but sps, she works from laying on her back, lots of computer time and waiting around for things to happen. i imagine it can be very time consuming and just laying around or checking on the computer emails siftiing through and replying, i would imagine it takes some will power to get out there and work on your body.
 

Jethro Bodine

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While I'm not about to criticise any SP's size or shape, your observation is correct with regards to society.
While we humans come in all shapes and sizes and as I tell my daughter, it's what is inside that is important, a very high proportion of young people these day are in very poor shape. Just look around next time your out in public.
I can easily say I'm in better shape than 75% of the guys out there 1/2 my age.
I look at it from a health perspective and it is very sad to see we are truley becoming a society of "fatties".
I have a buddy who is a GP and he tells me it is not uncommon to see 240 lb, 10 year olds on blood pressure medication. :doh: (Their parents should be charged with child abuse:mad:)
 

Dgodus

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i have always wondered why more sps don't take better care of there bodies, i mean that is how they earn there living.

there are some hot sps, out there don't get me wrong, but

you know it might be part of the lifestyle,
i mean my job, i sit on my butt, work long hours, tend to eat junk food, it requires a good deal of effort for me to get motiviated
and well i had cancer and both parents died from life style issues, so i can motivate myself, i walk and cylcle and work out.

but sps, she works from laying on her back, lots of computer time and waiting around for things to happen. i imagine it can be very time consuming and just laying around or checking on the computer emails siftiing through and replying, i would imagine it takes some will power to get out there and work on your body.
Don't forget if you've got a job which requires you to use your body alot of times during downtime you just wanna rest your body.


On another note. Looks are only important (for me personally) for initial selection, repeating is gonna be based on how she treats me and if I can get along with her persona she uses - and of course ability:clap2: One of the best looking sp's I met stopped being attractive at all after she talked for 5 mins. Half way through the session I was wondering more about the football scores than was paying attention to what I was doing.

I think good sex is more about enthusiasm and being comfortable. That's what I'm looking for. I'm just gonna run through all the playmate bunnies and penthouse pets first. Besides my nose has been broken four times and I'm missing a tooth I never had - who the fuck am I to be judgmental on someone elses looks.

A perfect body doesn't make her a great lay or a nice person. Guess that was all I had to really say huh
 

*emmanuelle

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Shameless self-promotion alert!

I'm just gonna butt in here to say that I am hardbody with 5% body fat and am totally fit and toned. Not everyone's cup of tea, but if that's your thing, I'm your girl :)


 
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i have always wondered why more sps don't take better care of there bodies, i mean that is how they earn there living.

there are some hot sps, out there don't get me wrong, but

you know it might be part of the lifestyle,
i mean my job, i sit on my butt, work long hours, tend to eat junk food, it requires a good deal of effort for me to get motiviated
and well i had cancer and both parents died from life style issues, so i can motivate myself, i walk and cylcle and work out.

but sps, she works from laying on her back, lots of computer time and waiting around for things to happen. i imagine it can be very time consuming and just laying around or checking on the computer emails siftiing through and replying, i would imagine it takes some will power to get out there and work on your body.
Holy, you are going to the wrong SP's if all THEY do is lay on their backs !!!
 

Holly Taylor

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While I'm not about to criticise any SP's size or shape, your observation is correct with regards to society.
While we humans come in all shapes and sizes and as I tell my daughter, it's what is inside that is important, a very high proportion of young people these day are in very poor shape. Just look around next time your out in public.
I agree. This isn't really about escorts not staying in shape, but about our society in general. I think people have lost touch with food. They don't cook as much, and as a result they are buying pre-prepared, processed, fattening food.

I have also noticed that people view things like caramel, whip cream lattes as "coffee" when they should be thinking of these items as "dessert." Foods like chocolate, wine, lattes, and so on can be completely fine in moderation, but should not be consumed every day (unless you exercise a LOT).

I am naturally on the thinner side, but I am still very careful to watch what I eat and exercise a few times a week. If I didn't, I think I would probably put on 20 pounds pretty quick.

Staying in shape is important for health, not just appearance. I have a goal to live to be 100, so I want to make sure I stay in excellent health!
 

Marissa Lee

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When I was working in the industry, I was never only 5 percent body fat like Emmy but I have always been a runner and have very toned legs. Many clients told me that I was a bit too toned for them and that the liked women who were more soft and round. I actually had to curb my running due to this.

I guess there are men who like soft women, hence why some SP don’t feel the need to tone up.
 

chilli

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If I was a guy I would take flab over an emaciated nutcase who hasnt eaten in a week ANY DAY ANY TIME.
But your not.

Most normal men are not attracted to Big Beached Whales.

I for one get physically ill even thinking about sleeping with a fatty.

Given a choice between an overweight woman and a bitch/bimbo/drama queen/nutcase who is in shape I'd rather be alone.

I'd certainly never pay to sleep with someone overweight.
 

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I like to show this video around whenever I get the opportunity. I am fortunate enough to be in a career which encourages and rewards people for being in the best shape possible, but I like this video because it demonstrates that people do not have to make drastic changes in order to enjoy happier, healthier lives. It won't turn you into the physical manifestation of a Greek god overnight, but it certainly can do wonders to the quality of life some people lead and maybe function as a gateway to greater changes in the way one thinks, eats, and moves through their daily life.

<iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/aUaInS6HIGo" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
 
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Spencer57

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Emmanuelle:eek:h my goodness!...where have you been?...yes you are my girl. This rant/observation has turned into an opportunity to meet a gorgeous lady......talk soon-kiss
 

Devo

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My observation is that people generally have the body that their metabolism gives them. When you see a thin person don't assume that they eat healthy and get regular exercise.

Conversely when you see an overweight person don't assume that they sit on the couch watching TV all day eating nothing but junk food.
 

threepeat

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My observation is that people generally have the body that their metabolism gives them. When you see a thin person don't assume that they eat healthy and get regular exercise.

Conversely when you see an overweight person don't assume that they sit on the couch watching TV all day eating nothing but junk food.
My observation is that when I get fat it's cause I ate too much and didn't exercise enough, and when I lost weight it's because I ate better and exercised more. There will be exceptions, but for the vast majority it's as simple as calories in vs. calories out.
 
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One important thing to remember is that a person's metabolism slows down as he/she ages. Unfortunately, we forget this and do not cut down on our calorie intake. The result is more weight on our body. I now exercise 3 times a week, and am cutting down my calorie intake. I am slowly losing weight, and feel a lot better.

And Odette, that is a very sexy picture. You are an amazing-looking woman!
 

sevenofnine

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just to be fare i was at a party this weekend,

and i noticed how round and chubby guys looked thirty years or twenty five or so years younger then me,\

i think its just a general malaise in the population,
the conversation was busniness money, and stuff, and well if your well todo i guess part of that is enjoying it good food drink, etc, just a lazy excess type of lifestyle.
in contrast with a buddy at work fifty nine and had trained for iron man competitions for the last thirty years, he is not rich never wanted to his passion his health and fitness, holds several records and wants to write a book, the converstions was health and fitness family and following your dreams.

and sorry if offended by saying sps laying on there back, i hope you all caught my drift, its not very physically demanding is what i meant

and personally i don't mind heavier sps. i guess you have to make accomadations though,
i did sixty nine with a heavier lady, she almost smothered me.
 

Horse99

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You can either develop healthy living habits, the earlier the better, or you can experience a cardiac event like myself as your wake up call......I'm only 49, but had an angina attack on thanksgiving and ended up getting a stent installed....I dropped from 205lbs to 184lbs, basically gave up drinking and pot, exercise more, eat less, more fruits and vegetables.....can't do much about genetics though....The downside now, is that I am much more aware of other people's body shapes, and yes, there are too many fat people out there, just waiting to be a burden on our health care system.
 

Elmore

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People can say what they want about society in general but let's get real. A male or female stripper can't walk on stage unless they look great. Their livelihood is closely associated with how well they take care of their appearance. Looks are not all that matters when it comes to escorts but it is definitely one of the more important things to most men. Escorts understand that as well. That is why they spend much time on hair, makeup, manicures, etc. It's really not a huge sacrifice to throw in 30 minutes of daily exercise.

That being said, men are attracted to a variety of different looks but it seems spinners or athletic women seem to be in greatest demand.
 

Fillup

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I'm a flabby guy myself. I have fallen into some bad habits in the last ten years and haven't gotten the exercise I should.

Over the last 20 or so years I have developed a taste for the fleshy ladies. I love the big butts and boobies that usually come along with being over weight. I check out heavy ladies on the street and even enjoy the occaisional BBW porn movie.

I'm equal opportunity though I also check out the fit ladies, the skinny ladies, the young ones, the old ones, the asian ones, the black ones, .................
 
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Ok I just have to say this ... I'm really into fitness too and being healthy. I'm not huge into junk food but I do eat too much. I love to cook and I love to eat, fortunately I love to exercise too ... just sometimes though I get thinking too much and find 'going to the gym' kind of strange. Here are all these people using this equipment which is designed to give our bodies the look that we don't have any machines/cars. It's kind of strange. We have evolved so much that we don't get much exercise in our day to day tasks so we have made all of this equipment to make it look like we still have to do all this hard work. Sometimes I have to fight my mind and force myself to do all of this physical stuff because it all seems a tad self absorbed. I mean I still do it because I too want to look like I walk and run everywhere and lift all these heavy things in my life but it's just weird. Anyone know what I mean ?
 
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